What are your thoughts on the backpack leashes for kids?

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Q. You know the ones that sometimes have animals on them & the kids wear them like backpacks but it has a "leash" attached to it that you hold so your child doesn't run off. What are your thoughts on them & have you ever used them on your kid & was one ever used on you?

One was used on me a few times as a kid but I never wanted one used for my son. I would like to know that I can control my 2 year old without one. But my mom took him today & she decided to stop by a Walmart & buy one so now my son is walking around on a leash. When I told my Dad what my mom had done he was not happy & said "he is not a animal" & I agree.
@ K- my mom is 43 years old.

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before having a hyperactive son, i was against them, however, i have used one on zachary when it was me, him, and the new baby and we were out and about together, simply because he would like to take off and it is difficult to chase him adequately and carry a baby carrier. This was only necessary once and he hated it, so the next time we went out, i told him if he was good we wouldnt use it, he was on his best behavior lol

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What is your favorite "baby-wearing" sling?

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Elliott's

I am looking into getting a new one, my son is almost 1. I have gone through three different slings/carriers, he outgrew some of them, the others were hard on my back. Had a front carrier sling when he was an infant, then switched to the backpack styles (like Bjorn), but now I am looking at maybe a Moby, Peanut Shell, K'Tan, Kangaroo Carrier, etc...

I am kind of sick of wasting money on ones that don't work/hurt.

Advice, tips, especially for older babies? Which carrier do you prefer?

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We had some issues with hating carriers after a short time (especially since our son, born tiny, has ended up being rather large.) It's only recently that I figured out that if you GO to Baby's R Us and ask a manager, they will send someone over to the carrier aisle to unpack and let you try any carrier they sell. It takes a while, obviously, but we brought our son and really took our time over it this last time.

We were looking for a backpack and ended up buying the Kelty TC 2.1 and could not be happier with it - I know you're not looking for a backpack style carrier, but if your baby is getting over 20-22 pounds, it's worth checking out. It is very adjustable, and acts basically exactly like a hiking pack, except with a space for a baby.

What's the one must have baby item for new parents?

verdict

My wife and I are having a baby boy in April and I wanted to know what is your opinion of the must have baby gear/item for new parents. I'm not talking about a crib, or a bottle or things like that, I want something that new parents wouldn't think of.

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so I'll list my favorites in order of recommendation:

A baby sling - assuming this is your first child (or even if it's not), you'll probably go through at least a short stage of wanting to have your baby constantly with you. A baby sling is the perfect solution. You can hold your baby right next to you, be completely comfortable, and still have both hands free. The other great use for a sling is if your wife wants to breastfeed. I was able to nurse my daughter in a sling while sitting or standing, and my version actually had a cloth attachment that maintained my privacy during (while I personally have no problems with women nursing in public, some places do - and not all nursing moms are comfortable exposing themselves). My best advice if you get a sling is to go somewhere that you can actually try them on. While some brands are more reputable than others, this is definitely something you want made to fit you. And when your baby's older (at least able to hold their head up), I would suggest switching to a backpack style carrier (front/back or both) since these do a better job of distributing their higher weight.

A travel crib/playpen - I plan on skipping a real crib altogether with my next child and using one of these instead. It works just as well for sleeping up to the age when you'd typically buy a toddler bed anyway, it's smaller, it's portable (Grandma's willing to babysit? Great, we're all ready!), and higher end models even have a relatively high changing table and bassinet for babies up to around 20 lbs (which is great when you're a new mom and your back constantly hurts anyway). Plus, you can get a very nice model for under $100, as opposed to the hefty price of a new crib.

A diaper pail - unless you're planning to take out trash ever day, religiously, these really do make a huge difference. You may not notice any smells at first, but as soon as you start feeding that little one real foods, expect to need noseplugs. A high quality diaper pail helps with this problem tremendously (though don't expect miracles - I've never heard of one that completely eliminates odors, but they do make a huge difference). I'm sure someone out there would disagree with me, but my biggest advice on buying one of these is to skip the Genie!! I have known numerous people who got one and they have all been extremely disappointed. Plus it takes specialty bags which are pretty expensive. I'd stick with the cheaper Diaper Champ, or if you want something nicer for a fancy nursery, the Diaper Decor.

A carrier carseat - ok, so I know a carseat qualifies as "required items" (aka not what you're looking for), but I can't even begin to count the number of times that my daughter fell asleep in the car, just to wake up when we got to wherever we were going because I had to unstrap her from the carseat. With a carrier, you can remove the carseat from the base, leaving your child still safely strapped in place - and blissfully asleep. (Trust me, there's nothing worse than a baby who's cranky from being woken up but too well rested to go back to sleep. This was especially horrible when trying to keep her quiet someplace like church.)

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What stroller would you recommend?

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Kaydi

I just found out that I am expecting my 4th. I have a 2 1/2 year old that'll be 3 shortly before the baby is due.

What kind of stroller would you recommend for the infant & toddler?
Obviously, I know a double stroller.... which one?

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My two year old hates strollers always had so I hadn't bothered with a double stroller. I kept playing with the idea of a sit 'n' stand but if the toddler is in the stroller its either because he's sleeping OR he is misbehaving.

Then I finally had to go grocery shopping without my hubby or car and I wasn't up to putting my 10 month old in the backpack carrier so I dragged the double stroller I got for free up from the basement. It was a death trap (jolly jumper) but my toddler *loved* being in a stroller with is brother. And of course winter is coming.

I hear great things about the BOB strollers but they just aren't in the budget. So it came down to the Graco DuoGlider or the Graco Quattro. The Quattro is a bit nicer and it is a bit less long when folder (but I think the 20% claim is pretty far wrong) but its thicker when folded). The Quattro has shocks and a couple of extra cup holders but no tray for the front seat (two cup holder OR a thin padded bar but not both). The DuoGilder was on sale and the Quattro was just not "twice the price" nicer.

The only complaint to so far with the DuoGlider is that the handle is a tiny bit high but then again I'm 5'2". Some people prefer the quattro because the handle dips in the middle so you can sort of pick your handle height (then again you can't lean on it). Oh and the quattro is 10lbs heavier (29 lbs vs 19 I think)

The Quattro gets slightly better review but some reviews who have had both prefer the DuoGlider.

Anyway in the US the DuoGlider is I think about $100 normal price and I don't think you can beat that for a double stroller with a cup holder for everyone and lots of other neat features.

whats a good sling for a summer baby?

two july b

What's a good baby sling to use for a summer baby?
comfy and cool...i also have a 2 yr old so ill need something sturdy while im chasing my first kid. is the sling the same as a carrier? should i get one of each or one that can hold a newborn and an older baby?
thank you were about the same height but i weigh more..

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the two most important things to ensure a good carrier/sling is: SIze of the Parent, and Weight of the Child. A great sling will be of no use if it doesn't fit.

price was not an issue to me so I can't remember what I paid for what, but you can find most of these on eBay if you are not picky regarding the color.

I have purchased (and been given) a total of maybe 6 slings and carriers. Heres my review of them
btw my Post partum weight /height is 126# 5'7"
(I will rank them at the end)

HOTSLING - I got size 3 (way too big for me) and my son hate it, always did, from 8 wks old, at 4 months old, he freakin hates it. My sister is very small (5'1" and about 110#, she bought size 1 and her son enjoyed the ride there). pros - very compact for travel, lightweight. cons - one adult arm is constrained so your are limited (can't fold laundry etc); and my son hated it but it was the wrong size and he fell too low.

MY BABY NEST (available at www.babiesrus.com online) - this uses the concept of a wrap around tie sling but you don't have to tie it. you just slip your arms though and wrap the waist belt around you and under your babies bum. (I got a medium, and even called the company rep and she told me she was the same size as me and she uses a medium). Again, I needed the small. My son sinks too low and it pulls on my shoulders and back. THIS IS PROBABLY THE BEST TYPE WRAP SLING THAT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE TIED OR WRAPPED EACH TIME. It's a pretty amazing little invention, just get a size smaller than you think you are b/c the spandex material is very very stretchy. Pros - comfortable for both mommy and baby if you get the right size, baby can be worn front, back and hip. cons - material stretches out after about 10 minutes of wearing. My husband also says it looks gay and he won't wear it.

