What is the cheapest Way to go from NARITA to the City Center?

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wishon

Backpacking Baby!!!

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The cheapest way to go from Narita Airport to downtown Tokyo would be to take Keisei line's limited express ( ç¹æ¥) for about 1000 yen and it takes only about 20 minutes more than their express "Skyliner" which cost 1920 yen. Also, by taking the train, you avoid the possibility of getting stuck in traffic.

What baby backpack carrier have you used?

oceanxstas

I need to purchase a baby backpack type carrier for our upcoming vacation. My little one will be 14 months old by then. She currently weighs around 25 pounds. Suggestions, critiques needed. Thanks

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We have a Patapum baby carrier - which can be both front and back carry.
It's a soft carrier, very comfortable for both myself and my partner to wear our 11.5 month old daughter (approx 24lbs.)

We have used snugglys and slings, and have tried wraps, but the carrier is our favourite (for an older baby especially) - as it positions their weight perfectly, and you can easily walk around for 2+ hours with no twinges or aches.

Comes in blue, black and khaki - we have the khaki.
http://www.attachedtobaby.com/Patapum-Baby-Carrier-P5.aspx

Couldn't recommend it enough.

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Things you wished you registered for/bought?

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Loving Bab

I'm finishing up my registries (two), mostly because I am bored and have already rearranged the baby's room, lol.....and was just wondering if there was anything you ladies forgot to register for or something that you bought later on that you wish you had earlier...thanks :)

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Well my oldest is now 7 years old. I had a small medium sized diaper bag, and a large diaper bag. Honestly you would be better off getting a sturdy backpack, because you're going to have a diaper bag for at least 2-3 years. I got tired of hauling my purse and the diaper bag around, so I just got a really nice backpack to keep everything in. You're going to carry around diapers, wipes, diaper rash cream, possibly bottles & formula, toys, to keep your bub happy while your out and about. It's better to just keep it in one bag (IMO).

2: A good quality swing. I was stupid and bought a battery operated one. It ate up D cell batteries like you wouldn't believe. I would invest in a good quality electric baby swing. My advice is to get one that swings from side to side instead of backward & forward. It's the "natural" movement of the side to side that is most soothing to babies.

3: Invest in onesies, sleepers, t-shirts, pants & shorts with an elastic waist versus snaps. They will be your very best friend. During the first year of life, babies don't really wear very much.

4:Bibs! Invest in some non-cloth bibs. They will stain your child's clothing. Something similar to this:http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2827339
These catch food, and they are really easy to clean. These we're a life saver for me. Please don't get bibs with a tie back, get one with a velcro enclosure. The ties can be a choking hazard.

5: If you're making the choice to formula feed I HIGHLY recommend anti-colic & gas bottle. Don't go cheap on these. I used Dr. Brown's bottles for my child, and he did great with them. The only con that I saw was that there we're tons of parts to clean. I also recommend the Playtex Vent Aire. Less expensive, and easier to clean. My friend used these with her multiples. If your making the choice to breast feed, then I highly recommend called: The Mommy Cover (I know I will get thumbs down). http://www.joiaproducts.com/ My other friend has one of these, and she LOVES it.

6: Invest in used books, music & cd's and toys for sensory development. My friend with the multiples HIGHLY recommends the "Your Baby Can Read". Her twins are 14 months old, and doing really well with this product. They love their music time, and reading time before bed.
Their language, motor skills, and receptive language skills are off the charts. (She's sitting right next to me as I am typing this).

7: A good stroller. I can't stress the words A GOOD STROLLER. This will be your best friend when your shopping, walking in the mall, toting your babies in the airport etc. Don't be afraid to buy a more expensive one. I recommend this one: http://www.target.com/Kolcraft-Universal-Infant-Seat-Carrier/dp/B001FCM24E/ref=br_1_4?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&qid=1278382792&searchView=grid5&sr=1-4&node=13691271&searchRank=pmrank&searchPage=1&rh=&searchSize=30&id=Kolcraft%20Universal%20Infant%20Seat%20Carrier&searchBinNameList=style_name%2Ctarget_com_brand-bin%2Ctarget_com_primary_color-bin%2Cprice
This one is light weight, and you can fit just about any car seat on there. I loved mine.

Well I hope I've helped you with your question. Good luck!

Have you had an "old school" parent express regret about how they did something?

dmg

I know a lot of people struggle with old school parents and grandparents telling them to wean early, or give solids early or whatever. But I wondered if anyone else had an "old school" parent express regret or jealousy about how things are handled now - say, essentially, that standard practice at the time went against their own instincts.

(background: my sister and I are twins, born via emergency c-section in 1973, and there were a lot of complications. This was considered an impossible breastfeeding situation at the time (and would be pretty challenging even today) so we were bottle fed from birth.)

My mother asked me how I was weaning my son from the bottle and I explained my slow, compassionate approach. She said that she had abruptly taken the bottles from us at age one year, as was the recommendation, but in retrospect she regretted that and wishes (particularly, to her, in the case of my sister who was more attached) that she'd done it more slowly and thought that a few more months of some bottles wouldn't have been a big deal.

I just found it interesting - she didn't follow her instincts at the time, but 35 or so years later, she realizes she was wrong.

Has anyone else had a parent or grandparent express regret over the standard practice of child-rearing at the time (or, alternatively, admit that they didn't follow their doctors advice and actually wound up doing something more in line with current thinking.)

The only other one I can think of is that my father *constantly* is jealous of the various baby carriers and backpacks that are available now, because the only option for the two of us as newborns was two enormous prams and later, the world's biggest, unportable, double stroller.

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Honestly, it is my mom who told me to trust my gut more, and not to necessarily listen to all that the doctors tell me about my kids. That is some of the best advice I have ever been given...not just about child rearing, but ever. But my mom isn't so "old-school".

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What are some objects that represent change or growing apart?

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momo41

I need it for a project at school. It needs to be a real life object that represents changing or growing apart. Please Help!!!

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Examples:

*A key, to a new house or a first apartment
*A driver's license
*A wedding dress/veil/etc. - beginning of a new life/marriage (change) or the end of one stage, like moving out of your parents place (growing apart)
*Baby shoes - first steps (change) or the beginning of independence (growing apart)
*Backpack - starting school or a new school
*A moving box -moving to a new house/neighborhood (change)/ moving away and leaving friends or family (growing apart)

You get the picture, just think along those lines and you'll have an object that works perfectly for your project! Use your own life experience. Think of times of change or growing up/apart that you've gone through. Don't worry, you've got this! Good luck, I'm sure you'll get an A+!

What is a good bravery book for a 12 year old that is somewhat medium length?

Lauren

My 12 year old daughter is doing a project on a book about bravery. Its due November 30 and shes a slow reader so it needs to be something she can read quickly. she is a tomboy so if that helps:)

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Sorry in advance for the extra long answer

Hurt Go Happy :Thirteen-year-old Joey Willis is used to being left out of conversations. Though she's been deaf since the age of six, Joey's mother has never allowed her to learn sign language. She strains to read the lips of those around her, but often fails.Everything changes when Joey meets Dr. Charles Mansell and his baby chimpanzee, Sukari. Her new friends use sign language to communicate, and Joey secretly begins to learn to sign. Spending time with Charlie and Sukari, Joey has never been happier. She even starts making friends at school for the first time. But as Joey's world blooms with possibilities, Charlie's and Sukari's choices begin to narrow--until Sukari's very survival is in doubt. Its 227 pages I loved it read it when i was 12
by Ginny Rorby

The Shadow thieves by Anne Ursu: Its kinda long 424 pages but good :See that girl, the one with the bright red hair, overstuffed backpack, and aura of grumpiness? That's Charlotte Mielswetzski. And something extra-ordinary is about to happen to her.

Oh, it's not the very cute kitten that appears out of nowhere and demands to go home with her. It's not the sudden arrival of her cousin Zee, who believes he's the cause of a mysterious sickness that has struck his friends back in England. It's not her creepy English teacher Mr. Metos, who takes his mythology lessons just a little too seriously. And it's not the white-faced, yellow-eyed men in tuxedoes, who follow Charlotte everywhere.

What's so extraordinary is not any one of these things....It's all of them. And when Charlotte's friends start to get sick one by one, Charlotte and Zee set out to find a cure. Their quest leads them to a not-so-mythical Underworld, where they face rhyme-loving Harpies, gods with personnel problems, and ghosts with a thirst for blood.

Charlotte and Zee learn that in a world overrun by Nightmares, Pain, and Death, the really dangerous character is a guy named Phil. And then they discover that the fate of every person -- living and dead -- is in their young hands.

