What is the best double stroller out there?

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mama2lmjb

What is the best double stroller out of these options::::

Phil & Teds
Baby Jogger City Select Double
Kolcraft Contours
Graco DuoGlider

Any reviews?

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Most definitely the Baby Jogger City Select! I have one myself and I love it for several reasons

1. Can be used as double, or single when one gets too big for it (and then back again if you have another!
2. the option of the bassinet casing for a seat, which later converts back, also love the carseat adapters... very easy to use and remove.
3. Super easy to fold up, and fold FLAT. All in one simple motion
4. Lots of storage options. The storage area underneath expands, and the handlebars have lots of accessory options, including full size backpacks. And, they don't tip even when you have a lot of weight on the handle bars.
5. Very maneuverable. I live in Boston with legendarily uneven sidewalks. I can get around just fine, and without too much bouncing.
6. Accessories: a self leveling drink holder (you have no idea how great that is on hilly roads). Storage cover- compact enough to use as carry-on on international flights. Belly bar- instead of food tray (also available) the belly bar gives something for kids to grab onto and allows them to lean out more. This was perfect for the zoo and watching the duckies go by.
7. Adorable! It does not look like any other stroller out there, yet has a nearly old world charm in the dark colors (I got black). I get questions all the time on it.
8. great if you baby wear- I wore my infant in a wrap while pushing my twins in the stroller. The handlebar was just the right height for me not to struggle.

Downsides? Can be costly to get new accessories, not the best 'jogger' but will do ok, not usually on sale.

what's the easiest way to fly with an infant and a toddler?

jl2829

The toddler will have his own seat, but I will be holding the baby. My questions are, should the toddler fly in his carseat, and if should we be taking a stroller to the gate (I have a double jogger).
Anyone who has gone through this, please give advice! This is not a vacation, it is for a cross country move so both carseats will need to go on the plane in some way.

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Definitely strap the toddler into his seat and buckle him in. Don't get him out for any reason. Treat it like a car trip. Take a stroller to the gate, but I'd recommend just using a single stroller because they're easier to fold and deal with and get a sling or Bjorn for your infant. It'll be easier for everyone involved! Make sure to have new toys in a backpack for him. Think: a new box of crayons, coloring book and paper, play doh, little plastic animals and cars. One thing my grandmother did for me in a similar situation was to wrap little junky toys like the ones mentioned above and at certain time intervals I was allowed to open a new one. It made the trip go faster (according to my parents) and I only got them if I was behaving myself. Good luck!

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what is a good topic for demonstration speech?

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starrygirl

i need to show a class a 5 to 9 minute presentation.

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the web page (below) provides: Demonstration Speech Ideas

How To :