SLEEPY WRAP - also a great wrap and my son actually likes this one. It's not that difficult to tie but does take some practice. The pros: comfortable for baby, can wear front/back/side, and one size fits all. Can accommodate toddlers as well as infants cons - also stretchy material, cant' really wear more than 30 min

SlingLing - nice and cool. some babies/parents don't feel secure with it

BABY BJORN - structured type carrier, pros - simple on/off. I can do it without other adult helping. my husband will wear it. baby worn in front but can face parent or outward. cons - not as comfortable for parent when baby weighs 20 pounds or more. can't wear on back. has metal in the clips so you have to take it off when you go through metal detectors at airport.

DEUTER - a great concept if you are over 5'7" tall. I am right on the borderline of this being comfortable. it's basically a backpack that has a seated compartment for an infant/up to maybe a 24month old. Pros - don't have to carry a separate diaper bag, Baby sits in more of a seat like position, good for Disneyland / going on long hikes where you don't want to carry a purse/other bags. Cons - not for short people, or even average height person, also remember it has a full back pack built in. This is a bit of overkill for just puttering around the house.

AND THE WINNER IS:
Ergo Baby Carrier.

Pros - baby can be worn front side and back, newborns (with special insert) and 3 yr olds fit comfortably in it. can purchase a separate small backpack to attatch to the carrier
very comfortable to both parent and baby

cons- it's kinda thick but that's what makes it comfortable. They were designed in hawaii and it's pretty hot there so I think it's ok for summer use.

some people complain about the price. I say better to buy one good one than go through 5 others before you find this one (but in all honesty the My Baby Nest one is awesome but I was just told the wrong size to buy - mis informed by customer service employee).

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What would you do differently?

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rainbow

I'm going to be a first time mom and I'm doing a search about all the things that are really necessary in my baby's nursery room. If you have to do it again in what you would spend money or not at all? Besides my questions I appreciate other comments/suggestions that you can add. Thank you.
Newborn:
1. travel system stroller vs Snugrider Snap n Go or else?
2. Crib and Nice bed vs Convertible Crib?
3. Bassinet, Infant Rest or Moses Basket. How many of you put the baby to sleep with you?
4. Baby slings, carriers or else
5. Someone mention that they put a small radio, monitor and a tv. Do you think is something necessary?
6. Diaper Genie or similar vs just a regular trash can?

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I would never buy a quilt set for the crib. They just don't use quilts when they're little.

I would get LARGE receiving blankets. They're great for swaddling. If you learn how to swaddle correctly (see the Happiest Baby on the block, or the associated video) you won't need a swaddling gimmick which just costs money. By about 2 months old, we stopped swaddling our little guy's feet and by about 4 months, he was out of the swaddle all together (Over time I weaned him from it).

We got just a regular crib. I figured if we have another baby, that baby will need the crib and we'll get a bed for our first born.

I didn't get a travel system. We bought a good stroller with big inflatable tires because it can go ANYWHERE (It's a BOB Revolution stroller). I was told to NOT keep your baby in the carseat when not in the car because it can affect their spine (which can ultimately affect their digestion and movement) so a travel system is pointless. We got a convertible carseat by Britax. He can stay rear facing in this seat from birth to whatever age. We're keeping him RFing until at least 2 yo.

I got a used bassinet from a garage sale for $10. It had a vibration mode which was great. It was a great purchase since I lived out on the couch for the first 3 months (that way I could watch tv while I breastfed in the middle of the night - each session was about 45 minutes long). I did bring my baby to sleep with me during the days, when my husband was at work but not when he was home since he's a very deep sleeper.

I LOVE my baby slings and wraps and backpack carrier. I made a moby-like wrap, I bought a maya wrap and I bought a Phil and Teds Metro backpack carrier used. The moby was fantastic for very early on. The maya wrap was great to use when going shopping. You can also seat them in it facing forward, which is nice once they get older. I started using the backpack when my son was 3 months and still use it now (15months). We can interact much more than if he were in a forward facing stroller, which makes both of us happier. Also, now that he's walking - he doesn't want to be in the stroller as much but he'll gladly stay in the carrier so I can get more done.

I would have been more paranoid has I had a video monitor. A friend of mine lost her son (same age as my son) from SIDS at 4.5 months. I got really crazy with checking on my son after that - it would have been way worse if I had a monitor where I could have watched him ALL the time. I do have a cd player in his room and I ALWAYS play music for him before he goes to sleep. He asks for the music now and has just started picking what cd he wants to listen to before bed. Music + crib + sleep sack = sleep time... which brings me to:

Sleep sacks. I have been putting him in them since I stopped swaddling him and so once he sees the sleep sack, he knows he gets story time, milk time and then it's down for bed. I love the sacks because then you don't have to have a blanket in the crib at all, which for us is great because my son throws it of himself right away but then would get cold (especially in the winter).

I don't have a diaper genie - just a garbage with a lid. I also mostly cloth diaper although we use disposables at night. It's a little stinky but I didn't see the point in getting one.The lid blocks the stink enough.

I suggest getting a lot of picture board books - with just one picture per page. My son loves those books and we started looking at them really early on. He started to recognize pictures of dogs and cats and babies at a very early stage and would smile. Now that he's 15 months, he 'reads' to himself a lot. He still looks at the very simple board books as well as more detailed one too (he still doesn't get to have paper paged books when 'reading' to himself yet because they would be all torn up lol). A good collection of board books and/or a library card I say, is a must.

Are you going to breastfeed? I highly recommend Jack Newman's Guide to Breastfeeding, Revised Edition book. Also, find out where lactation consultants are located just in case you need to use one. I highly suggest at least getting a handheld pump so you can have a little time to go out and someone else can parent/babysit. I also suggest getting bamboo breastpads.... if you aren't planning on breastfeeding, just ignore ;)

I would not spend money on a wipes warmer, a bottle warmer (especially if you're breastfeeding), a fancy bassinet, an expensive pack 'n play, a fancy swing, a vibrating bouncy chair. Both the swing and the bouncy chairs are hit and miss for babies - my son didn't like either.

I would be a highchair that changed heights, a travel chair (if you visit a lot), and a baby bouncer - it'll give you some place to put junior when they're more mobile and you have to pee. I hate our exersaucer though - they're loud (thank goodness it was given to us! I would have been so upset had I spent a fortune on it lol).

peanut shell vs. Wraps>>>?

CuTesT!

Which is best?

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I like my Hotsling, which i think is the peanut shell you're talking about

I have a "hotsling", a "new native carrier", a "baby bjyorn" and the "infantino sling rider"... here's what i have to say about them

the hotsling... i like the best. my son is 5 months old and i use it to carry him on my hip. when he was smaller (he's 22 lbs now) i used the other carries, and was able to nurse him while chasing after (well not running, but able to move while nursing) a 2 and 3 year old.

the new native carrier... mine never fit right, when he was little, but i can still use it for the hip carry. i like the strechyness of the hotsling better.

baby bjoirn... i assume is similar to your snugli but it hurts my back too much except for when he was like 10 lbs. my son got too heavy to ever really wear facing forwards comfortably, but i could see it being great.

infantino sling rider... worked well for when he was under 18 lbs and sleeping, he never liked it awake

Do I have to use an approved car/booster seat on Alaska Airlines?

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lachburke

I am booked on a flight on Alaska Airlines next year with my 1.5 year old. He is flying on a full fare adult ticket not a discounted infant fare (usually 1/2 price). Both our tickets are points tickets (Perth through to Vancouver on Qantas then Alaska AL). Qantas does not require a booster seat for children in their own seat, even if they are under 2 (ie. infants) so I was not planning on bringing a car seat as I am travelling alone and will have enough to carry as it is. I read on the Alaska AL website that "children travelling on 50% infant ticket seats must use a booster/car seat approved for car and air travel". I'm wondering, given that my son will be travelling on a full fare adult ticket whether he needs the booster seat? What will they do if I don't have one, not let us on the flight? Or, shall I just lie and say he's 2 - or just board the flight with him in his own seat w/out booster and they will assume is is two and not longer an infant and therefore no booster required.

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My 6-year-old has now flown on 242 flights and my 2-year-old on 40 flights. Mostly on Alaska Airlines so I have a bit of experience with this.