A Mango Shaped Space by Wendy Mass :Mia Winchell seems to be a typical teenager, but shes keeping a huge secret from everyone who knows her: sounds, numbers, and words appear in color for her. Mia has synesthesia, the mingling of perceptions whereby a person can see sounds, smell colors, or taste shapes. When trouble in school forces Mia to reveal her condition, her friends and family can't relate to her, and she must look to herself to develop an understanding and appreciation for her gift. Spiced with wit and humor, A Mango-Shaped Space is a poignant coming-of-age novel that will intrigue readers long after theyve turned the last page. Praised by reviewers and award-winning authors alike, A Mango-Shaped Space has brought renewed attention to the fascinating world of synesthesia, which includes famous artists such as Vincent Van Gogh and Serge Rachmaninoff 218 pages

Harry Potter is good not too long

Incatation by Allice Hoffman: Its still a favortite to this day: Estrella is a Marrano: During the time of the Spanish Inquisition, she is one of a community of Spanish Jews living double lives as Catholics. And she is living in a house of secrets, raised by a family who practices underground the ancient and mysterious way of wisdom known as kabbalah. When Estrella discovers her family's true identityâand her family's secrets are made publicâshe confronts a world she's never imagined, where new love burns and where friendship ends in flame and ash, where trust is all but vanquished and betrayal has tragic and bitter consequences. This is only 176 pages and is very good and has a lot about bravery

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traveling with 6 month old and 7 year old on a 20 hour flight?

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studentaft

what medicines are a good idea to pack or emergencies? i am taking tylenol, pedyalite,gas drops. do you want to add someting to that list?

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Bring entertainment for the 7 y/o. New crayons, a notebook, some markers, snacks, a DS (if he/she has one) with a new game, mp3 player, video player, anything like that. Buy a cheap backpack at Walmart and fill it with all sorts of fun goodies to keep him/her occupied. If you can, get a separate seat for the 6 mo old so you can bring a car seat and have a place to put him/her down. I don't believe you can bring gas drops, etc. on the plane, as it constitutes a liquid. I'd call ahead and check. Basically, all you need is formula/breast milk, plenty of diapers (pack lots of extras because you don't know if there will be delays, etc), a blanket to drape over baby's seat so it's dark for him/her to try and sleep.

Where do I find cute backpacks for middle school?

twilight f

I am trying to find a cute backpack for middle school and I was hoping it would be maybe a baby blue or a pink but if it isn't thats okay

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Nearly every department store these days have school backpacks, but to name a few besides the Mall in general, you can try Kohls, Walmart, Kmart, sporting goods stores, Dillards, Target, Sam's Club, COSCO, JC Penny, and many more I am sure. Nearly everywhere have them. You may also want to try Ross or Marshalls for good quality at a cheaper price.

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What to Pack in my babys nappy bag?

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HelllloOoO

what do i pack in a 3 month old nappy bag when im going out to my friends house for the whole day??
:) xx

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- diapers (I usually put around 5 in my diaper bag at all times but more wouldn't hurt especially if you have room for them =) )

- wipes

- a couple toys

- extra change of clothes or two

- blanket

- a small towel to change on (I use this for insurance because sometimes my baby has a poopy diaper and I don't want to get it on their floor or table if the diaper leaks)

That's it! That's all my baby needs anyway. We have a small black backpack we got from the pediatrician and it works perfectly. Unisex too so my husband doesn't feel stupid with it lol.

when baby carrying, what sort of bag do you use?

slub

and do you have different bags for different carrying positions etc. ?

i'm talking about being able to at least carry one nappy, jar of food, bib, muslin, slim pack of wipes, bottle and powder.


sorry i should have made myself clearer. i mean when you're carrying your baby in a sling or baby bjorn or whatever.

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I will be getting a backpack type thing for my next baby. I had a super cute diaper bag with one strap and I HATED it. It wouldnt stay on my shoulder when i would carry my son and then it would through off my balance let alone shift where all the weight of the bag and my son were. Get something that will stay on your back or shoulder. Thats my advice

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I will have a 2 1/2 year old and a new born this summer. Tandem or side by side?

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respekdpic

Would I still need a stroller for a 2 1/2? What double stroller would you recommend? I usually just walk with my 2 year old but I was thinking if I was shopping alone or running errands with both of them, I want to have the option of putting them in a stroller for safety reasons, specially when it's crowded. Thanks.

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I am a fan of the "Sit and Stand" type strollers. Check these ones out:
http://www.onestepahead.com/catalog/product.jsp?productId=6793
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Baby-Sit-N-Stand-Stroller-Galaxy/5246099
http://www.nextag.com/sit-n-stand-stroller/shop-html

Especially at 2 1/2 years old, most likely your older child would not want to be confined to a stroller all the time. This worked very well for my children who were about 2 1/2 to 3 years apart. They do have these "Leashes" which I was never a fan of, because it kind of makes it seem like the children are being treated like animals. My 3rd child was a "Wanderer" though (Found out later he has Autism) so we did use one for a few months. Here are some examples of more discrete ones: http://www.walmart.com/ip/Goldbug-2-in-1-Monkey-Child-Safety-Harness/4532497
http://www.mypreciouskid.com/toddler-backpack-harness.html

Two toddlers, one adult on an airplane, what to take?

Cindy

I'm leaving tomorrow to take my kids to see my parents. The flight will be 6 hours long. What are the must-haves of flying with toddlers (1 and 2 years old). One will be on my lap. Please help. This is not as easy task!

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Sippy cups and bottles to help with the ear popping, drinking during lift off and landing can help with the discomfort. Also, make sure you don't overpack for your carryon, you are most likely going to have to carry enough without adding extra bulk and weight. Bring their favorite loveys, and either a portable dvd player or quiet toys that they really enjoy. Brought cars for my two year old when we flew with him. The worst part was hauling his car seat in and off of our three different planes. (was holding his little bro at the time too) Bring lots of snacks, as waiting can seem indefinate to little ones. Plus airport food is pricey! A small umbrella stroller will serve you well in the airport. They will even check it at the gate for you and have it ready when you land. Bring a sling or frontpack for the baby, you will be holding him/her alot and it will help. Make sure you know how to use it though, i had to show the girl behind me how to use hers mid-flight. Also, anything that usually calms your child is a good idea. You can try buying the two year old their own mini backpack so that he/she can carry their own toys or snacks. This will lighten your load and might encourage them to take that 'helper' role you are gonna need. Pack as lightly as you can, only what you would for a day spent at the mall for example, as you are going to have to lug all of it down the narrow airplane aisle carrying one and holding the others hand. Try to arrange for family boarding. I know southwest airlines does it, to give moms with small kids a chance to settle in before the plane fills up. You can always call the airline and ask how that works. Don't worry, most of the kids i have seen on planes sleep right through. The roar of the engines seem to lull them to sleep. (one note though, if your airline has open seating, make sure you notify the person sitting in front of you that you have a small child with you, and if they won't be comfortable having a child near them, if they would please relocate, the gentleman in front of my child asked me to move me and my two children, one of whom was in a carseat, in mid-flight because my sons kicking his own seat was bothering him. obviously i refused and informed him that it simply wasn't possible for the remaining halfhour of our flight, =) )

EDIT: i would also suggest bringing a leash for the two year old. I know some people find it barbaric, but you can find one at walmart that is elmo and bright red, and all you have to use is the actual tether part, it loops around their wrist. I found mine to be the most useful thing i packed in my diaper bag full of junk. (the leash comes with a full body harness like most, but i usually just use the wrist tether)

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9 month old baby activities...?

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Arial

I do everything that i can to stimulate my sons interests and would like to increase my knowledge on what I can do to encourage anything and everything that he can learn on the way to toddlerhood :) any ideas that you have or have tried on your baby/child would be great to hear.
@trollbert... seriously... do you not have anything better to do? I wish i could be your friend. You're obviously in desparate need of some love. You probably want to put up a front but i am seriously here to help you if you need someone to talk to. Send me an email and i can try to help you as much as i can :)

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I would take my son out for a walk daily when he was 9 months. It was the dead of winter here (January - Feb) but I would just bundle him up, put the weather guard over the stroller and off we'd go. He would often fall asleep but he would be up for at least some of the time, I would talk to him about the cars going by, or the busses..etc. Some of his first words were car and bus lol

I sang LOTS of song to him. The main ones were 'the wheels on the bus go round and round...", "Zoom, zoom. zoom, wer're going to the moon...", itsy bitsy spider...etc. Basically the songs that have a lot of movement and touching. He still loves those songs and he's almost 22 months.

On the nicer days, I would put him in the backpack carrier (BOBA carrier) and put my Suze's Kindercoat over top... and we'd go for long walks. I could talk to him a lot easier when he was on my back, and he LOVED it (actually still loves it).

I took him to the mall pretty often. It was a warm place that we could walk around and see things. I would just bring snacks with us (he was eating soft chunky foods by then), and I'd point things out to him. He seemed to like it.

I often took him swimming in warm teach pools. He loves to swim now, I think because I took him when he was so little. It's a great bonding experience too.

I think I started to take him to the gymnastics club around 9 or 10 months. Of course he couldn't run around but he liked to hold on to my hands and jump, with help, on the trampolines (the small ones). He also loved balls at that stage and the big exercise balls were fascinating for him. It was just somehting fun for him to do.