Clean your teeth.
Coordinate clothes for any occasion.
Sign for the deaf.
Apply decorative stencils.
Roll clothes to pack a suitcase.
Make stain-glass.
Read nutrition labels.
Defend yourself against an attacker.
Plan a home fire escape.
Stencil tile.
Set-up an e-mail account.
Change oil in your car.
Play the drums.
Change a baby's diaper.
Swing a golf club.
Putt a golf ball.
Pot flowers.
Prune roses.
Make a simple children's game.
Make peanut butter bars.
Splint a broken leg or ankle.
Keep a healthy puppy.
Succeed in an interview.
Hang wallpaper.
Shoot a free throw.
Pack a backpack.
Use a compass.
Hit a baseball.
Catch a fly ball.
Sell an athletic shoe.
Put on scuba gear.
Fillet a fish.
Install a car stereo.
Get a slim waistline.
Play the saxophone.
Apply makeup.
Apply Theater make-up.
Install a dimmer switch.
Make a pumpkin lantern.
Call a turkey.
Play a guitar.
Purchase a new car for the lowest price.
Serve a tennis ball.
Apply, care, and remove contact lenses.
Restore a piece of antique furniture.
Write a resume.
Find a rental home or apartment.
Set a formal dinner table.
Choose car insurance.
Build a bookcase.
Weave a basket.
Hang curtains.
Change a tire on a bike.
Budget your monthly income.
Wrap a gift professionally.
Tie-dye a shirt.
Wash your clothes properly.
Bathe a baby.
Arrange flowers.
Give a manicure.
Administer CPR.
Administer the Heimlich Maneuver.
Iron clothes.
Use a bow and arrow.
Water ski.
Do simple ballroom dancing.
Take a picture with a 35-mm camera.
Landscape your front yard on a shoestring budget.
Fold napkins for a formal dinner party.
Trim your thighs with exercise.
Build bigger biceps.
Care for your compact discs.
Bake cookies.
Improve your bowling score.
Sew a button on a blouse.
Carve a pumpkin.
Draw cartoon characters.
Make your own valentines.
Recycle in your home.
Frame a picture.
Buy toe shoes.
Play soccer.
Register for college.
Write a childrenâs story.
Mow the lawn.
Organize your closet.
Dye your hair.
Plan a little kid party.
Make Playdough.
Groom your pet.
Set up a tent.
Make a piñata.
Square dance.
Refinish a front door.
Play a video game.
Bunt, or hit a baseball.
Plant a vegetable garden.
Plan a wedding.
Milk a cow.
Stuff a turkey.
Write a poem.
Make deviled eggs.
Make and fly a kite.
Wash and detail a car.
Decorate a Christmas tree.
Tenderize meat.
Make fudge.
Ride a horse.
Program your vcr.
Make a cut up t-shirt look great.
Cross stitch.
Get a date.
Break dance.
Make Bar B Que sauce.
Create a power point presentation.
Make scrapbooks.
Knit.
Install sprinklers.
Play football.
Clean carpets.
Juggle.
Make paper carnations.
Decorate a float.
Make Ice cream.
Balance your checkbook.
Program your cell phone.
Make a web page.
Apply fake fingernails.
Frost and decorate a cake.
Ride a skateboard.
Surf.
Do the chicken dance.
Plan a baby shower.
Grow a herbal garden.
Wax your car.
Make a paper airplane.
Download or upload files on the computer.
Make an emergency kit for your car.
Make an earthquake kit for your house.
Change a flat tire.
Do yoga.
Fit a child on a bicycle.
Choose a bottle of wine for dinner.
Save money clipping coupons.
Polish or shine shoes.
Start a fire in the fireplace.
Plan a romantic date.
Play the games in Las Vegas.
See Disneyland in one day.
Make a swan out of origami.
Make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
Make wedding favors.
Ride a bike.
Design a sprinkler system.
Run a garage sale.
Plan a vegetarian meal.
Groom your dog.
Train your dog.
Backpack through Europe.
Remove acoustic ceilings.
Lay bricks.
Create a water garden.
Build a gazebo.
Make your own jelly.
Plan a picnic.
Make a subway sandwich.
Plant seasonal flowers.
Grow and prune a bonsai tree.
Safely view the eclipse.
Make finger paints.
Make a Halloween costume.
Make a rug.
Do needlepoint.
Can peaches.
Clean sparkplugs.
Prune bushes in the shape of animals.
Build a sandcastle.
Make pancakes.
Make a root beer float.
Perm your hair.
Braid hair.
Create a work out schedule.
Accessorize your outfits.
Line dance.
Twirl a baton.
Play the cello.
Fold the American flag.
Make a card house.
Shave your legs.
Trim and wax your mustache.
Clean your silk plants.
Drop kick a soccer ball or a football.
Eat with chopsticks.
Plan an eight course meal.
Play piano.
Read music.
Straighten your hair.
Groom a pig.
Make an omelet.
Build a castle with Legos.

Why is it difficult to stay single AFTER getting used to being a life-partner?

Amir

Answer
Because people fail to develop themselves...Their autonomy as human beings...They neglect that part of themselves that holds their wishes, desires, wants and dreams, whether that be sailing across the Pacific Ocean; climbing a high mountain; learning how to fly a small plane; competing in a triathalon, whatever. People seems to feel they must GIVE UP very often, a lot of who they are; what they want and dream of - in order to be married and locked in and up with another human being. This is? No way to live. They also forfeit family, friends and opportunities along the way BECAUSE they feel that they just CAN'T - that somehow? It's a betrayal of their marriage. So very wrong...