As a lap baby (unpaid), you definitely don't need a car seat. Some airlines like Northwest are real pricks about not allowing you to use one even on a flight with lots of empty seats. Whereas Alaska is one of the most baby-friendly airlines we've used and will let you use an empty seat for a car seat even though you paid nothing. I'll reserve a window-aisle combo (leaving an empty middle seat) towards the back of the plane to increase the chance of getting a free empty seat. IF someone does buy the seat between, they ALWAYS want to get out from between mother-child or mother-father passing a baby back and forth.

Without a carseat, you will need to have them in your lap for take-off and landing. They might want you to pick them up during possible turbulance as well. What you propose is no different than the unpaid lap baby who has an empty seat next to them. I can't imagine the flight attendents caring except during take-off and landing and then, (despite the physics involved), Mom's arms suffice. (or a car seat)

But I would reconsider your plan. Again, I've done this A LOT, and we try hard to BRING the car seat, not leave it or check it. Of course the car seat is safest in a crash, but Quantas has never had a crash and Alaska only loses planes about once every 20 years. More importantly, a child can sleep in a car seat much easier because it is sloped and their head is suported on both sides. And your arms will get TIRED of holding him for 18 hours of flight time. And if he gets into a total screaming, kicking fit about being overtired, jet-lagged, etc, you can strap him and pop in a pacificer. For some kids, being secured down helps at times. Sure, it is one more thing to schlepp through the airport, but you could always use a rental cart for $3 or call for one of those electric carts the old folks use. At 1.5 years old, I'd bring a Baby Bjorn front carrier so you can have him on your chest and leave your two hands free. One for the car seat and one to present tickets, passports, etc.

For your carry-on, use a backpack/rucksack. Baby in front, backpack behind, car seat on one arm, one hand free. I've gone through many airports and countries that way. So has my wife. Yeah, it is easier with two adults, but doable as one.

Try hard to save nursing or a bottle for climb-out and, less so, descent. The swallowing helps clear his ear pressure.

Theoretically, they can ask to see a US FAA approval sticker for airplane use on the carseat (they all have it), but any nation's approval ought to fly. And Alaska doesn't check all that often.

You'll need a car seat to drive with him in Alaska until he is 4 years or 40 pounds. And while airplanes rarely hit moose, cars and taxis do.

Please tell my wife that it is NOT illegal to ride our babby on my motorcycle as long as I have her hooked in?

S.Lexi Bee

the papoose/backpack thing that would let the baby lay snug to my stomach. I WILL have my helmet on. Our daughter is 9 days old and not big enough for a helmet.


Is this illegal or not?

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How bout you ride a Lear Jet and see what its like to be little and have your head and body bob up and down...

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How much on average, do you spend on your 5 year old's school shopping?

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kiwiandmic

My son starts kindergarten and I'm trying to do a budget, so my question is, how much did you other parents spend on school shopping( clothes and supplies)

Thanks! :)

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my nephew starts this fall and this is the stuff besides supplies we got him

School Backpack - $19.99 (the cheaper ones seem to rip) so we thought we would try this http://www.target.com/J-World-School-Backpack-Blue/dp/B002L9OJ1Y/ref=sr_1_23?ie=UTF8&searchView=grid5&qid=1274823443&frombrowse=0&fromGsearch=true&node=1038576|1287991011&keywords=bag%20packs&searchSize=30&id=J%20World%20School%20Backpack%20Blue&searchBinNameList=purchasing_channel,subjectbin,target_com_age,target_com_gender-bin,target_com_character-bin,price,target_com_primary_color-bin,target_com_size-bin,target_com_brand-bin&searchNodeID=1038576|1287991011&searchRank=target104545&sr=1-23&searchPage=18

eBags Slim Lunch Box - http://www.walmart.com/ip/eBags-Slim-Lunch-Box/12534794 $19.99


he will go all day.

we buy a few $5.00 t shirts

Boys' Organic Cotton Graphic Tee $5.00

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Faded-Glory-Baby-Boys-Organic-Cotton-Graphic-Tee/12574950

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Faded-Glory-Baby-Boys-Organic-Cotton-Graphic-Tee/12574944

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Faded-Glory-Baby-Boys-Organic-Cotton-Graphic-Tee/12574932


Wrangler Cargo Jeans we buy 2 pair of the blue and 2 pair black.

http://www.walmart.com/ip/WRANGLER-ZACH-CARGO-JEAN/13012734

Uneaks Boomerang Shoe in Black / Red with Alex, Marty, Melman and Chimps Ankle Socks Set

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Uneaks-Boomerang-Shoe-in-Black-Red-with-Alex-Marty-Melman-and-Chimps-Ankle-Socks-Set/13137232

we do buy a few new underwear

Hanes - Boys' Knit Boxer Shorts, 3-Pack $7.66

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Hanes-Boys-Knit-Boxer-Shorts-3-Pack/10773854

Where to find cute back packs?

Sarah The

I am almost 16 and I need a good backpack for school. I need to find one in store. Not online. Does anyone know a good place to get backpacks that are cheap?

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i know this might sound stupid because no one really by back packs there but target got them cute ass back backs all of a sudden and baby love they are selling FAST!!!!

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How to pack a good baby diaper bag ?

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Bambi

I have entered many websites about baby diaper bag like nacobabydiaperbag.com,but which style is a better choice I have no ideas.

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it depends on how you live, and how you'll use it the most. As in if you'll be having it on your pram, if you'll be carrying it like a tote bag, if you'll be wanting a backpack, and if you want an in-built bottle carrier or a separate one, and if you want it to include a change-mat, or have a separate one. And on top of that there's personal style and taste to consider, as well as budget. On top of that, you can buy portable change mats or change mat wallets that have pockets for wipes, diapers and creams etc so you can just carry that for short trips, or if you're going out with someone else they can look after the big diaper bag and you just take the wallet and baby for a change. It's always good to get one that can fit a blanket, a spare set of clothes or 2, a couple of bibs, a spare pacifier, some toys as well as changing and feeding equipment. One that's easy to clean is a plus. And getting a wetbag for dirty cloth diapers if you're using them, or clothes/blankets that have been spat up on, or a diaper blowout/leak is always useful so everything else doesn't get stinky and dirty.

Which baby sling is best in your experience?

TXgal

Well, I'm currently 7 1/2 months pregnant and am anxiously awaiting the arrival of my 1st son. So I'm trying to buy as much necessities as possible before he gets here and it helps to have personal experiences to influence my choices. Anyways, no one in my family has used a baby sling, so I need your help in deciding which brand and style is most preferred. I'm still looking online at all the different choices there are, but if you can share your opinion with me, it would be greatly appreciated. Also, I'm leaning more towards the slings rather than carriers (i.e. the snugli), because I want to have my baby close to me and be able to breastfeed in comfort. Thanks in advance.

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Go for a wrap. I have a 3 year old and a one year old. If I really wanted i could still put my three year old in it. You have so many more options with a wrap and are able to use it so much longer. Also it does better at spreading the weight across you back instead of one shoulder. Your can also use it like a sling as well or a backpack. Also you can nurse in it hands free because they are held close to you. there is also several different positions for nursing.

OK so my fav wrap I have is my wrap'n wear. It is light weight and the fabric is breathe-able so you can cover while you are nursing. So when you are picking a wrap you want to be able to put it over you face and breath thru it with out forcing your breath at all. The other good thing about the wrap i choose is it is not too stretchy. If the fabric is like a jersey then it will stretch while using it and you will have to readjust. But you do not want a cotten nit one it is not breathe-able and because it has no stretch and would be very hard to use.

oohhhh last thing is it came with a cool video showing 12 different ways of using it. so great! Soooo worth it.

ok go to www.wrapnwear.com

I think if you do a search for wrap'n wear they are sold on other websites as well.

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What should I keep in my backpack at school ?

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Roxy Marty

I got all the school stuff , I just wanna no what to keep in " girl emergencies " hahaha well yes so like pads , travel size perfume , chap stick , and what for make up ? Thank you lots <33

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This is what I carried ever since I was in high school

-mirror
-wipes
-lip gloss /chap stick
-small deodorant- you never know, maybe you're stressed for the work, gym class, or you have a nerve rush for your presentation
-baby wipes- in case the deodorant fails you wipe before reapplying, or if you have a certain smell down there
- a pad-
eyeliner-
- blush-
-aspirin- headaches or certain pains
-allergy pills- if you need them
-nail filer- call me crazy but when i was doing manual projects and had a little crack on my nail it really bugged me, so i would file it for few seconds just to smooth it off and finish it at home
-hand sanitizer-
-small comb-
-small bottle of hair spray
hair ties and bobby pins
-body spray
-lotion

What to pack? Will be in Hawaii for 14 days what to take?