I also took him often to the library. He still loves it. I would pick out books for him (we still do that weekly) and we would also go to one of the free mom and baby programs that they offered through the week. I don't know if your library hosts these types of programs but they are great to start around 7+ months. Babies at that age like to watch other, older kids playing. It's good for them to watch interactions.

I also took my son to our community centre and parenting centre. I should add that I live in a traditionally high needs area so there are probably a few more services than average for parents, but you should be able to find parent-baby programs hosted by your local community centres, libraries, parenting centres (if you have them), cultural centres, churches...etc. They are a great resource for both you and your baby. Most of the programs offered from these venues are free. There are pay services too. I know there are things like gymboree, kindermusik....etc. I don't know how much they would get from these types of programs when they are so young but my son loves the kindermusik program now that he's a little older.

I should add that I read A TON to him. I would just 'read' the very simple board books to him. Basically I would describe what was going on in the picture, I rarely read what the words said. I don't think he was pointing by 9 months but he would stare at the pictures. Of course, his attention span was pretty short so once he start to seem bored with them, I would stop, and we'd get back to it later in the day. Now he goes and 'reads' to himself all the time. I have started actually reading soft covered books to him already (with pictures of course). He loves Caillou and Handy Manny.

Oh, I took him to the zoo when he was about 11 months, so if you've got a zoo where you live, that might be a good place to go.

Really, it's just to get your baby out and about - to stimulate your mind and provide a break from the dailiy monotony, and also for your son to just be a part of life. I don't think they necessarily take in life changing knowledge at that age but it provides stimulation. Also you probably will talk to him about things he's never seen. Even though he doesn't get what you're saying, he will be able to hear the excitement in your voice, and that's stimulation enough for their little brains. You certainly don't have to get out every day (I know it can be hard, especially if you live in a cold place) but if you can get out once or twice, it'll be good for you - which will make you a happier mom, which makes a happier baby ;)

Have fun!

Strollers are making me go insane?

FunkyMonke

So i have a high risk pregnancy and an overly cautious and slightly superstious husband, so i am 23 weeks and i have bought NOTHING... this however has been replaced by EXCESSIVE amounts of research on baby stuff, every freaking baby object you can imagine i have went nuts on reading reviews of, especially strollers. I have read so many blogs, seen so many pictures, i am literally obssessed with this stroller thing, i even read the reviews of European websites and i use a translator sometimes! I thought I had it figured out and settled on the Quinny Buzz + bassinet + Maxi-Cosi-Mico car seat, but then i realized the maxi cosi only lasts to 20 pounds and my friends baby is 22 pounds at 4 months! THen i saw the PEG PEREGO SKATE, and now i think i want that stroller instead. I was obssessed with the Stokke Explorey before i saw the Quinny in the store. I never liked the bugaboo b/c of it folds in two pieces. SO now i am just becoming super confused!!!!!!! What should i do? what stroller do i get? I am getting it later but i want to decide on it now? Please do not tell me i am insane for spending a lot of money on a stroller, i know it is excessive but when i went to Babies R US to look at the basic things like Graco and Evenflo I almost cried. They do not compare, and i do not want to buy another stroller in a year because those fell apart. I live in the city, the stroller has to be sturdy, i do not go on public transport pretty much ever , I do not use a car often, only with my husband (its a stick, i dont know how to drive it) ..... i want a stroller that is forward and rare facing and i want something that will last until child 1 is 4 and then through any other children i will have.
umm the stuff at babies r us sucked. They do not have the same stuff as they do online. They do not have stokke in stores or even bugaboo, atleast not the store i went to
Unfortuanatley i am in the US. The stroller options availabe in Europe just do not compare to anything we have here. The best strollers here are imported from EU, and only few are imported. You guys have the Joolz Bloom out recently, i can not even look at it as no store has it.

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Wow!! You sound like me! I read some of your post to my husband, and he was cracking up because it sounds so similar. I have a huge spreadsheet comparing widths, weights, folds, etc. for a couple dozen different strollers but have pretty much narrowed it down to just a few. We just drove over two hours (each way) yesterday to go stroller shopping for the first time. At the first store, we saw the Orbit Baby, Stokke Xplory, and Quinny Buzz (as well as a less expensive model we didn't like at all called the EasyWalker Sky.) Even though my husband initially ruled out any 3-wheel styles, he loved the Quinny. (It actually has two little wheels instead of 1 in the front center position.) I definitely liked it best of those three. Unfortunately, we didn't get to see the bassinet, which is something we'd definitely get. Then at the second store, we were able to see the Peg Perego Skate and the Bugaboo Cameleon. Well, my husband never, ever thought he'd want to spend $900 for a stroller (when I started my research, he thought even $500 was nutty), but it was seriously love at first sight. He really didn't even want to bother with the Cameleon after seeing the Skate. (In his words, it's like the Ferrari of strollers...the whole "Italian thing".) Like you, I had also ruled out the Bugaboo because of the 2-fold thing, but it's my mom's favorite (because of all the "pretty colors"), so I was trying to be open-minded. The only reservation I had had about the Skate (other than the high price, of course), prior to seeing it, was the weight: 33.7 lbs! But it didn't bother us at all. Like you, this is our first child so maybe we don't really "know" how much of a pain it's going to be to lift it in and out of the car every day. But we're both healthy, strong, fairly athletic people, so we decided it doesn't matter to us. I'd say that the bugaboo maneuvers every-so-slightly better than the Skate but not so much so that we'd consider it over the Skate. Now, the only other "serious contender" is one we haven't been able to see in person: the Uppababy Vista. It's a LOT cheaper and doesn't seem to have any major flaws (other than the 27" width when the regular all-terrain wheels are on it.) My parents (who live elsewhere in the country) have seen both the Skate and the Uppababy. Dad loved the uppababy but forgot why by the time he saw the Skate. (Clearly, he isn't taking this whole "stroller research" thing as seriously as he should!!) They saw the Skate and Cameleon side-by-side. Unfortunately, the salesman who demonstrated them was CLEARLY biased against the Skate and loved the Cameleon. I won't get into everything he said here, since this is already probably too long of a response, but suffice to say that I don't think it was a "fair comparison". So mom left the store still thinking the Bugaboo was still superior. That was disappointing for us, since we were hoping she'd share our "Skate excitement". Anyway, the only stroller other than the Uppababy I haven't seen and still haven't eliminated (based on negative reviews, specs, etc.) is the Bumbleride Queen B. But at this point, I'd say it's likely between the Uppababy and the Skate for us. Perhaps if we saw the Quinny bassinet and loved it, we *might* be tempted to put it back on our short list. But really, that convertible bassinet-seat feature is awesome. The guy who showed my parents the Skate emphasized that the Bugaboo bassinet is far superior in terms of baby's comfort, but to us (again, "first time parents", so take my comments with a grain of salt), the Skate bassinet looked plenty comfy! So I don't know if I've helped at all. Like you, I just want to DECIDE, even if we don't buy right away, so I can move on to the next decision (carriers/backpacks, perhaps...) And it sounds like we are basing our decision on very similar criteria. Have you seen the Skate in person? I think there's a very good chance that's what we'll end up with. The only remaining concern we have about the Skate is that it's the first model year, and there are bound to be minor glitches as a result, at least in some of the strollers they sent out. So that's a risk. My husband is going to call Peg Perego USA customer service on monday, partly to get answers to a couple little questions but also partly to find out how easy they are to deal with, in the event that we do get the Skate and have problems with it. I know Peg Perego is a solid brand that's been around forever. (My mom had Peg Peregos for my siblings and me!) But we're certainly not taking the decision to buy a $900 stroller lightly. (not to mention the $250 infant seat that goes with it and possibly the $100 matching storage bag...) Best of luck in your search! Hopefully, you'll just see one and just know that it's "the one" for you!!

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How do you carry your baby when you go out?

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Mountains

When you go out with your baby, what do you use to carry him or her around? I'm just wondering which items I should get before my little one is born, so I thought I'd ask all of the moms & dads - which item(s) do you use the most when you go out? and why do you prefer to carry them that way?

For example:
Stroller
Carseat carrier
Sling
Hold in arms
Backpack carrier
Front carrier (ex. Snugli)
other?

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I agree with the car seat in stroller. The reason I like this, is purely CONVENIENCE! When you use this method, your baby is already in the car seat in the car, you simply unbuckle the car seat from it's position, press the carrier's release button, and wah-lah the car seat is free to go with you. Next, your husband pulls the stroller around and the carseat clicks right into place, than the car seat and stroller both have a canopy that connects, so baby is better protected from wind, rain, and loud noises. You can stroller baby around which is great, because trust me, baby's get heavy overtime and tired arms make for tired moms. The stroller makes for a smooth ride, and you can use the under carriage to store baby's items, diapers, spit-up rags, extra bottles or whatever, plus they usually come equipped with a cup holder which is perfect to hold a drink of your choice while you are moving around the store.

The super positive points:

If baby is sleeping, you don't have to wake the baby at all when you leave him/her in the carseat, you don't have to worry about anyone bumping into baby on accident, because they were not paying attention to your precious bundle you were carrying in your arms.