My husband had many dreams when he was alive and accomplished quite a few of them...Mostly because I said, "okay darling, you go and do, you love this activity and it's healthy, so go! We'll catch up later!" That is the way it was all along...Consequently? We each developed real autonomy so that we were happy apart - VERY happy together - had MUCH to talk about (my dream was to finish my college degree - it took 10 years and I did...Just as he sailed across the Pacific ocean...a boyhood dream...)

I am now widowed, but because we LIVED our lives FULLY in this regard, I have no regrets...I am able to live on my own, participate in life, travel, volunteer, garden and still do what I love - I rely on NO ONE to "entertain" me and I am okay being alone with ME. I like who I am, who I've become and I have a wonderful man to thank for that who believed in dreams; believed in living them; and still managed to find time to love me and be and together doing what we enjoyed doing...Hiking, backpacking, walking, gardening, concerts, traveling, you name it.

So join a single's group, take up bike riding, do some volunteer work, join a church, help the elderly or the young at a school, plan a trip to somewhere you've never been and do it!!!

I only know it must begin with you, it must begin in baby steps and continue on until you have the life you want and maybe someday again, someone to share it with.

Grace

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Will sharpie markers bleed off my jansport backpack in the rain?

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Luce

I bought a backpack that looked baby pink but when I got it it was really bright. I don't like it and I can't return it so I'm thinking of colouring the front in in black sharpie. Will it bleed off onto my clothes if it rains?

Have any of you ever done this??
Oh and the bag is polyester I think

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Buy some colored fabric markets at a craft store like Michael's and forget the Sharpies.

Sharpie is fairly permanent on paper, but not so much on other materials. I know this from experience.

How to manage several travel bags?

C0TintheAC

I will be traveling abroad with my husband & baby.
The bags I will have are :
2 backpacks for baby stuff and documents,cash etc
1 laptop bag
3 BIG boxes (to be checked in)
How do we move them around
>>from the parking lot,
>>in the airport between transits etc

My baby needs to be held,she will NOT be in a stroller.
Do you have any ideas or suggestions?
Thanks Leigh W .. but how about from the car(long term parking) to the terminal is quite a walk!! No carts there!

Answer
you can usally pull up to the curb at the airport then you can unload and then you or your husband can take the car out the parking while the other waits with the things

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Will sharpie markers bleed off my jansport backpack in the rain?

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Luce

I bought a backpack that looked baby pink but when I got it it was really bright. I don't like it and I can't return it so I'm thinking of colouring the front in in black sharpie. Will it bleed off onto my clothes if it rains?

Have any of you ever done this??
Oh and the bag is polyester I think

Answer
Buy some colored fabric markets at a craft store like Michael's and forget the Sharpies.

Sharpie is fairly permanent on paper, but not so much on other materials. I know this from experience.

What presents do 5 year old girls like?

AL

I got an emergency question!! I need to find an xmas gift for my 5 year old niece but I have no clue what girls are into these days. Should I get a toy, or something general like a pink backpack for school, or some coloring books, etc?

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Im 14 now and the one thing every single one of my friends at the time liked and what my cousins like now and the other little kids I know is playing house. BABY DOLLS!! At 5 most girls arent into the actual american girl dolls but rather the baby doll so that they can play house with their friends. i dont know exactly whether this is good for your niece but I know that if you arent sure of what she wants specifically this is something that I know most girls that age enjoy. Hope that helps! Also, if she is into art (this will sound kind of weird) but watch nickelodeon because they advertise for a lot of little kids arts stuff and you may see something you think she will like. Again hope that helps and have a merry christmas to both you and your niece!!!!!

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Which sling/carrier would you recommend?