HawaiianAp

have been to Hawaii before I always pack to much or not enough, should I buy there, cheap t-shirts? I always take one pair of pants that convert to shorts, 5 pairs of shorts, 7 days underwear, 2 nice shirts, 2 pairs of shoes, we buy our toiletries there, can anyone think of anything else? Oh and buy the way we do laundry while I'm there.

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You asked for it:

Maui 2006 Packing List for two + 2 1/2 year old:

â¢WEARING:
â¢Watch
â¢Sunglasses, sheath, & case
â¢Red T-shirt
â¢Teva Sandals
â¢Khaki pants
â¢Lip Balm
â¢Nylon traveling wallet with all IDs, Credit cards, &c.
â¢Cell phone
â¢Sonâs Passport (His only ID)

â¢WIFE WEARING:
â¢Clothes
â¢Sandals or shoes
â¢Green Card
â¢Purse & wallet

â¢SON WEARING:
â¢Clothes
â¢Shoes
â¢Bucket hat

â¢CHECKED BAGGAGE:
â¢Samsonite® "Ultra 3000 XLT" Expandable Upright Suiter, 29"
â¢Britax Roundabout Car Seat (leave "quick clip belt" at home, just use seat belts) Freshly washed cover!
â¢Car seat travel bag, nylon

â¢CARRY-ON BAGGAGE:
â¢Samsonite® "Ultra 3000 XLT" Side Roller Carry-On
â¢REI Flash Day Pack/Diaper Bag
â¢âSonâ

â¢IN REI FLASH DAY PACK/CARRY-ON

â¢Yogurt
â¢Cheese & crackers
â¢Sandwiches
â¢Apples & grapes
â¢Apple juice boxes for son (Now illegal!)
â¢Gatorade (also illegal, thank British hoax - no one charged)
â¢Pringles

â¢Travel neck pillow
â¢Anti-Vert prescription sea sickness meds
â¢Diapers
â¢Travel wipes package
â¢Vaseline
â¢Mesh- backed caps
â¢Bull Frog Quik Gel Sunblock, SPF 36 spray
â¢Coloring/sticker book, crayons, puppets for Son
â¢Wifeâs ID

â¢IN CARRY ON SUIT CASE:

â¢Digital Camera, case, waterproof case, two 128 MB memory cards, charger & two sets of batteries
â¢Cell phone & car charger, turned off
â¢Maui Revealed book, Maui Trailblazer book, Maui map
â¢Travel Schedule, Notes, guide book copies, notebook, pen, &c.
â¢Photo of luggage

â¢Jansport travel bath bag containing:
â¢Childrenâs Motrin liquid
â¢vitamins
â¢Dove soap
â¢Lava soap
â¢Dial Liquid Soap
â¢Shampoo
â¢Conditioner
â¢3 Toothbrushes
â¢2 Deodorants
â¢Razor
â¢Shower mirror
â¢2 Nail clippers
â¢2 Tweezers
â¢Hydrocortisone (full tube vs. sunburn)
â¢Nasal spray
â¢Nasonex
â¢Small bottle Hydrogen Peroxide in plastic bag & Q-tips
â¢Ibuprofen
â¢Chapstick with sunscreen
â¢3mm cord for clothesline
â¢Baby Powder
â¢Scrub brush for fingers/clothes/&c

â¢Extra Handkerchiefs
â¢Coppertone Sport Ultra Sweatproof/Waterproof Sunblock Lotion, SPF 30
â¢100% Rayon Aloha Shirt
â¢Green plaid hiking shirt
â¢Synthetic underwear somewhere in closet?
â¢Columbia Shorts
â¢My board shorts (Hawaiian, navy blue with white accents)
â¢New MH Wicked-T shirt, XL (navy blue) for swimming
â¢2 sarongs (Instead of beach towels, which we wonât need)
â¢Belt pouch for keys while swimming and can be used to hold sandals?

â¢Wifeâs beach/sun hat/mesh truckerâs cap?
â¢Wifeâs new swim suit
â¢Wifeâs Sunglasses & case
â¢Wifeâs flip flops or beach shoes

â¢Sonâs Aloha Shirt
â¢Matching Aloha shirt & shorts?
â¢Shorts
â¢T-Shirt
â¢Sonâs bucket hat
â¢Sonâs Teva sandals
â¢Socks (2)
â¢SPF-50 sun swimming-floatation suit
â¢Sonâs beach toys (small bucket & shovel)

â¢2 Snorkeling sets & 1 fins
â¢Anti-fog solution (J&J baby shampoo & water)
â¢Small bottle full of ½ shampoo/ ½ water for carry while snorkeling. (Leave film on lens, do not rinse off. Reapply if you rinse mask)

â¢IN CHECKED BAG:

â¢My convertible pants (1)
â¢More extra handkerchiefs

â¢? Wifeâs 2 Light and breezy tops
â¢? Wifeâs 2 Shorts or skirts or dresses
â¢Go-Lite Cap
â¢Wifeâs Teva Sandals

â¢More diapers
â¢More travel wipes packages
â¢Two swim noodles, one each for Son & Wife
â¢Life jacket for Son

â¢HIKING GEAR (In Checked Bag):

â¢Sherpani Rumba Superlight in suitcase (not recommended because it broke after three hikes)
â¢Sonâs NB shoes
â¢Sonâs Fleece sweater (For Haleakala)
â¢Sonâs Windbreaker jacket
â¢Sonâs beanie

â¢Montrail hiking shoes
â¢Hiking socks (2)
â¢Fleece vest (for Haleakala)
â¢Windbreaker jacket
â¢CamelBak backpack & drinking system
â¢Fleece beanie
â¢Long sleeved mountain hardware shirt

â¢Wifeâs New Balance Shoes
â¢Hiking shorts
â¢Wifeâs Windbreaker jacket
â¢Wifeâs fleece sweater (For Haleakala)
â¢Wifeâs Beanie (For Haleakala)

â¢2 Spandex shorts
â¢2 Golite umbrellas (For tropical July sun!)
â¢Platy folding water bladder
â¢Compass, trail map
â¢Whistles for everyone
â¢Deep Woods Off!
â¢LED Flashlight & 2 sets of rechargeable batteries
â¢Leatherman Micra tool (Must be in checked baggage!!!)
â¢First Aid Kit (Band-Aids, Neosporin, baby oil, Q-tipsâ¦)
â¢Duct Tape

â¢Zip lock baggies for marinating meats, storing foods for picnics/hiking, &c. Get lots of freezer bags!!!
â¢Sandwich bags
â¢Some waxed paperâ¦
â¢Whole grain Crackers
â¢Mustard packets
â¢Ketchup packets

We used almost everything and had few problems. Our only mistake was stopping at Cost-Co instead of just buying groceries at Safeway, because the Cost-Co packages are just two big for three people for 11 days. So we ended up with lots of left over and wasted food.

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What is the best double stroller out there?

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mama2lmjb

What is the best double stroller out of these options::::

Phil & Teds
Baby Jogger City Select Double
Kolcraft Contours
Graco DuoGlider

Any reviews?

Answer
Most definitely the Baby Jogger City Select! I have one myself and I love it for several reasons

1. Can be used as double, or single when one gets too big for it (and then back again if you have another!
2. the option of the bassinet casing for a seat, which later converts back, also love the carseat adapters... very easy to use and remove.
3. Super easy to fold up, and fold FLAT. All in one simple motion
4. Lots of storage options. The storage area underneath expands, and the handlebars have lots of accessory options, including full size backpacks. And, they don't tip even when you have a lot of weight on the handle bars.
5. Very maneuverable. I live in Boston with legendarily uneven sidewalks. I can get around just fine, and without too much bouncing.
6. Accessories: a self leveling drink holder (you have no idea how great that is on hilly roads). Storage cover- compact enough to use as carry-on on international flights. Belly bar- instead of food tray (also available) the belly bar gives something for kids to grab onto and allows them to lean out more. This was perfect for the zoo and watching the duckies go by.
7. Adorable! It does not look like any other stroller out there, yet has a nearly old world charm in the dark colors (I got black). I get questions all the time on it.
8. great if you baby wear- I wore my infant in a wrap while pushing my twins in the stroller. The handlebar was just the right height for me not to struggle.