If you are in a grocery store, and don't need a stroller, the car seat carrier should just click right into the cart, and again, you won't have to wake baby up, or worry about how dirty the pre-provided baby carrier that comes with some shopping cart might be.

How to travel with newborn internationally?

zawjatuabd

I would like to travel soon with my 7 week old baby to Canada so he can see his grandparents. This will be a 22 hr flight via airplane! How soon can I travel and how I carry him with me conveniently? car seat, stroller what kind, backpack carrier? Anyone tried travelling w a newborn- can u give me tips

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Oh wow i will be travelling from Canada hopefully within a week so her grandparents can see her and that will 22 hours of flight too but the difference is she will 4 months actually i wanted to go since she was 1 month but passport took some time. well the advices i got and after searching on different websites i came to know that:
When you get your tickets just ask them if there is anyway they can give you the seat where you can hook a bassinet up for the baby.
Take lots of diapers, pacifier, wipes, 2 to 3 change of cloths,
Make sure you take a soft blanket of your lill one.
Please don't drug the baby with Benadryl it can create more problem for you because sometimes babies get cranky.
Just make sure that u are feeding the kid (either bottle or breast feed) at the time of take off and landing so that he/she isn't cranky due to air pressure.
Btw dont worry your baby will be sleeping most of the time :)
Good luck!

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What is a good baby sling that is comfortable and causes minimal back pain?

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Chiro

I am looking for a good quality and hopefully cute baby sling for a baby shower gift. I really don't want to spend more than $100.

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Personally, I like the Over the Shoulder Baby Holder (OTSBH). It comes in a lot of fabrics and several sizes (based on the size of the adult, not the baby--it can be worn as long as the baby is carried). But mostly, I like it because it is so good for my back.

I have always had back problems, but when I bought my first OTSBH, I had been carrying my child in an aluminum frame backpack. My back and neck were so sore that I could turn my head from side to side more than a tiny bit. I bought the OTSBH in desperation. Wearing my child (then 1 1/2) in it for many hours a day actually *healed* my sore back!! Two days later, I had full movement back (other times when I've had the same problem it took months and repeated therapeutic massage).

A sling is better than other kinds of baby carriers because they are more flexible. A baby can lie down in front of you in at least 2 different positions, and it supports her/his back perfectly. When they're a little older, they can sit in front of you, facing outwards with you supporting the back and head. And a toddler can sit on your hip or back.

I'm sure most brands of slings are similar; the important thing is that a sling is worn with the fabric spread out along the entire back and baby's weight is also supported on the hip and opposite shoulder. So it supports the back and spreads the weight evenly on the parent's upper body. But the OTSBH is also better (in my opinion) because it has padding (along both long sides and on the parent's shoulder), and is adjustable. Some slings are sewn closed and cannot be adjusted; this means you need a different one for each parent, and it makes it harder to get it on and off. And the padding makes it more comfortable on the wearer's shoulder, and makes me feel more sure that the baby can't fall out the side (although I'm sure the unpadded ones are safe--it just *feels* safer). Unpadded slings have the advantage of taking less room to pack up, but I'll keep the comfort and skip the ease of packing.

They retail for about $45 and are widely available on baby stores on the Web. I think all slings are in the same price range.

How much do framed baby backpacks support?

rainwriter

I'm looking at getting a metal framed hiking type back pack. What is the upper weight/age limit to these? Here's the one I'm looking at getting. http://eastidaho.craigslist.org/bab/796313648.html Are these too big for toddlers?

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they only go to 25 pds. Why don't you look at the ERGO carrier, those metal frames are horrible for you back! The ergo is great and comfy I use it all the time

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What stores in the mall sell baby phat clothes?

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mattnniki6

I usually get my baby phat clothes online (on their website), but I have heard that there are other places to get baby phat clothes for cheap. Does anyone know of these places? is the mall one? and where else.

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Girl, here's what I do.... Go to Burlington if you have one where you live. Burlington sells Baby Phat Jeans for less than 54.00 a piece, sometimes only 34.00 a piece. Also, all their shirts and hoodies are under 40.00. Their jackets are about 119.00 a piece. The only downside to them is that they don't have a very large selection, (like maybe only 5-10 different styles of shirts and 5 different styles of jeans and a few capris) but the money you save when you find something you love is outstanding! You also can get purses and those little backpack things with prices ranging from 19.99 to 64.00. They got belts too sometimes. I love Burlington so much. They also have other types of name brand stuff, like G-Unit, Rocawear, Enyce, etc. I hope this helps. I also order offline, cause Baby Phat is the majority of what I wear, but it's so easy to burn 200.00 on just like.... three things. Try Burlington. As far as Macy's goes, I've never known Macy's to sell ANYTHING Baby Phat, and I used to shop at Macy's quite often. Oh yeah! Try TJ Max. They mostly have purses for under 50.00, but sometimes you'l come across some really cute shirts or jeans for under 40.00! The shirts will be like 19.99! I hope this helps.

Any suggestions for a backpack baby carrier?

jveryrad

I have a very active 15month old daughter. She likes to grab objects and destroy them. She is difficult to bring to a store. Yesterday, I had to hold her while shopping in hardware stores because she insisted on opening packages or bottles if I let her down. The shopping carts can be very dirty in a hardware store.

Does anyone use a backpack baby carrier for their toddlers for shopping? I don't do much hiking, and I use a stroller to take her on walks. So I would just use it to take her where I don't want her to run around.

Is it safe to get into? Is there a risk of dropping her while putting the backpack on? Any other uses for this? Any suggestions for brands? I heard Tough Traveler is good. Thanks.

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I love my backpack for shopping, and I can still carry my soon to be 3 year old. This is the one I have http://www.mec.ca/Products/product_detail.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524441776409&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302735239&bmUID=1160421939450 . We bought it almost 5 years ago when our oldest was the right size for it. It still looks brand new. I used it for shopping and long walks, my husband uses it for hiking. Have fun!

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Any opinions about baby backpacks and stroller systems?

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army_siste

I don't have a baby yet but I might in the future. My question is about baby backpacks and strollers. Snuggli is one backpack I have seen. How useful are they? I saw one that said it could be used in the front for a small baby and on the back for a larger one up to 27 pounds. Are they comfortable and easy to get on and off? My concern was would my back start hurting after awhile? I have also seen some that have a metal frame that goes on the back? It looks kind of like the old hiking backpacks. Has anyone used that type? Is the soft Snuggli type better than the metal frame type?
On to strollers. I see alot of the stroller systems that come with the carseat carriers. Does anyone have an opinion whether they think the type that holds a carseat is better than just a regular stroller? I can see the benefits of both types. I would be a busy mom who be going on lots of walks and would also need to have one that would fold up nicely for the trunk of the car.Any other must haves for a baby?

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Baby backpacks: I liked them okay. My husband loved ours. He would carry our daughter around all the time. They get in the way if you're trying to do something (and you really can't bend over) but they're nice for walking around and shopping if you don't want a stroller.
Stroller: Get one with a car seat carrier. They are so nice. You have to have a car seat anyway so why not get one that can snap onto your stroller. Its good for an infant because you know their head is protected in the carseat and you can see them at all times because you put the carseat on facing you in the stroller. Also, when your child is too big for the car seat, you can just use the stroller as a regular stroller. We have a 17 month old and have both kinds. Both fit into our trunk nicely. Our Jeep stroller (which is for older kids kind of a more expensive umbrella stroller) is great for going to the store. Her other stroller is nice if he needs a nap because she can lay down in it. Other things to have are a bouncy seat, a swing (our daughter absolutely loved hers), and for hen s/he can walk a stationary set so s/he can stand and play at the same time. We also liked our jumparoo but some people say they're bad for kids' legs. There are many good things for a baby, but it's all about what's good for you and your baby.

Good family activities to do with my three year old daughter?

Travis

She seems to be getting a bit tired of the park, aquarium, zoo, and ponds. Generally this something my wife and I do every other weekend or so, just to get out of the house and spend some time together.

Also, we have twin five months old, and we'd rather not go hiking / camping with the infants, as you can imagine.

My daughter generally enjoys anything with animals, and crafts. She doesn't particularly enjoy anything 'girly' from what we've gathered. Likes to figure out puzzles, and always finding ways to make things 'work'. (She'll find a broken toy and will attempt to make it work again.) Extremely shy, if anyone comes at her too quickly, she's retreat behind my wife's leg.

Open to any serious suggestions, :) Thank you in advance.
My daughter hates the water, refuses to go to the pools / lakes with us. She will only go to the frog ponds with us to try and catch frogs in the puddles. Thanks for the suggestion though! :)

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Some more ideas outside of the house...