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Malloots l

Ok so on the advice of Mums on here I'm getting something to carry my babs around in when he's being a pain in the bum! LOL!

I have no idea what to even start to look for so I need all the help I can get! My son is 4.5 months and he's a big boy! Almost 16lbs and 25.something inches! I need the most comfortable for both of us!

Thank Mummies!

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I'm looking to get something like this:

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/Patapum-front-back-baby-carrier-Choice-of-colours_W0QQitemZ180347742766QQcmdZViewItemQQptZCarriers_Backpacks?hash=item180347742766&_trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=66%3A2%7C65%3A15%7C39%3A1%7C240%3A1318

for my huge boy! Most ones I've seen in the shops only do up to 25lbs, and he'll not be too far off that by now, so I want one that'll last for a while. Plus you can carry him on your front or your back with this one. I like the slings, but I'd be afraid of not tying it right, or it feeling too loose.

Travelling in Europe with a baby. What gear should I bring?

Mandi

I am going on a winter vacation around Europe for a couple weeks with a baby who will be almost two. I am looking for a stroller that works well on cobblestone, reclines, and is light. My son was born with a brain condition called Hydrocephalus and because of that his head is large and he is behind with his gross motor skills. He probably will still not be walking by this time. I am thinking about bringing a baby hiking backpack for times when we cannot use the stroller.

I would really appreciate advice on this from anyone who has ever travelled in Europe with a baby before! We will be going to about 5 different countries and travelling by metro and plane.

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I think a light stroller is a good idea as it will be easy to fold up if you're in a restaurant or on public transport. If you're flying between countries consider a buggy bag to put it in before the flight.

Not all of Europe is covered in cobblestones(!) and most cities are fairly buggy friendly. If you're coming in winter then have a buggy with a foot muff to keep him warm. A back carrier is also a good idea for busier places or say certain sights like the coliseum where there are steps.

You can buy the other things you need here, nappies etc. Pampers and Huggies are both available across Europe (Pampers are called Dodots in Spain). There are a mix of facilities in terms of baby changing. In the UK and northern Europe, most places have change tables. In some mediteranean countries there can be less facilites in places like restaurants but if you head to big department stores or shopping centres most are well equipped.

If you plan to eat in restaurants, a fabric type fold away change seat is a good idea as some smaller may not have high chairs (most UK places will have high chairs).

good luck and have a great time here.

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What were things that you NEEDED with your new born?

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Yazmin

What are major things you needed and what are things you bought that you never or could have avoided buying??
Examples;
-gas drops
-humidifier
-changing pad
-shopping cart cover
-nipples ( I'm breast feeding)
-night light

I'm having my first baby so really need some help!

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gas drops - nope. Learning a little baby massage and burping techniques was both free and much more helpful.

humidifier - nope. Doesn't really do all that much unless you are in a very dry place. If you need it, take a shower holding the baby.

changing pad - I got a little flat fabric one, that folds up and can be carried in a bag. Best purchase ever, and can be moved wherever you are, so it was great.

shopping cart cover - nope. The baby can't use it for months - an infant can't hold its head or body up, so the only way a baby goes in a shopping cart at first is in a little car seat thing, or you hold the baby yourself.

nipples - ha, too funny. BUT - I would get some things for breast care. Lanolin, nursing bra without underwire, breastpads, breastfeeding book, and checkout kellymom.com for more breastfeeding info. Lanolin in case the nipples get chafed. I like cotton breastpads but some people liked disposable. No underwire for the bra because sometimes it can pinch under the breast and contribute to clogged ducts. And you need a nursing book for some really important things, like, for example, what to do when your baby starts crying in the first few days because you're not making enough milk.

Many moms, and even ignorant doctors, will try to get you to switch to formula then. Except your body will constantly not make enough milk, for the first few days of nursing and every time the baby goes through a growth spurt. And all you have to do is let the baby nurse like a fiend as often as they want, which signals the body to make MORE milk, and within a day or two you have a happier baby and your body has caught up in milk production.

night light - I would look for one that will still be safe when baby is older and trying to chew on everything.