Downsides? Can be costly to get new accessories, not the best 'jogger' but will do ok, not usually on sale.

tell me what the first 3 months of twins is like?

Who am I?

Can someone truthfully tell me what the first 3 months of twins is like? And the first year? Is it crazy and insane always? When do you (and when do they!) settle into the routine? Do you always feel stressed and like there is not enough of you to go around? What about if there is an older sibling to care for as well? Details details, please!!! :-)
And also, at what point can you go out and about and not feel like the effort of packing strollers and diaper bags is not worth the errand?

Answer
Well. my b/g twins will be 3 months next week and it hasn't been to terrible. The first 6-7 weeks were like I was in a fog! Sleep deprivation is a terrible thing! They were eating every hour and one was ALWAYS awake! I took to feeding them in bed with me just so I could grab a few minutes of sleep before the other woke up! About the two month mark they started sleeping about 4 hrs a night and I felt like a new woman! Now they have regulated to where they are mostly awake at the same time though they do have slightly different day time nap schedules and sleep at night at the same time. :)! I have a daughter that is 17 and she and my husband are a big help! All the kids tend to rotate so everyone gets special mommy time. My twins are funny how they do it! One will wake up from their nap about 1/2 hour before the other and my daughter gets me all to herself after my husband has left for work and the twins are down for the night. When we run an errend we just keep them in their car seats. The seats fit right into shopping carts and if we go to the mall we don't take a stroller (even though we leave one in the van) we just strap them into snuggies for our walk. We don't take a big diaper bag with us if we are just running around town-we have a couple of bags that look like backpacks and we just have a few diapers and wipes in them-just enough for a quick change as needed. If we go out of town then we take one of the big bags that have a couple of clothing changes and the med kits and such. As we haven't gotten though the 1st year yet I can't answer that but I hope it stays kinda like it is now! Its so much fun! Our new favorite game is "pass the baby". You get extra points if you can pass a baby with a "special" surprise and make a clean getaway!

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What is a good bravery book for a 12 year old that is somewhat medium length?

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Lauren

My 12 year old daughter is doing a project on a book about bravery. Its due November 30 and shes a slow reader so it needs to be something she can read quickly. she is a tomboy so if that helps:)

Answer
Sorry in advance for the extra long answer

Hurt Go Happy :Thirteen-year-old Joey Willis is used to being left out of conversations. Though she's been deaf since the age of six, Joey's mother has never allowed her to learn sign language. She strains to read the lips of those around her, but often fails.Everything changes when Joey meets Dr. Charles Mansell and his baby chimpanzee, Sukari. Her new friends use sign language to communicate, and Joey secretly begins to learn to sign. Spending time with Charlie and Sukari, Joey has never been happier. She even starts making friends at school for the first time. But as Joey's world blooms with possibilities, Charlie's and Sukari's choices begin to narrow--until Sukari's very survival is in doubt. Its 227 pages I loved it read it when i was 12
by Ginny Rorby

The Shadow thieves by Anne Ursu: Its kinda long 424 pages but good :See that girl, the one with the bright red hair, overstuffed backpack, and aura of grumpiness? That's Charlotte Mielswetzski. And something extra-ordinary is about to happen to her.

Oh, it's not the very cute kitten that appears out of nowhere and demands to go home with her. It's not the sudden arrival of her cousin Zee, who believes he's the cause of a mysterious sickness that has struck his friends back in England. It's not her creepy English teacher Mr. Metos, who takes his mythology lessons just a little too seriously. And it's not the white-faced, yellow-eyed men in tuxedoes, who follow Charlotte everywhere.

What's so extraordinary is not any one of these things....It's all of them. And when Charlotte's friends start to get sick one by one, Charlotte and Zee set out to find a cure. Their quest leads them to a not-so-mythical Underworld, where they face rhyme-loving Harpies, gods with personnel problems, and ghosts with a thirst for blood.

Charlotte and Zee learn that in a world overrun by Nightmares, Pain, and Death, the really dangerous character is a guy named Phil. And then they discover that the fate of every person -- living and dead -- is in their young hands.

A Mango Shaped Space by Wendy Mass :Mia Winchell seems to be a typical teenager, but shes keeping a huge secret from everyone who knows her: sounds, numbers, and words appear in color for her. Mia has synesthesia, the mingling of perceptions whereby a person can see sounds, smell colors, or taste shapes. When trouble in school forces Mia to reveal her condition, her friends and family can't relate to her, and she must look to herself to develop an understanding and appreciation for her gift. Spiced with wit and humor, A Mango-Shaped Space is a poignant coming-of-age novel that will intrigue readers long after theyve turned the last page. Praised by reviewers and award-winning authors alike, A Mango-Shaped Space has brought renewed attention to the fascinating world of synesthesia, which includes famous artists such as Vincent Van Gogh and Serge Rachmaninoff 218 pages

Harry Potter is good not too long

Incatation by Allice Hoffman: Its still a favortite to this day: Estrella is a Marrano: During the time of the Spanish Inquisition, she is one of a community of Spanish Jews living double lives as Catholics. And she is living in a house of secrets, raised by a family who practices underground the ancient and mysterious way of wisdom known as kabbalah. When Estrella discovers her family's true identityâand her family's secrets are made publicâshe confronts a world she's never imagined, where new love burns and where friendship ends in flame and ash, where trust is all but vanquished and betrayal has tragic and bitter consequences. This is only 176 pages and is very good and has a lot about bravery

Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?

Joanne H

He justed wanted to know what women go through. He was very supportive for my pregnancies and wanted to know what was the worst for me. I told him the weight on my back and nerves.

Answer
Using Ebay or other online site might help, but that's a lot of money to spend just to experiment with an "Empathy Belly".

http://www.empathybelly.org/home.html

I think you'll have a better chance of accessing one of these bellies by checking with the local school board where you live, or the school board(s) of a nearby county.

The School Board? ...Yes, the school board, there's a good chance they can direct you to a school with one of these.

Depending on where you live "Empathy Bellies" might be part of the middle/high school sex-education course for some of the more well-funded schools within the district.

The school board would have records of funds and purchases for all the schools they oversee. If an "Empathy Belly" was bought for one of more schools to use in sex education courses, they would be able to tell you which one(s). Then all you have to do is visit the school and ask if you and your husband could experiment with it before the next series of sex-ed courses.

If you can't find one...
1) get a large heavy-duty backpack and undo the straps.

2) Have him hold the pack over his belly then while he's holding it, cross the straps across his upper back and reconnect the straps (so that the top halves are now connected to the opposite bottom halves) then take up enough slack to keep it snug but still over the belly.

3) Fill the backpack with a small heavy object (or objects)
the most suitable would be dumbbell weights like the ones here...

http://www.wanglianghome.org/images/dumbbell.jpg

but without the bar handles. The trick is to try and keep the weight over the belly, lower than the rib cage, an above the pelvis. You may need to adjust and retighten the straps as the weights are added to keep it at the proper position.


The weights will make the straps across the upper back pull the upper body forward similar to how the upper body of a pregnant woman gets pulled forward trying to support the new weight of the belly and baby. Most men tend to have better upper body strength than women, so estimate the amount of weight in your belly and add 10-20 pounds to offset this. Depending on how far along you are, the pack on him should be 30-50 pounds to roughly match the amount strain put on the back and spine. Wearing the pack while walking around the house for a few hours will give him an idea of what it's like.

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How to get blue pen ink out of my backpack?

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Kelsea

I tried washing it by hand with dawn dish soap and it only spread and made it worse.. its a red back pack so the blue ink really stands out on it!! How can I get this out!!!!!!!!!!

Answer
Hello,

Ok ya got hairspray? Well if ya do spray a little or a lot on the stain and let sit for 20 seconds and then take a damp sponge and then scrub, wash with water and if not all the way gone, wait till dry then repeat process

You heard it straight from the mama, baby!

How do you occupy your baby at a restaurant?