-- Museums -- art, science, children's, etc. Most places have things for young children.
-- Library story hour
-- Children's theater production (maybe just for the 3-year-old and one parent, no babies)
-- Pet store. You don't have to buy anything -- just look at the animals.
-- Indoor playgrounds -- mall, McDonald's, other parks
-- Check out parks with short hiking trails (and you can wear the babies in backpack carriers), or find a new playground in your area.
-- Find a way to make old adventures more interesting. For example, our zoo has specific animal feeding times, so when we want something new, we choose a couple animals that we want to watch get fed that day. Or we splurge and buy the crackers to feed the giraffes ourselves or the food for the lorikeets. Or we watch for special events or shows on certain days.
-- Also, keep trying the pools/lakes. She may grow to like them over time.

Things to do at home...
-- Draw with chalk. You can do pictures, hopscotch, draw a maze or a path to follow, etc.
-- Ride bikes/scooters up and down the sidewalk.
-- Use blue painter's tape on hardwood or linoleum floors to make hopscotch or paths inside (for rainy/cold days).
-- Puzzles. (Maybe you could pick up a couple new ones.)
-- Board games like Candy Land.
-- Paint with water. You can do this on the driveway, the side of the house, or anywhere. Just get a cup of water and a paintbrush, and it disappears as it dries. Aquadoodle mats are fun for indoors.
-- Take a walk while you push babies in the stroller and she pushes a doll in her own stroller.
-- Build with blocks.
-- Take a magnifying glass or binoculars, and go on an animal hunt in your neighborhood. Look for birds, squirrels, rabbits, chipmunks, and all kinds of bugs.
-- Get an easel and some dry-erase markers, and let her draw and erase as much as she wants.
-- Since she likes puzzles and building, let her help with minor repairs around the house. If you're doing some hammering to hang a picture on the wall, let her help hammer a nail or two into a spare piece of wood. When my kids were 3, their preschool teacher had them hammer big pieces of styrofoam together, and then they got to paint what they had created. I think they even got to use a real saw to help saw the styrofoam before hammering it.
-- Get some sewing cards and let her "sew" them with shoelaces.
-- Start collections of leaves, flowers, or rocks, and let her sort and count them.
-- Blow bubbles.
-- When it rains, let her go out and jump in all the puddles.
-- Turn on all kinds of music, and dance around the house. She can even play along with her own toy or homemade instruments.
-- Read books. Lots and lots of books.

Honestly, there are so many things you can do with a 3-year-old. If you live in or near a major city, there are probably tons of things you haven't even discovered yet, and there's plenty you can do at home as well. Have fun!

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I have a baby coming soon what are some of the things I will need? here is a list of what I have aready.?

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Q. Crib
baby car seat
diper genie
some clothes
baby bottles
cleaning stuff for the baby
baby bath tub

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New Parents' Checklist
Preparing for a new baby can be quite a daunting task. To make it a little easier, we've listed the essentials by category.
Add the products to your registry, then check them off your list.





Gear
Car Seat (infant or convertible seat)
Car Seat Base for 2nd Car
Car Seat Head Support
Auto Mirror
Stroller (look for one with full recline)
Stroller Sunshade
Portable Crib or Playard
Playard Sheets
Sling or Soft Carrier


Activity
Gym or Playmat
Bouncer Seat
Jumper
Swing
Stationary Entertainer
Walker


Health & Safety
Baby Monitor
Safety Gate
Corner Guards & Tot Locks
Humidifier
Thermometer
Brush and Comb
First Aid Kit
Nail Scissors
Gas Relief Drops


Diapering
Diaper Bag
Diaper Pails and Refills
Rash Ointment and Powder
Wipes Warmer
Diapers (3 newborn pkgs. & 1 size one)
Baby Wipes



Clothing & Layette
Baby Boys' Clothes
Baby Girls' Clothes
Unisex Clothes
Homecoming Outfit
4-6 T-shirts or Kimonos
Shirts and One Pieces
Coveralls & Outfits
Layette Sets
Sweaters
2 Sleepsacks
4-8 Gowns
Absorbent Bibs
Booties or Socks
Hats
Snowsuit or Bunting and Warm Hat (for winter babies)
Receiving Blankets
Nursery
Bassinet or Cradle
Crib
Mattress
Mattress Pad
Crib Bedding Set
Fitted Sheets, Cotton and/or Flannel
Crib Blankets
Sleep Positioner
Mobile
Dresser/Armoire
Changing Table
Changing Pad & Covers
Glider and Ottoman or Rocker
Hamper
Lamp
Nursery Storage
Window Treatments
Rug
Nursery Accessories (wall hangings, shelves, etc.)


Toys, Rattles & More
Rattles/Teethers
Toys for 0-12 Months
Stuffed Animals
Crib Mirror
Crib Toys
Car Seat & Stroller Toys
Feeding
Breast Pump
Nursing Pillow & Nursing Stool
Breast Pads, Shields & Cream
Bibs, Burp Cloths and Lap Pads
Bottles and Nipples
Bottle Sterilizer
High Chair
Feeding Sets
Infant Spoons



Bath & Potty
Bath Tub
Bath Toys
Washcloths & Hooded Towels
Gentle Shampoo or Body Wash
Baby Lotion
Bath Accessories


Books, Music & More
Pregnancy & Childbirth Books
Breastfeeding & Parenting Books
Colorful Board Books for Baby
Classical or Lullaby Music
Camera (digital, video, or film)
Baby Book or Journal
Personalized Gifts
Gift Sets


Travel & Weather
Snap 'N Go Stroller Frame
Stroller Blanket Bag
Stroller Rain Shield
Baby Backpack
Portable Feeding Seats

Attachment Parents, what baby gear did you use?

Army Bride

Trying to figure out how much of this is just 'fluff'. Sorry so much is listed. If its easier you can just copy/paste the list and delete out the entries you didn't use. Also, if you have the time, please list reasons why you used or didn't use certain items. THANK YOU!! You can also add to the list if you feel the need.

Infant car seat
Convertible car seat
Basic stroller
"Snap-on" stroller frame
Jogging stroller
Play yard
Baby backpack
Front carrier
Sling or wrap carrier
Diaper bag
Activity Equipment
Swing
Bouncer/bouncy seat
Activity center
Play mat/gym
Doorway jumper
Crib
Changing table
Glider or rocker
Bassinet
Co-sleeper
Hamper
Coordinated crib bedding set
Mobile
Baby Dresser
Decorations
Baby monitor
Bottles and nipples
Highchair
Utensils
Plates and bowls
Cups and sippy cups
Burp cloths
Bottle brush
Bibs
Electric breast pump
Manual breast pump
Nursing bras
Nursing pillow
Baby towel with hood
Infant bathtub
Tub for older baby
Baby washcloths
Brush and comb
Baby nail clippers
Safety gates
Diaper pail
Diaper pail refills
Pacifiers
Humidifier
Birth announcements
Baby book or scrapbook

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I don't know if I'm an attachment parent or not, but from the very little I know about AP I can safely say that I at least share similar views on most things.

These are things we use regularly, if not daily:
Infant car seat
Play yard (although not so much now that my son has outgrown the bassinet part and isn't quite mobile enough to need it again yet)
Sling or wrap carrier (this has been absolutely invaluable to us, we wouldn't want to live without at least one)
Diaper bag; admittedly a small one, and mostly just for daycare and day long trips
Crib, Bassinet; we used the bassinet for the first four months, after that he moved into the crib
Swing, Bouncer/bouncy seat; we only have a travel swing at home, but he does seem to enjoy the bouncy seat at daycare
Bottles and nipples, Bottle brush; I really wanted to breastfeed but was unable to, plus he needs to take a bottle at daycare while I'm at work
Hamper
Baby towel with hood, Baby washcloths, Infant bathtub; admittedly a regular towel would work just as well, but we got a bunch of hooded towels as gifts
Diaper pail; we use a reusable liner (cloth diapers)
Humidifier; this is really more for us than the baby, we've always had to use one during winter
Safety gates; currently being used mostly for the dogs, but I would consider these essential for any house once the baby is mobile
Pacifiers; we use these on and off, he goes through stages where he really likes them and stages where he won't take them
Baby nail clippers; probably not essential, but I do find them easier to control than regular clippers
Changing table; a lot of people say it's a waste of money, but I use mine every single day and it doubles as storage for diapers, wipes, burp rags, and blankets
Glider or rocker; again, not essential, but I LOVE mine and found it very worth the money (we bought it used for about $40)
Bibs; we didn't use them much until we started solids, but now we go through several a day.

Birth announcements, Baby book or scrapbook, Coordinated crib bedding set, Mobile; these are all just fluff, but they are things I wanted and enjoy anyway. And my son really enjoys "talking" to his mobile. We also have a soft-bristled baby brush that we do use occasionally, but if we suddenly lost it I don't think I'd worry about replacing it.

We don't have a dresser because our nursery is just too small. Instead we either hang his clothes or put them in canvas baskets on shelves in the closet.

We do have a stroller that works with the car seat. But since we have the slings we generally find it easier to use that than fight with the stroller. The sling is more maneuverable (I can go anywhere with it) and takes up no space in the car. I do anticipate using it more when our son is older and when I have more than one child. But for now it's just sitting in his closet.

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What is the BEST hiking baby carrier/backpack for child to be able to move some and be comfortable?