My essential purchases:
1. A very tough, completely washable, back pack with numerous pockets. This makes the BEST diaper bag ever. Most diaper bags you see will have these 'waterproofed' coatings that are terrible, crack, and most diaper bags I've seen fall apart very quickly. A good backpack means your hands are free to hold the baby, and they are more versatile.
2. Baby car seat. A combination one, with a baby seat that can clip in to a larger seat that is toddler sized - is the most useful. But can be more expensive, too.
3. Shade for the windows in the car - the baby can't move well to turn his/her face out of the sun, so there are little shades with suction cups that can be purchased to put in car windows do keep the sun from the baby's face.
4. Some soft flannel baby washcloths and blankets.
5. baby sling - best thing ever. I would NOT get one that holds the baby upright with something between their legs. Some studies have shown that this position puts too much pressure on the crotch area, especially for little boys, and can actually impede blood flow there for boys. 0.0 A versatile sling, where the baby can lie down sideways, is even better because once they get a little older, they can nurse in the sling, too.
6. Meals for YOU. You will be more tired than you ever have been in your entire life those first few months. If you have some pre-made meals for yourself, your life will be unbelievably easier.
7. baby nail clippers - please don't get those baby mittens. They make it harder for the baby to learn how to use their hands and to explore the world around them.
8. Get your partner to agree to change baby diapers in the evening when you feed the baby. It'll get you the sleep you need a little more.

Does anyone else ever put their baby on their back when they go jogging?

Mickey Mou

I see the carriers they make to do this but I never see anyone use them. I figure people have more than one kid so it would not be feasable.

I just wondered if I'm the only person consideing this.

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I use a backpack carrier when hiking, I don't jog (since I was a teen *lol*, I was a long distance runner on the track team *lol*)

If the baby can sit well without support then any backpack carrier will do. If they aren't that developed then you need to take special care, generally you need to use a soft carrier (like a wrap) and swaddle the baby. Because of the stress it causes the hips its not recommended to use a swaddle board anymore.

PS Oi people using a proper baby carrier is incredibly comfortable for mom and baby, it does not stress mom's back. You can *easily* wear up to 20-30% of your bodyweight which for a 150lbs woman is 30-45lbs which is about a 2-4 year old.

And in case you haven't noticed babies like being bounced. Ever heard of the "colic drop", then there's all those bouncers and jumpers on the market. Daddy throwing the baby into the air, etc. I know lots of moms that end up on their yoga ball bouncing up and down vigorously to soothe a tiny baby, if jogging is your thing than go for it, its not like baby won't tell you if they don't enjoy it.

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What should I buy my grandpas and my dad and my uncle?

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Lily L

Actually, I need gift for both of them. I feel with women I can always get them pretty scarves or jewelry (you can't have too much!) but it's impossible to find gift for the male members of my family.
Why would my grandpas want ties? They are retired. And my neither my uncle or my dad wear them to work either.

Answer
Christmas gift Ideas for Grandpa :
Men's Robes
GPS
News & Politics Magazines
Gourmet Cheese Assortments
Home Improvement Books
Retirement Planning Books
Indoor Games
Sports Fan Gear
Golfing Supplies
Geneaology Software
Cookbooks
Electric Shavers
Classical Music
Documentaries
Outdoor Cooking
Car Cleaning Kits
PC Video Cameras
Bonsai
http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fgift-central%2Fevent%2Fgrandpa%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dcm%255Fgift%255Fgg%255Fleftp%255Fcm%255Fgift%255Fgg%255Frel%255Flp%255Fgpa&tag=gobsweb-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=390957

Christmas gift Ideas for Dad :
Classic Vocalists CD Box Sets
Universal Remote Controllers
Action & Adventure Box Sets
Jump Starters, Battery Chargers & Portable Power
Magazines on Golf
Biographies
High-Def TVs
Books on History
Golf Accessories
Speaker Systems
Magazines on How-to & Home Improvement
Handheld Organizers & PDAs
Multi-tools
Magazines on Business & Investment
Flashlights
Magazines on News & Politics
Snowblowers
Digital Cameras
Sports Magazines
Hand Exercisers
Power Inverters
Baby Backpacks & Carriers
Box Set DVDs on Military & War
Power Tool Combo Packs
Outerwear
Gardening Tools
GPS
Portable DVD Players
Electric Shavers
Golf DVDs
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Hope this help.

the fine line between saftey and learning life experience?