Gracee's M

So I have been cooking a lot lately but tonight by husband took Gracee and I out for dinner. It was really kinda crazy trying to get Gracee to sit still in her high chair with out trying to stand up, and she was getting restless and bored. I kept giving her food and snacks to play with and eat but they eventually just ended up on the floor.
Do you have any restaurant tips or anything to keep your baby happy and entertained through-out the whole meal?

Answer
i have a little backpack full of toys that i bring with us to the restaurant.
its loaded with so many different things that its hard for them to get bored. and my kids are only 3 1/2 years old and 10 1/2 months. its got everything in it. dolls, cars, blocks, crayons and coloring books , you name it its in there!! oh and a little packet of wipes too!. ;0)
so when we get to the restaurant i sit them in at the table and when they start getting fidgety out come the toys!. and they play quietly until the food comes then the toys go away until they are done eating and then they get cleaned up and out they come agin until everyone is finished and ready to go. :0)
but dont worry too much, most kids even with an abundance of toys arent going to sit through an entire meal at a resaurant without making a peep. just take it in stride and be thankful they arent screaming the whole time and throwing their food at the people next to you . lol :P just try to go to family restaurants :0)
now believe me this isnt something we practice at home, but toys work wonders for eating out!. our bag is always packed and in the van ready to go, just in case we make any last minute stops. and it comes in hand when we get stuck anywhere waiting.!
good luck next time! :0)

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What should I do to begin my backpacking trip to Europe?

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jman89

I plan on backpacking europe next summer and don't even know where to start. How much should I save? Which country is best to start? How do I avoid tourist areas?

Answer
First thing, research. Try hostel.com for the hostels. Frommers.com for travel tips and to connect with other travelers.

For the budget airlines, there are so many...aer lingus, wizz air, bmi baby, german wings, ryan air, easy jet, thomsonfly, flybe...just look it up in the internet. Fact is, there are numerous budget airlines flying to the UK. Buy your tickets now and it will be so cheap. Cheaper than buying the Euro Railpass. In fact, there are several on sale now for travel next year.

First country - UK. I suggest the UK because for the language convenience. I gather that you are a native English speaker and people there speak English. While you are getting started backpacking, at least language will not be your problem.

You can make London your base and just go to other countries for a few days or a week.

As for your budget, $80 a day should be enough, including bus fare and minimal entrance fees, if you really can stay on the cheap. I have in mind that 1GBP=2USD.

Oh, one last thing, the fantastic museums in London are free!!! But you will thoroughly appreciate them enough though to donate.

What should I bring for my kids traveling internationally?

Jewel

We are going on vacation to visit family for the first time in Europe this summer but I am a little scared about the flight over and back. I have a 10 yr old, 6 yr old and a 2 yr old (all boys) and I need some serious ideas to keep them entertained during all parts of the flight (take off, supper, sleeping, landing etc). I'm especially worried about the 2 yr old and 6 yr old. What are some good traveling tips, ideas to bring (not just in general toys, what kind?) hints that would help on their first international airplane ride?

Answer
I've been traveling internationally with my son since he was born (now 26 months) and for longer than that with my nieces and nephews and with a little planning all will go smooth. Looks like you are already on the right track.

Here are some tips:

1 Arrive at the airport early to get checked in comfortably and be sure you have documents in order. In addition to a passport, it is always good to carry a copy of your children's birth certificate -- you may need it to prove you are their parent. Also if you are traveling alone with your children be sure you have a notarized letter from the other parent giving you permission to do so or you may be stopped at security.

If you need a stroller for your 2-year-old, you can go through security with a stroller and take your baby in the stroller right up to the door of the airplane -- you stroller will need a tag that you get at the gate -- and they will check it for you there. Take advantage of early boarding for families -- if your kids won't get too crazy waiting on the plane for everyone else to board. If so, board last.

2. When booking your seat, ask for seats in the bulkhead. That is the area right in the front of the plane. It has more room and will allow you to easily change your child or let him/her play when it is safe to do so. One note though: Because there are no seats in from of you, you'll have to stow all your carry-on luggage in the overhead compartments during take-off and landing and that could impede access for necessary items like toys. A window seat is great for kids and maybe your kids can share, switching off for the flight. My 2-year-old loves to look out the window and see the wing and the clouds!

3. Be sure to bring favorite snacks (we always have cheerios on hand) as many airlines don't serve food anymore and those that do either serve things kids won't eat, can't eat (peanuts) or serve junk food. (We order a kid's meal on one flight and it consisted of potato chips, candy bars and a sugery drink -- things we don't give our kid anyway, but a disaster to pump them full of sugar on a plane). Bottled water is plentiful on board so you can always bring dried cereals that can be rehydrated and heated by flight attendants, who in my experience have always been willing to help. Remember that there are limits on liquids that you can bring on through security these days -- including baby foods -- but whatever you buy after security is okay. Look for easy to carry, easy to eat foods in the airport. I know not always easy but even applesauce is a good choice.

4. Before the flight, go to a dollar store and pick up some cheap toys. I usually get one thing for every hour of flight -- that would be times 3 for you. What you get is really up to your child's interest but make it something that can carried easily. A new toy is a novelty and will keep your child entertained longer. Do pack a few favorites from home, especially some good books your child loves to read or have read to her. But if your child has an irreplaceable toy (a favorite teddy bear he has to sleep with for example) either don't bring it or don't bring it out during flight in case it gets lost. Your child will be desperate! (Don't pack it in your checked luggage either -- if this gets lost, same problem). Before you leave find out if the plane your will be on has in-seat entertainment systems. These are great for kids because they can play video games or watch TV or movies. If not, you may consider investing in a portable DVD player if you kids will wear headphones -- although with three kids unless you want to lug 3 players this could become a problem.

Make sure each kid has there own piece of luggage -- a backpack or small rollaway -- to keep their stuff in and make them feel like they a big kid for having their own suitcase.

Get the kids interested in the flight plan -- they usually show this on video at certain points during the flight. They can figure out how long they've been flying, what countries they've passed over, etc. Lots of fun for the older ones.

5. To deal with pressure on the ears for your child, be sure they have something to suck on. The older two can learn how to yawn or unblock their ears in otherways like by chewing gum. For the little one, if your child takes a pacifier let him have it during takeoff and landing. If not a sippy cup is good.

6. Some people might recommend this but I don't think you have to drug your child to fly with them. Some people will suggest that you give your child things like benadryl to make them sleep and I think this is a mistake. You child should only take medications that are medically necessary not for the convenience of you or other adults who may not like that you are traveling with an infant.

What you should do is carry any common medicines you use for your children (Children's Tylenol, for example) in case they get sick while you are abroad and you can't find medicines they are used to taking. Also keep your pediatrician's contact info with you in case you have to contact them.

7. Always ask for help if you need it from airline employees both on the ground and in-flight. They are more than happy to help to make your flight as smooth as possible.

Finally, check with your pediatrician before you leave to see if they have any suggestions for you or if your child is not well if it is okay to fly.

Hope this is all helpful and that you have a great flight and vacation!

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Advice or opinions about baby carriers (reviews?)?

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LeaLea

Hi. My SO and I are doing the pre-baby shopping and having a hard time finding the right carrier. I guess we want one that does it all and is ergonomically friendly. Maybe that's too much to ask? We would prefer to be able to carry baby in front, on our backs, or on our hip - also we would like baby to be able to face us or face out when carried on the front. Lastly, something that has good back and hip support would be ideal since there may be times when we're wearing it for hours. Does anyone know of anything out there like this??

We have looked at Baby Bjorn, but that does not appear to be able to carry on the front AND on the back (backpack or piggyback style). Also, we found the ERGObaby, but that only allows baby to face you when riding in the front - baby can't face out. Also, while ERGO baby gets good reviews it doesn't appear suitable until the baby gets a bit bigger and we would like to only buy one carrier in stead of one for when it's a newborn and one for when it's a bit older.

Anyone find the perfect baby carrier for themselves? Something out there we've missed? Your input is appreciated - thanks!!

Answer
You might ike a Moby Wrap- it's very flexible and can do all the positions you mentioned.

Ergo baby carrier vs. babyhawk mei tai?