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Tarzan-got

My husband is 6'2" and 290lbs and I'm 5'8" and 185---we are not small people. I don't want our daughter to have to do a split in order to sit in the carrier. We want a backpack one because she doesn't like to be right up against us either. We are starting to go hiking regularly and would love to be able to take her with us. She is 2 but only 22 pounds. We'd love for her to be able to move around.

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here is a variety read the reviews
http://www.rei.com/search?search=child+carrier

Advice or opinions about baby carriers (reviews?)?

LeaLea

Hi. My SO and I are doing the pre-baby shopping and having a hard time finding the right carrier. I guess we want one that does it all and is ergonomically friendly. Maybe that's too much to ask? We would prefer to be able to carry baby in front, on our backs, or on our hip - also we would like baby to be able to face us or face out when carried on the front. Lastly, something that has good back and hip support would be ideal since there may be times when we're wearing it for hours. Does anyone know of anything out there like this??

We have looked at Baby Bjorn, but that does not appear to be able to carry on the front AND on the back (backpack or piggyback style). Also, we found the ERGObaby, but that only allows baby to face you when riding in the front - baby can't face out. Also, while ERGO baby gets good reviews it doesn't appear suitable until the baby gets a bit bigger and we would like to only buy one carrier in stead of one for when it's a newborn and one for when it's a bit older.

Anyone find the perfect baby carrier for themselves? Something out there we've missed? Your input is appreciated - thanks!!

Answer
You might ike a Moby Wrap- it's very flexible and can do all the positions you mentioned.

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What will I need for the new baby?

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Jennifer D

Experienced moms, I need your help please! I am getting ready to register for baby shower gifts. Besides the big stuff like nursery furniture, car seats, strollers, etc., what are/were the things you wanted/needed/used the most? There are so many products out there that it's hard to distinguish between what's necessary and what's just going to sit in the closet unused. Thanks in advance for your advice!

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i was 19 and just shy of homeless when i became a mother. ths is the absolute survival kit, no nonsense list.

a bassinet or playpin- wont sleep in the crib for a few months anyway
lots of recieving blankets-u can slso use cloth diaper theyre cheaper and dont stain as easy
2 good heavy duty diaper bags- none of that cheap plastic stuff. you could use a messenger bag or backpack you already own, keep one on stand by, trust me itll come in handy
diapers-dont buy too many nb size you probably wont use them all
wipes get huggies they are thick so you use less they cost more than the cheap brands but you save money cause you dont need as many
CARSEAT!!!!!!!not negotiable, if you can buy new if not get one that hasnt been in an accident-muy importante
towels and cloths
medicine kit- rash ointment tylenol, thermometer, aspirator, humidifier, pain meds for you
witch hazel pads- for ur sore bottom
bathing supplies-it wont kill your kids if you dotn buy johnsons
xtra blankets
lots of socks-warm feet warm baby
bottles for formula or to store milk if you pump
flashlight and landline phone- incase power outage or emergency cell/cordless might not work
snugli is nice - sturdy cost effective and keeps the kid close
that damn boppy pillow- helps baby sit up and gives nursing support-easier on moms back
if u got more than 1 car 2seats
swing- my kids loved this thing- i believe it saved me from a nervous breakdown
lip balm
hard candy
pjs, onsies,
lots of laundry detergent
a good book
tissue- yes tissue
plastic baggies- put wipes and cotton swabs in them, pacifiers if you use one, theyre generally useful
nice stuff for you-shampoo soap anything.the first few weeks can be kinda rough a nice treat just for you can be i little pick me up.
hope you find this useful, goodluck!

Top five must have and wish you didn't waste $$$ on for newborn nursery?

M k

We are expecting our first child in a few months and are wondering what are the top five things your child (and you) couldn't live without the first 6 mos and the five things you wish you (or someone else) didn't waste money on? Obviously the basics of a crib, etc are a given...Thanks in advance!

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My top 4 would be....
1.a nursing pillow
2.bouncy chair
3.DH/SO helping out
4.Breast pump
Those things I could have not made to 6 months without

Since I never had a baby shower, I had to buy everything myself. I don't really have anything that was a waste of money, but I have things that I didn't need right away.
1. crib, I co-sleep, and only now does my son sleep in it. I made it into a big co-sleeper
2.change table, never got one. I change my son on the floor in the bathroom or on my bed.
3.diaper bag, over priced and too small. School backpacks work better.

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How should I handle my son's grandmother who insists on coddling my 8 1/2 year old boy?

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Jillian

So my son is 8 1/2. His dad and I have been split up for 4 years and I have recently gotten full custody of him. His dad lost visitation for a while but has been gaining that back since November. He (the dad) now lives back with his parents while he gets back on his feet but by him living there- his mom (the grandma) is also there, spending just as much time with our son as the dad does.

She does anything and everything that she can for my son. She will ask him what he wants for dinner and then no matter what he says, she will make sure that's what they cook or order. It doesn't matter if its Chicken and a hamburger and fish, they will make it all. If my son brings his backpack and toys over there, she will carry his toys for him-- my rule is not to bring anything you can't carry.

The arranged days that my son goes over there are Wed overnight and one weekend day overnight and then he goes skiing with them on Thursdays. So he is now spending quite a bit of time with them.

Every time my son comes home, I feel like his manners are just gone. He doesn't clean up after himself. He doesn't say please or thank you. He holds things out or holds his hand out if he wants or doesn't want something... doesn't use his words just tries to hand it off.

His dad has asked grandma to stop coddling our son and let him be more independent but she does what she wants. It is driving me crazy! And my son gets in trouble when he comes home if he isn't using good manners and being respectful...

What can I do!?!

I know I need to talk to her but is that enough!? She hasn't cared or stopped yet in these 8+ years :(

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Talk to his grandmother and talk to your son. Make sure he knows what is acceptable behavior and what you expect of him. For example my little brother, who is also around you son's age, has a friend who is spoiled rotten. Like in me and my brother the age gap between him and his older siblings is about ten years, so he is seen as the baby thus spoiled rotten. When he first started going over there I thought that my brother might pick up on his habits and expect things to just be handed to him, for instance one time my brother told his friend that he was saving up his allowance that he gets for doing small chores around the house, to buy a Lego set well his little friend told him that he shouldn't have to do that, that he should just continue to ask for it until he got it and it's stuff like that he is always telling my brother the things that he should and shouldn't have to do, but we talked to brother and he now understands that things aren't just handed to you, you have to work for them. For instance right now we have a deal going on with my brother, if he can get a 4.0 for this school year we'll buy him a new Lego set, which he is working hard for trying to raise his current grade of a 3.6. So like I said just talk to him before and after he spends time with his grandmother, so he knows how what it is you want from him and talk to your son's father too, make sure you guys are on the same page.

Oh and to that one person I dont see how she is ruining her son's life, a lot of kids grow up with divorced parents and are perfectly fine. All kids really need to while growing up is to feel safe and loved which I'm sure is how her son feels.

What do I need to have for a new born baby?

mona

I need to know what furniture, clothing, and other necessities to properly bring home my newborn baby.

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You'll find a lot of people recommend things that are nice to have but not necessary. Obviously you need clothes, diapers, wipes, soap/shampoo, car seat, baby nail clippers, and feeding supplies.

Nursing pillows are nice, but any pillow can prop your arm/baby up. Bouncers can help, but didn't work for my son. A crib will eventually be necessary, but a lot of babies are happiest sleeping with Mom or in the car seat for the first few months. Changing tables are easier on your back, but I change my 7 week old on a changing mat that came with my diaper bag. Baby bathtubs are a good idea, but many babies have been bathed in the sink. Diaper warmers are a waste of money.

If you're breastfeeding, a pump can give you some freedom. A swing saved my sanity with both my children. A thermometer can relieve middle of the night worries (ear thermometers work better on older children. A newbon's ear canal is too small for an acurate reading). Along those lines, mylincon drops for gas and baby Tylenol or Motrin (don't wait until you need it). A dresser (you have to put the clothes somewhere), but a cheap rubbermaid set of drawers from Wal-Mart lasted my son for a while. Rattles and other toys will become necessary, but for the first little bit your face will be their favorite thing to look at (along with lights, ceiling fans, and large high contrast objects like furniture and the tv). A sling or some type of baby carrier is a good idea(I have a backpack and a sling and prefer the sling). I don't use my stroller very often, but I'm glad I have it. A baby monitor is necessary if your home is large, but can be useful in a small apartment too (it helps me to be able to relax and not rush my shower). My kids didn't care about a crib mobile at first, but as their vision improved they did like it more. You will need a diaper pail, but at first (until they start solid food) the diapers don't smell too bad and can be thrown in a regular trash can. Many hospitals will give you a free diaper bag (I got 2 with my son). As they grow books will always be a necessity.

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How will i be able to carry all of this stuff?