PLBridges

I am not a parent yet, but my husband and I were discussing how we would raise our kids. Both my husband and I were sheltered as children and the first bit of freedom we got, we went crazy with it. We were wondering how parents felt about allowing their children to do things on their own.

What is the correct age to have "the talk" with a child?
What is the correct age to put your daughter on birth control?
What is the correct age to discuss drugs and alcohol with a child?
What is the correct age to allow your child to roam the mall with their friends while you are also at the mall?
What is the correct age to allow your child to go to the mall by themselves?
Would you hack/ask for the passwords for your child's email, facebook, etc?
How would you enforce curfew?
Would you drive by the place that your child is supposed to be at to make sure they were there?
Would you install a tracking system in your child's car or cell phone?
Would you search your child's backpack, purse, room, etc?

How would you distinguish the line between being overprotective and keeping your child safe?

I know that a lot of this would depend on the maturity of the child, but any thoughts would be appreciated. Feel free to add any other scenarios as desired. Thanks in advance :)

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My husband and I talked about this before having children as well, so we came up with this.

1. Ongoing. Babies have never come from the 'stork' but from a mommy and daddy with our kids. By 8, mom will talk to daughter, dad with son, about some of the more details. By 14, all contraceptives will be covered.

2. The pill? Never. From a family who has higher heart-disease rates, and the pill has a warning saying it makes things worse, not to mention a lot of the other side-effects to the pill, I don't plan on ever putting my daughter on the pill. Not to mention how it's poisoning the water supply of the world. Now if you mean condoms, my kids will be taught how and where they can buy them and I'll make sure if they ever need to earn $5 to buy them I'll have chores sitting aside. But we don't plan on letting them date seriously until they're 18, so it would be a mixed message to make them available before then. We will show them where our condom drawer is and if they ever had to get one we wouldn't care if one disappeared.

3. Ongoing. Certainly before school age. By 15 I want them to know 99% of it in detail.

4. Depends on their trustworthiness. If they will meet at 5pm without fail, then I wouldn't worry about it from about 10 up.

5. Again, depends on their trustworthiness, but I'd say about 14-16. 14 is when I'd let them go to dances, so it makes sense that I'd let them go to the mall with friends without me there about then. By themselves entirely, about the time I'd be willing to allow them to drive, or about 16.

6. Depends on the age. Until about 14-16 I plan to make a family account that we all use. Then about 14 or so (depending on the child) then they can have their own, but we have their passwords. About 16, if they haven't done anything, their own passwords, but if they're caught in something then that can regress to family-account again, or to us looking again. The screen-shot security program won't ever be removed.

7. We'll see when it comes to that. I mean, with one kid it could be just telling them they're grounded is enough. With another I might have to go and find them and embarrass them/bring them home and then they'd never break. I would never lock them out though. My mom told my dad once "If we lock him out, where do you think he'll go? The streets aren't safe, and I don't want him sleeping at his girlfriend's house... better home late than not at all." So yeah, they would never be locked out.

8. Yes. I would also call, or talk to the parents that should be there.

9. It will be a family cell phone for a LONG LONG time. So yeah. More to help me find it. As far as the car, again yeah, because it's not their car but the family car and if it got stolen or if I got in an accident or something then I'd want a way to find me. When they are a new driver, I might even install a 'black box' device that would tell me how fast it was going. They would KNOW all these things are there though, because I think knowing you're being watched is a great deterrent.