Anna

I don't really like the backpack look of the ergo, and the mei tai looks more appealing to me, which one is more comfortable? do you recommend one over the other?

thanks

Answer
Ooh - tricky one! Some mums like one or other, some like either.
I like the Ergo because the buckles make it quick to put on, no long straps to drag on wet winter ground while tying (though tucking straps MT straps into your belt works while putting it on), padded waist helps transfer weight onto the hips so likely to be able to carry for longer (eg. 3-4 years old).

Babyhawk - lots of colourful options, more curvy mums often find them more comfotable with no buckles to dig into large boobs, pack up smaller due to less rigis waist.

Resale value is great on both slings so if you feel you've gone with the wrong one you'll recoup your money OK.

Perhaps check out if you have any sling enthusiasts locally so you can try them both on, or maybe a local sling lending library to try before you buy. Check out the link - might ne of help - certainly reviews somewhere on the site.

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Good family activities to do with my three year old daughter?

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Travis

She seems to be getting a bit tired of the park, aquarium, zoo, and ponds. Generally this something my wife and I do every other weekend or so, just to get out of the house and spend some time together.

Also, we have twin five months old, and we'd rather not go hiking / camping with the infants, as you can imagine.

My daughter generally enjoys anything with animals, and crafts. She doesn't particularly enjoy anything 'girly' from what we've gathered. Likes to figure out puzzles, and always finding ways to make things 'work'. (She'll find a broken toy and will attempt to make it work again.) Extremely shy, if anyone comes at her too quickly, she's retreat behind my wife's leg.

Open to any serious suggestions, :) Thank you in advance.
My daughter hates the water, refuses to go to the pools / lakes with us. She will only go to the frog ponds with us to try and catch frogs in the puddles. Thanks for the suggestion though! :)

Answer
Some more ideas outside of the house...

-- Museums -- art, science, children's, etc. Most places have things for young children.
-- Library story hour
-- Children's theater production (maybe just for the 3-year-old and one parent, no babies)
-- Pet store. You don't have to buy anything -- just look at the animals.
-- Indoor playgrounds -- mall, McDonald's, other parks
-- Check out parks with short hiking trails (and you can wear the babies in backpack carriers), or find a new playground in your area.
-- Find a way to make old adventures more interesting. For example, our zoo has specific animal feeding times, so when we want something new, we choose a couple animals that we want to watch get fed that day. Or we splurge and buy the crackers to feed the giraffes ourselves or the food for the lorikeets. Or we watch for special events or shows on certain days.
-- Also, keep trying the pools/lakes. She may grow to like them over time.

Things to do at home...
-- Draw with chalk. You can do pictures, hopscotch, draw a maze or a path to follow, etc.
-- Ride bikes/scooters up and down the sidewalk.
-- Use blue painter's tape on hardwood or linoleum floors to make hopscotch or paths inside (for rainy/cold days).
-- Puzzles. (Maybe you could pick up a couple new ones.)
-- Board games like Candy Land.
-- Paint with water. You can do this on the driveway, the side of the house, or anywhere. Just get a cup of water and a paintbrush, and it disappears as it dries. Aquadoodle mats are fun for indoors.
-- Take a walk while you push babies in the stroller and she pushes a doll in her own stroller.
-- Build with blocks.
-- Take a magnifying glass or binoculars, and go on an animal hunt in your neighborhood. Look for birds, squirrels, rabbits, chipmunks, and all kinds of bugs.
-- Get an easel and some dry-erase markers, and let her draw and erase as much as she wants.
-- Since she likes puzzles and building, let her help with minor repairs around the house. If you're doing some hammering to hang a picture on the wall, let her help hammer a nail or two into a spare piece of wood. When my kids were 3, their preschool teacher had them hammer big pieces of styrofoam together, and then they got to paint what they had created. I think they even got to use a real saw to help saw the styrofoam before hammering it.
-- Get some sewing cards and let her "sew" them with shoelaces.
-- Start collections of leaves, flowers, or rocks, and let her sort and count them.
-- Blow bubbles.
-- When it rains, let her go out and jump in all the puddles.
-- Turn on all kinds of music, and dance around the house. She can even play along with her own toy or homemade instruments.
-- Read books. Lots and lots of books.

Honestly, there are so many things you can do with a 3-year-old. If you live in or near a major city, there are probably tons of things you haven't even discovered yet, and there's plenty you can do at home as well. Have fun!

Baby wearing mamas, do they make a carrier for babies over 25 lbs?

Q. My son has a snuggli infant carrier and the weight limit is 25 lbs. I really like wearing him and I would like to keep doing it, but he just hit 23 lbs.

So, do you have any recommendations?

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My Moby Wrap goes to 35lbs, but now that he is about 25lbs he is really starting to get too heavy for it when I do anything other then carry him around the house.

We use an Ergo when we are out and about, though its not the most attractive looking carrier, it gets the job done. It works a lot like a hiking backpack, to distribute the weight.

I had to give up the front carrier when he was around 10lbs because it killed my shoulders.

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What baby backpack carrier have you used?

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oceanxstas

I need to purchase a baby backpack type carrier for our upcoming vacation. My little one will be 14 months old by then. She currently weighs around 25 pounds. Suggestions, critiques needed. Thanks

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We have a Patapum baby carrier - which can be both front and back carry.
It's a soft carrier, very comfortable for both myself and my partner to wear our 11.5 month old daughter (approx 24lbs.)

We have used snugglys and slings, and have tried wraps, but the carrier is our favourite (for an older baby especially) - as it positions their weight perfectly, and you can easily walk around for 2+ hours with no twinges or aches.

Comes in blue, black and khaki - we have the khaki.
http://www.attachedtobaby.com/Patapum-Baby-Carrier-P5.aspx

Couldn't recommend it enough.

How big are roxy sugar baby bags?

Zita

I might buy a roxy sugar baby backpack (16 l) for year 8 but i don't know if it will be big enough. I don't know how much homework i will get as this is going to be my first year at an english school. I have always used a jansport backpack with wheels but i think that might be kind of weird. Is it? Which should i use? Or should i get a messenger bag?

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go with the 30 l

extra room never hurts!!!!
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Things to do with a 14 month old baby in Hawaii?

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Sandy C

We're traveling to Hawaii in April with our baby girl who will be 14 months. We're going to all the islands and I don't know what activities we'll really be able to do while there. We live in Miami so the beach isn't the main attraction for us. I purchased a baby carrier/backpack and an all terrain stroller to get around. Is there any hiking to do with a tough stroller? Carrying the baby for a month on our backs will not be easy. Any suggestions?

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There are some easy hikes on Oahu that might be doable with a heavy duty stroller, boomer gal has one idea. Thereis also Koko Head (by Hawaii Kai) and Makiki Valley (which is wide enough as it is used every day heavily). Also Diamond Head is doable (not the rougher areas). There is a Children's Discovery Center nearer to downtown that would be fun and it features Hawaiana. There is also the Bishop Museum which might be interesting for a child.

Any opinions about baby backpacks and stroller systems?

army_siste

I don't have a baby yet but I might in the future. My question is about baby backpacks and strollers. Snuggli is one backpack I have seen. How useful are they? I saw one that said it could be used in the front for a small baby and on the back for a larger one up to 27 pounds. Are they comfortable and easy to get on and off? My concern was would my back start hurting after awhile? I have also seen some that have a metal frame that goes on the back? It looks kind of like the old hiking backpacks. Has anyone used that type? Is the soft Snuggli type better than the metal frame type?
On to strollers. I see alot of the stroller systems that come with the carseat carriers. Does anyone have an opinion whether they think the type that holds a carseat is better than just a regular stroller? I can see the benefits of both types. I would be a busy mom who be going on lots of walks and would also need to have one that would fold up nicely for the trunk of the car.Any other must haves for a baby?

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Baby backpacks: I liked them okay. My husband loved ours. He would carry our daughter around all the time. They get in the way if you're trying to do something (and you really can't bend over) but they're nice for walking around and shopping if you don't want a stroller.
Stroller: Get one with a car seat carrier. They are so nice. You have to have a car seat anyway so why not get one that can snap onto your stroller. Its good for an infant because you know their head is protected in the carseat and you can see them at all times because you put the carseat on facing you in the stroller. Also, when your child is too big for the car seat, you can just use the stroller as a regular stroller. We have a 17 month old and have both kinds. Both fit into our trunk nicely. Our Jeep stroller (which is for older kids kind of a more expensive umbrella stroller) is great for going to the store. Her other stroller is nice if he needs a nap because she can lay down in it. Other things to have are a bouncy seat, a swing (our daughter absolutely loved hers), and for hen s/he can walk a stationary set so s/he can stand and play at the same time. We also liked our jumparoo but some people say they're bad for kids' legs. There are many good things for a baby, but it's all about what's good for you and your baby.