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Q. LOL i have a stupid question but im sure some of you moms have a solution so. Well since im still a teenager im still in school. But i also have a baby. So i go to a school for teen-parents. Anywho my question is how am i going to be able to carry my purse,diaper-bag, backpack & of course my daughter. Like i have my backpack for school, diaper bag for my girl, purse for my stuff & then of course my baby how can i carry all of this stuff ( well my daughters a human not stuff :)). Do you think i should put my stuff in my daughters diaper-bag? I know this is a stupid question but i just cant figure it out ( im really tired lol) Does anybody have a solution? Thanks :)
I already have a stroller :)

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Put your purse in your backpack that will help with one bag. Is there a spot in the care center that you can leave some extra baby items so you don't have to carry them everyday? I know most day cares have a special cubby for each child that they keep their extra stuff in maybe your school with have something similar. Or If you have a locker there you can leave some extra baby items there.

If your carrying a diaper for your baby what kind of bag are you using for yourself?

missb89

I carry a diaper bag for my daughter... But I have been seeing some really cute tote bags around...

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I don't carry a separate bag for myself either, I got given a juju be BFF diaper bag which can be used as a tote, handbag or backpack. It is big enough to fit 3x singlets, 2x tops, 2x pants, 1x jacket, spare socks and shoes, a hat, 4x diapers, wipes, my purse, glasses and a little zip up bag containing lip balm, mints, cell phone. It's very good!
I would rather carry around a tote or backpack with everything I need in it, than have two separate bags to lug around.

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My daughter and 18 month old Grand daughter are flying to Hong Kong in a few weeks?

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amfound2

Any ideas how to keep a small child amused on a flight lasting almost 12 hours?

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I'm a former Flight Attendant who used to be based in Hong Kong. I flew for 13 years and now fly a lot with my own kids since each was 4 months old.

Both at work and when I flew, I found this age to be the most difficult. Toddlers love to roam, hate being confined and don't usually understand concepts like "You'll have to stay seated but soon you can get up".

Our flights are almost as long, 11 1/2 hours. What I find that works are
-anything coloring related, even simple paper and crayons
-a backpack that they pick their favorite toys
-a new toy which I keep and show them onboard.

Don't depend on the airline to give you something. The age might not be appropriate and many airlines have cut those toys out of the budget.

I will say that I don't think a portable DVD player is that great an idea for such a young child. Will she wear the headphones? Can she watch it without sound? Will it really hold her attention for long enough to justify dragging such a heavy object onboard? Will she not spill anything on it or drop it?

For such a long flight, the DVD player would have to have a battery life of at least 5 hours, better more since it's not possible to recharge them onboard. If your daughter thinks it's a good idea, she better try it with your granddaughter at home first.

Just some general tips, I really recommend bringing her car seat and using it onboard. This works great for toddlers and I have had to strap an unhappy little person down more than once. Holding such a big baby in a lap for such a long flight wouldn't be too comfortable and the only way to fly safely with her is if she is strapped into her own seat onboard. Children under 2 are allowed on most airlines because the chance of anything happening are so slim but if something does occur, these children aren't protected.

If you're flying a U.S. airline, here is the relevant page;
http://www.faa.gov/passengers/fly_children/crs/
The CARES harness pictured above might be a good alternative if the car seat is not needed in Hong Kong;
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/

If you're flying a non-U.S. carrier, check your airlines' website to see if your car seat will be accepted.

If a seat is not booked for your grandchild, see if they can put an extra seat next to them, if the flight's not full.

Both of you keep an eye out for her at all times. Two of my toddlers loved to run into crowds at airports.

Bring a change of clothes and about 1/3 more of everthing than you think will be needed. Put them in plastic bags and rubber band them to save space in luggage.

Advise your daughter to learn to change your granddaughter standing up. Try this at home first! Toddlers are usually too big for airline changing tables and they hate lying down in strange places anyway. This trick will mean not having to hunt down the changer and she can use the handicapped lav during the flight.

About 8 years ago I wrote an article on this subject for a local expat newsletter. Over the years, I expanded it and put it on a blog to share with other parents, many of whom have contributed. I wanted a non-commercial place on the net where parents could get both practical *and* professional information.
http://flyingwithchildren.blogspot.com

I also recommend a backpack or other carrier. Hong Kong is very crowded and sometimes a stroller is not the best idea. If you ride the MTR, it'll be very useful as those stations are very deep with a lot of escaltors.

Make sure you all visit the restroom and your granddaughter's diaper is changed before the very long ride from Chep Lak Kok into central Hong Kong. It's way out there!

Hope you all will be there during Chinese New Year. It's really an experience!

Have a great time!

What is a good baby shower theme?

ur mom

I need a baby shower theme for a boy and girl. And I need to no some gifts I should put on the registry and prizes for some games

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Themes:
Some people go with themes others do not...they have abc themes, pooh, disney babies, jungle animals, monkeys, sea life, forest animals etc...

Gift ideas:
This is walmart.com checklist for a new baby:D

Crib or bassinet / co-sleeper
Waterproof crib liner
Crib mattress
Mattress pad
Fitted sheets (cotton or flannel)
Crib bedding set
Crib blankets (3-5)
Crib lights (2)
Receiving blankets (4-5)
Sleep positioner
Changing table
Changing pads and covers
Dresser / armoire
Rocking chair or gliding rocker
Ottoman or nursing stool
Hamper
Nursery monitor
Mobile
Crib mirror
Crib toys
Lamp
Rug
Toy box
Nursery storage
Window treatments
Clothing / Layette (for newborn to 6 months)
Home-from-the-hospital outfit
Pullover T-shirts
Side-snap T-shirts
Onesies or bodysuits
Layette sets
Sleeping gowns or stretchies
Footed rompers
Top and pant sets
Mittens
Blanket
Swaddlers
Baby laundry detergent
Lightweight cotton sweaters (2)
Booties and socks
Shoes (2)
Snowsuit (for winter babies)
Warm hats (2)
Baby hangers
Diapers
Diaper bag
Diaper pail and liners
Rash ointment and powders
Wipes
Wipes warmer
Travel pack wipes
Infant tub
Tub splash seat
Hooded towels (2-4)
Baby lotion
Baby oil
Baby shampoo
Bath toys
Tub toy pouch
Hooded towels (2-4)
Baby washcloths (4-6)
Tub thermometer
Elbow cushion
Foam tub insert
Tub spout cover
Bath gift set
Feeding
Plastic bottle (4 and 8 oz) nipples and nipple covers
Bottle sterilizer
Bottle liners
Breast pads, shields and cream
Nursing bras (4)
Nursing shirts (2)
Nursing cover-up
Breast pump kit
Lap pads and burp cloths
Nursing pillow
Nursing stool
Case(s) of formula
Bibs (6-10)
Teethers
Feeding spoons (4)
Training (spill-proof) cups (3-4)
Highchair
Highchair cover
Feeding seat
Pacifiers
Dishwasher-safe nipples
Bottle drying rack
Bowls
Bottle brush
Bottle warmer
Highchair splat mat
Dishwasher nipple basket
Travel formula dispenser
Milk storage bags
Gas relief drops
First-aid supplies
Thermometer
Humidifier
Baby brush and comb
Nail clippers
Nasal aspirator
Infant tooth and gum cleaner
Alcohol swabs
Baby fever reducer
Cotton swabs
Baby grooming kit
Shopping cart cover
Baby monitor
Safety gate
Nightlights
Carbon monoxide detector
Outlet covers
Corner covers
Door knob covers
Cabinet locks
Toilet seat locks
Baby harness
Fireplace cover
Toys
Bouncer seat
Swing
Rattles & Teethers
Gym or play mat
Jumper
Mobile for nursery
Activity center / walker
Car seat / stroller toys
Guide books on pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding and parenting
Lullaby music
Books for siblings
Educational music movies
Rear-facing infant car seat
Car seat head support
Stroller
Sling or soft carrier
Backpack carrier (for when baby outgrows soft carrier)
Portable crib
Playpen / playard
Stroller cup holder
Travel booster seat
Sunshade
Extra car seat base
Stroller frame
Toy auto mirror
Digital camera
Camcorder
Baby album
Baby journal
Picture frames
Disposable camera
Personalized gifts

Baby shower prizes:
Unique Shower Prize Ideas from ( http://www.cutest-baby-shower-ideas.com/baby-shower-prizes.html )



â¢Gift Certificates from a cute little boutique, coffee shop or book store

â¢Candles

â¢Lotions

â¢A Picture Frame

â¢A Recipe Box

â¢A Cool Mug From Starbucks

â¢Potted Plants

â¢Tea Cup, Saucer and Tea Bags

â¢Bath Salts and Bath Beads

â¢Cute Soaps

â¢Dish Towels

â¢Stationary

â¢Cool Kitchen Gadgets

â¢A Washcloth and Bar of Soap Tied Together With Raffia

â¢Baby Shaped Cookies

â¢Baby Themed Lollipops

â¢Polka Dot Painted Terra Cotta Pots - with seed packets in them

â¢Cute Little Handbags

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Tips on flying long haul with 14mth baby. Any advice?