10. If I felt like there was reason to. If they have drugs in the house, I'm the one who could get in trouble. However, if I found condoms, they wouldn't be in trouble. Just illegal things, y'know? I mean, coupled with this should be "what would you do if you found porn, drugs, alcohol, condoms, etc..." I actually hope to volunteer to train a drug-search dog (I've wanted to for a long time, and I'd love to work with a hound) by the time they're teens. So there's a chance that I'd plant drugs in their room and have the dog practice. :P With their permission of course.

11. This is a very fuzzy line. My plan is to get them to 18 free. No drug-alcohol-sex addictions. No relationships so serious that it will make them choose something they may regret. No children. To one person, it's very overprotective to say no porn in the house, but as someone who has seen people deal with that addiction and seen it mess up their entire lives... to me it's negligent to not care about it.

I say I want them free at 18. Free to go to the school of their choice (which means good grades.) Free to make the choices they want as far as career. Free from things tying them down or forcing them on paths that they shouldn't be forced onto. This means restrictions now until they are old enough to make those decisions, and then increasing freedom to teach them how to handle themselves, but until 18 I would feel strongly responsible if they did something that would limit their lives 10 years down the road. Until 18, I do feel like it's my watch, and I have to take responsibility and make sure they don't make those decisions and choices. That would be overprotective by some. To me... it's being a good parent.

If I'm going to their school when they're 20 and yelling at their professors and overseeing their choice of roommate, THAT is overprotective.

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Which backpack should I get?

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which backpack should i get?
this one: http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=huc_ic_1_txt/182-8021811-7444623?ie=UTF8&ASIN=B001UI8YSQ&nodeID=&merchantID=A1VC38T7YXB528

or this one: http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=huc_ic_2_txt/182-8021811-7444623?ie=UTF8&ASIN=B001UID3N2&nodeID=&merchantID=A1VC38T7YXB528

and please explain why. thanks!

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the second one the white gets dirty quick you should get a north face bookbag is FOR LIFE i have mine sisnce 8th grade now im in college thats my baby we been through some times

Camping for roughly a week, would I need anything else?

Inquisitiv

All of the following would be inside of or attached to a standard issue US Army ACU rucksack:
2 flashlights
3 two liter bottles of water.
Pack of D Batteries
7 changes of underwear, undershirts, socks.
4 pairs of jeans
4 long sleeve shirts
1 laundry bag
Two pairs of combat boots
Two packages of baby wipes
A small shovel
4 rolls of toilet paper
Sleeping bag
Collapsible tent

I know I'll need some sort of water cleaning kit on the off chance that when I'd run out of water I wouldn't be in an area with running water, any suggestions?

Also how much food would be needed? Assume well rationed.

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You have stuff you need and stuff you don't get rid of some of the stuff (too much weight) and replace with the suggestions below.

How much food, well you answered that in your question a weeks worth, enough for one good meal a day plus trail snacks, bring freeze dried goods and MRE's and a backpacking stove and pot. Looking at your list I would leave behind the extra jeans you only need the ones you have on and a pair to change into should you get soaking wet. same with the shirts and underware. One flashlight is good and bring a lighter 2 or 3 celled AA led one instead and or a headlamp. A single 2 liter bottle is all you need providing water is available where your going get a "First need water filter kit". Only bring the boots you have on and tennis shoes for in camp. one pack of wipes is enough for a week. Leave the Laundry bag, instead use a food bag for hanging up in bear country. add a closed cell foam sleeping mat to the list and that would about complete your needs. I don't like the Army pack your planning to use there are a lot better options out there I recommend "North Face" gear. here are a couple of links with great backpacking advice

http://www.princeton.edu/~oa/winter/wintcamp.shtml

http://www.rei.com/expertadvice/camping#tab_4

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How would I sanitize a used baby backpack carrier?

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Sergeant_w

I am picking up a used backpack carrier tomorrow. Its the nylon material kind on a metal frame. I want to clean and sanitize it before I put my baby in it. Any suggestions on the best way to clean it?

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Clorox wipes first...over anything you can. After it dries completely, go over it with a baby-safe cleaner, like baby wipes.