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What should I do to begin my backpacking trip to Europe?

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jman89

I plan on backpacking europe next summer and don't even know where to start. How much should I save? Which country is best to start? How do I avoid tourist areas?

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First thing, research. Try hostel.com for the hostels. Frommers.com for travel tips and to connect with other travelers.

For the budget airlines, there are so many...aer lingus, wizz air, bmi baby, german wings, ryan air, easy jet, thomsonfly, flybe...just look it up in the internet. Fact is, there are numerous budget airlines flying to the UK. Buy your tickets now and it will be so cheap. Cheaper than buying the Euro Railpass. In fact, there are several on sale now for travel next year.

First country - UK. I suggest the UK because for the language convenience. I gather that you are a native English speaker and people there speak English. While you are getting started backpacking, at least language will not be your problem.

You can make London your base and just go to other countries for a few days or a week.

As for your budget, $80 a day should be enough, including bus fare and minimal entrance fees, if you really can stay on the cheap. I have in mind that 1GBP=2USD.

Oh, one last thing, the fantastic museums in London are free!!! But you will thoroughly appreciate them enough though to donate.

What should I bring for my kids traveling internationally?

Jewel

We are going on vacation to visit family for the first time in Europe this summer but I am a little scared about the flight over and back. I have a 10 yr old, 6 yr old and a 2 yr old (all boys) and I need some serious ideas to keep them entertained during all parts of the flight (take off, supper, sleeping, landing etc). I'm especially worried about the 2 yr old and 6 yr old. What are some good traveling tips, ideas to bring (not just in general toys, what kind?) hints that would help on their first international airplane ride?

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I've been traveling internationally with my son since he was born (now 26 months) and for longer than that with my nieces and nephews and with a little planning all will go smooth. Looks like you are already on the right track.

Here are some tips:

1 Arrive at the airport early to get checked in comfortably and be sure you have documents in order. In addition to a passport, it is always good to carry a copy of your children's birth certificate -- you may need it to prove you are their parent. Also if you are traveling alone with your children be sure you have a notarized letter from the other parent giving you permission to do so or you may be stopped at security.

If you need a stroller for your 2-year-old, you can go through security with a stroller and take your baby in the stroller right up to the door of the airplane -- you stroller will need a tag that you get at the gate -- and they will check it for you there. Take advantage of early boarding for families -- if your kids won't get too crazy waiting on the plane for everyone else to board. If so, board last.

2. When booking your seat, ask for seats in the bulkhead. That is the area right in the front of the plane. It has more room and will allow you to easily change your child or let him/her play when it is safe to do so. One note though: Because there are no seats in from of you, you'll have to stow all your carry-on luggage in the overhead compartments during take-off and landing and that could impede access for necessary items like toys. A window seat is great for kids and maybe your kids can share, switching off for the flight. My 2-year-old loves to look out the window and see the wing and the clouds!

3. Be sure to bring favorite snacks (we always have cheerios on hand) as many airlines don't serve food anymore and those that do either serve things kids won't eat, can't eat (peanuts) or serve junk food. (We order a kid's meal on one flight and it consisted of potato chips, candy bars and a sugery drink -- things we don't give our kid anyway, but a disaster to pump them full of sugar on a plane). Bottled water is plentiful on board so you can always bring dried cereals that can be rehydrated and heated by flight attendants, who in my experience have always been willing to help. Remember that there are limits on liquids that you can bring on through security these days -- including baby foods -- but whatever you buy after security is okay. Look for easy to carry, easy to eat foods in the airport. I know not always easy but even applesauce is a good choice.

4. Before the flight, go to a dollar store and pick up some cheap toys. I usually get one thing for every hour of flight -- that would be times 3 for you. What you get is really up to your child's interest but make it something that can carried easily. A new toy is a novelty and will keep your child entertained longer. Do pack a few favorites from home, especially some good books your child loves to read or have read to her. But if your child has an irreplaceable toy (a favorite teddy bear he has to sleep with for example) either don't bring it or don't bring it out during flight in case it gets lost. Your child will be desperate! (Don't pack it in your checked luggage either -- if this gets lost, same problem). Before you leave find out if the plane your will be on has in-seat entertainment systems. These are great for kids because they can play video games or watch TV or movies. If not, you may consider investing in a portable DVD player if you kids will wear headphones -- although with three kids unless you want to lug 3 players this could become a problem.

Make sure each kid has there own piece of luggage -- a backpack or small rollaway -- to keep their stuff in and make them feel like they a big kid for having their own suitcase.

Get the kids interested in the flight plan -- they usually show this on video at certain points during the flight. They can figure out how long they've been flying, what countries they've passed over, etc. Lots of fun for the older ones.

5. To deal with pressure on the ears for your child, be sure they have something to suck on. The older two can learn how to yawn or unblock their ears in otherways like by chewing gum. For the little one, if your child takes a pacifier let him have it during takeoff and landing. If not a sippy cup is good.

6. Some people might recommend this but I don't think you have to drug your child to fly with them. Some people will suggest that you give your child things like benadryl to make them sleep and I think this is a mistake. You child should only take medications that are medically necessary not for the convenience of you or other adults who may not like that you are traveling with an infant.

What you should do is carry any common medicines you use for your children (Children's Tylenol, for example) in case they get sick while you are abroad and you can't find medicines they are used to taking. Also keep your pediatrician's contact info with you in case you have to contact them.

7. Always ask for help if you need it from airline employees both on the ground and in-flight. They are more than happy to help to make your flight as smooth as possible.

Finally, check with your pediatrician before you leave to see if they have any suggestions for you or if your child is not well if it is okay to fly.

Hope this is all helpful and that you have a great flight and vacation!

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How much do framed baby backpacks support?

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rainwriter

I'm looking at getting a metal framed hiking type back pack. What is the upper weight/age limit to these? Here's the one I'm looking at getting. http://eastidaho.craigslist.org/bab/796313648.html Are these too big for toddlers?

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they only go to 25 pds. Why don't you look at the ERGO carrier, those metal frames are horrible for you back! The ergo is great and comfy I use it all the time

What's the best way to prevent blisters on your feet while hiking?

dcsportbik

Getting ready to hike down (and up) the Grand Canyon and don't want to run the risk of any blisters on my feet. Any clever ideas as to how to prevent them from occuring?

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I have done a lot of Grand Canyon hiking and have experimented with a number of blister prevention techniques. This is one of those areas with a lot approaches and everybody seems to have their favorite.

I personally have had the best luck with putting Spyroflex blister pads on the most likely spots before I start hiking. Spyroflex pads are a very thin membrane sheet (similar to the latex part of a bandaid) that stays on pretty well, can last for several days and is waterproof. Spenco sells a very similar item called Second Skin. Both can be found at REI and most outdoors type stores. Make sure your foot is dry and clean before you put them on and ensure that you get it on as flat as possible with no wrinkles. I did a two week backpacking trip using those and was the only in my group to not get a single blister.

The main thing is that you want a covering that is very thin and will stay in place (duct tape and athletic tape can also be used, but the above Spyroflex and Second Skin allow your skin to breath better). I have never had much luck with Moleskin or similar 'padded' products as they always seem to instantly get pulled off and stuck to my sock within a mile.

Other techniques which I have tried (and others that I know swear by) including putting a bit of baby powder in your sock (seems to work, but can be messy) and wearing a smaller liner sock inside your main sock (I always ended up feeling like my feet were suffocating even in cool weather).

As others above have mentioned, probably the most important thing is that you want to make sure that you have boots that fit you properly and are well broken in (and your feet are used to) before you start. This can eliminate a lot of blister and soreness problems before they even start.

Also, as soon as you start to feel any sort of friction or a place where a blister might be forming (a 'hot spot') you should stop and take care of it (put some sort of pad or protection on the area) immedately - don't wait until you have a full fledged blister before you do something about it.

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