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Happy Fami

I will be flying from Melbourne, Australia to London UK with my baby daughter who will be 14 months. I have flown between the two cities before but never with baby. Will be flying Singapore Airlines (love them and apparently they are good for babies) and plan on going for three weeks (that's all the time off we can afford).


Things to consider:

1) Dont really want to give her sedatives
2) She is usually breastfed to sleep (which can be handy but also...tricky!)
3) I will be bringing portable DVD player, lots of nappies, plastic bags, small toys and get them out one at a time, will be using a baby carrier, books, wipes - that's all the advice I have so far...
Please share your experience and offer some helpful tips.

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I'm a former Flight Attendant and I fly a lot of long-haul flights with my three children.

I have never used sedatives. I'm allergic to a lot of them myself so I can't risk it with my kids, especially at 30,000ft. without an emergency room nearby. These are not harmless drugs and while I don't diss parents who use them on long journeys, it's not something that systematically should be done. There can be side effects. I've survived without. You can too.

Besides, on such a long flight, she'll sleep at some points anyway (10 minutes before landing lol!)

Sounds like you have had some good advice. All three of mine were breastfed and this actually will make your trip easier (the oldest did have some bottles but they're harder to travel with). It's a great way to calm them down when they get overtired, which often happens in airports.

Remember that you do NOT have to breastfeed her or make her drink on take-off and landing. This is an common myth. If you are using a car seat, be sure she's strapped in during those times. Mine flew in car seats and didn't take pacifiers and they never had any problems with their ears. Please don't wake your child unnecessarily and/or force her to drink when she doesn't want to.

The best way to avoid ear problems is to schedule a "well baby" visit right before leaving. Her ears will be checked to be sure that she doesn't have an ear infection or other blockage. Flying with something like that is painful. No amount of sucking will help and it can actually be damaging to the ears. These are problems that are easy to avoid and fix.

Speaking of car seats, I really recommend using one at this age. It really wasn't a big deal to bring it on board on a wire foldable luggage cart. I saw both my passengers and my own children were calmer and more settled in their familiar seat. If she doesn't have a seat, ask nicely at check-in if it's possible to get an extra place. Take it to the gate regardless and if you are not success, have your seat "gate-checked" with the strollers and wheelchairs. This is no guarantee but better than checking it at the desk. NEVER check a car seat as luggage. Airlines lose and break checked car seats all the time.

Here's the children's page from Singapore Airlines;
http://www.singaporeair.com/saa/en_UK/content/before/plan/specialneeds.jsp

If you don't need a car seat in London, you might want to look into the CARES harness, which is easy to bring and accepted on Singapore.
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/

Practice changing her standing up before leaving. You'll love this tip in London too where baby changers aren't that common. The changing tables on airplanes are really small and if you can change her in this position, you can use the roomier handicapped lav instead.

Don't forget to pack a couple of changes of clothes and be sure you have enough diapers. She'll go through more on this trip than she would in the same time frame at home. Often, you'll find yourself changing her when you can, rather than when it's necessary, such as right before boarding and landing. Wrap all this stuff in plastic and bind with rubber bands to make more room in your bag.

This is the bib I liked when travelling. It rinses out easily and dries quickly. I found taking this beat a bunch of disposable bibs, especially because it really kept mine clean. It really covers them up because kids get messy on planes. This company makes really bad baby carriers but this bib is great!
http://www.babycity.co.uk/baby-gifts/mealtimes-cutlery-highchairs-baby-bibs/baby-bjorn/baby-bjorn-eat-play-smock-pd-1155.html

Skip a purse and diaper bag and use a big backpack and a small purse around your neck with the essentials. Keep your hands free. I get a bigger backpack that goes up to my knee when placed on the floor. Both of you carry one, one with the extra supplies, and one with what you need. I also take a small cloth bag so that when I took them to change them, I didn't have to drag the whole bag along.

Are you sure she'll watch DVD's? Mine were way too active at that age to watch a screen and no way would they have worn the headsets. She absolutely has to wear them. Playing it over the speakers would be annoying to other passengers. Be really sure that she'll wear them before leaving. Otherwise, the new toys are a good idea. One right before the plane pushes back because that's a really bad time for toddlers to stay seated. Hopefully, it'll distract her and you can't use any electrical items during that time.

For more information, ten years ago I wrote an article on this subject. It's based on both my personal and professional experience of flying with children. It's totally non-commercial and other parents from around the world have contributed;
http://flyingwithchildren1.blogspot.com

It's a tricky age and a long flight but if you're organized, it'll be much easier.

Have a good visit to London!

Advice for taking our 19 month old son on a long-haul flight (30+ hours)?

Steven Jen

Hi, later this year my partner and I are taking our son who will be 19 months old on his first ever flight but I for one am dreading it as it is a long-haul flight going from New Zealand to the UK (via Australia/Singapore and possibly Dubai - depending on which airline we finally decide to book with) for a 3 week stay.

As most boys probably are, our son is very energetic, won't stay still very long at all and gets very bored easily so needs lots of entertaining.

The trip will be well worth it when we do get to the UK as our son has never met any of my side of the family who are all over there. So knowing that alone will help us cope somewhat with any stresses of flying with a young child.

Any advice/tip's/experiences shared etc to help ease the journey will be very much appreciated.

Thanks

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I'm a former Flight Attendant and I fly transatlantics alone a lot with my three children.

This is a long flight and you're going to need to be organized. I wont lie to you and I have to admit that this was probably the worst age for air travel. They love to move but don't have the reasoning to talk about the fact that sometimes they have to be seated, etc.

I recommend that instead of a diaper bag, purse, etc. you opt for a large backpack. Mine goes up to my knee when placed on the ground. Bring at least two changes of clothes and way more diapers than he usually goes through in the same time frame. He will need more than usual. Take out packs of 10, straight from the pack so that they're really flat and put in a plastic bag, Bind with rubber bands and this will make space. Clothes are rolled, placed in plastic and also bound with rubber bands. Split the supplies between both of you in case you're separated or just so that one can take him somewhere without having to fuss with the gear.

My kids at that age were too active for portable DVD players, although they were useful later. You actually have a number of options as far as gadgets that play movies so find out what works for you and if you think it'll keep him occupied. One tip I got was to burn the movies on to your hard drive if you're bringing a computer to save battery time while watching. Make sure he wears the headphones. Practice at home if necessary.

I found simple toys worked best; toy trucks, toy cars, plastic animals, coloring things (magadoodles as well as old fashioned pens and paper), chunky books with openable flaps, pinwheels, plastic rings that click together, pipe cleaners, play dough, etc. Nothing that makes noise. Even a quiet noise played 10,000 will drive your fellow passengers batty. Make sure some of the toys are new (or at least never seen before) so you can "present" them at critical times, like to offset a tantrum and after the plane pulls away from the gate and everyone is supposed to be seated.

Try to get him off of bottles and on to a sippy cup if possible. But if he's like my son, good luck! Chances are he wont so opt for the bottles with disposable plastic liners. Get the flat liners (not "pop-ins"), premeasure the powder in each, roll it up and put in a ziplock.

I really recommend that he have his own seat. This is a LONG time to be on your laps and he's going to be big and heavy. If you opt to save money, try to get an empty seat on the plane beside you. They often do this for families. Be really nice at check-in.

I always fly with a car seat. This is a whole, big subject. Babies are quieter and more comfortable in their own familiar car seat, as well as much, much safer. It's not that big a deal to take it along. I simply strapped mine to a metal luggage cart and pulled it behind me with the carry-on bags. You do want to check your car seat's compatibility, before you book. Make sure you can use it on board. Different airlines have different rules.

Be sure not to check it as luggage. They often get lost and/or broken en route so either use it on board or gate-check it. You may want to arrange a car seat at your destination but please never use one from a rental car company. Have relatives ask around and make sure it's not too old.

I really recommend a good baby carrier. It is the secret to successfully flying with children. He's far too big for one of those dire "front packs" (like the Bjorn) but something comfortable and perhaps with a back carry is good. If you don't already use a sling or wrap, you may want to get a Mei Tai, Ergo, Beco or similar carrier. They're soft, easy to take along and are magic for calming overtired babies on flights (experience speaking!) Also, in big scary airports, toddlers don't always sit nicely in their strollers and want to be held. As a Flight Attendant, I saw far too many parents trying to get through airports with clingy and sleeping babies over their shoulders. Don't be one of them!

Please don't fret over ears. It's actually a myth that babies have to suck on something for take-off and landing. Sure, if you want to offer a cup to drink, not on landing but at the top of descent (landing is too late) when everyone's ears have to reverse pressure, do so. This is about an hour before. What I do recommend is that you schedule a doctor's visit and make sure he doesn't have any ear blockages or infections. These are dangerous and painful to fly with so just have someone look in his ears. We "caught" one in my toddler son once. But on the flight itself, there is no reason to unnecessarily wake up your child or force him to drink if he doesn't want to.

For more information, nine years ago I wrote an article on this subject. It's based on both my personal and professional experience of flying with children. It's totally non-commercial and other parents from around the world have contributed;
http://flyingwithchildren1.blogspot.com

Have a great tr

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