How much do framed baby backpacks support?

rainwriter

I'm looking at getting a metal framed hiking type back pack. What is the upper weight/age limit to these? Here's the one I'm looking at getting. http://eastidaho.craigslist.org/bab/796313648.html Are these too big for toddlers?

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they only go to 25 pds. Why don't you look at the ERGO carrier, those metal frames are horrible for you back! The ergo is great and comfy I use it all the time

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How would I sanitize a used baby backpack carrier?

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Sergeant_w

I am picking up a used backpack carrier tomorrow. Its the nylon material kind on a metal frame. I want to clean and sanitize it before I put my baby in it. Any suggestions on the best way to clean it?

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Clorox wipes first...over anything you can. After it dries completely, go over it with a baby-safe cleaner, like baby wipes.

Any suggestions for a backpack baby carrier?

jveryrad

I have a very active 15month old daughter. She likes to grab objects and destroy them. She is difficult to bring to a store. Yesterday, I had to hold her while shopping in hardware stores because she insisted on opening packages or bottles if I let her down. The shopping carts can be very dirty in a hardware store.

Does anyone use a backpack baby carrier for their toddlers for shopping? I don't do much hiking, and I use a stroller to take her on walks. So I would just use it to take her where I don't want her to run around.

Is it safe to get into? Is there a risk of dropping her while putting the backpack on? Any other uses for this? Any suggestions for brands? I heard Tough Traveler is good. Thanks.

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I love my backpack for shopping, and I can still carry my soon to be 3 year old. This is the one I have http://www.mec.ca/Products/product_detail.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524441776409&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302735239&bmUID=1160421939450 . We bought it almost 5 years ago when our oldest was the right size for it. It still looks brand new. I used it for shopping and long walks, my husband uses it for hiking. Have fun!

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I am looking for ideal poses to photograph my 13 year old and my 4 month old.?

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JM

With such a big age gap, I have found it difficult to think of some cute photo poses.

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Have them lay on the floor (or bed) Facing each other, you shoot from above looking down, or from above the tops of their heads on the same level.

Get really close for nose nuzzles or kisses. Use available light for soft effect, in front of a window or outside in open shade.

Another reclining pose, baby on teen's back with both looking at you. Baby on teen's stomach or chest, looking at each other or at you.

Baby in backpack. (May not be old enough for this one, baby needs to be able to sit up)

Teen holding baby up in the "Lion King" pose.

Both stretched out on stomach on floor, propped on elbows looking at each other.

Closeups of baby grabbing teen's fingers, nose, hair, Closeups of teen holding baby's feet. Closeup of teen and baby feet together. (Barefooted, of course, or even with shoes)

Teen holding baby in rocking chair, reading a story book to baby. Or holding baby while baby naps on shoulder with favorite blanky.

Baby sleeping with teen gazing fondly. Teen and baby napping together.

If they are both boys or girls, try dressing them just alike (Or very similar in pattern and color) Or do a white T-shirt and blue jeans. One of my favorite pics of my grandchildren they are both in jean jackets in front of fall leaves.

It will help if the colors harmonize. You can do so many themes, jeans, for instance, leather jackets, Christmas pajamas, white floaty dresses, beach wear, punk rock, where ever your wardrobe and imagination lead you!

what should i sew im all out of things to do?

Jayne

i have two boys ones 3 and the other is 7 month old any ideas for them or my house or anything i need something to do!

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Here are a few things I'd suggested recently [including bean bags that your kids will adore & use even they they are older]:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aoqk61ZGr5jyVjp_dWG5Jybty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110327182754AAIhzqh

Some more ideas :
-- Plushies & soft toys. Check for patterns that your boys are fond of - eg. superman, dinosaur, teddy bear, etc.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/cluttershop/2947152570/ -- free pattern for tiger plushie
-- Tableware - runner, table mats, coasters, tea-cozy, napkins, napkin rings, etc.
-- Kitchenware - apron, towels, napkins, dusters. You can also make Quilted hot pads, mittens, mug-holders, mug warmers, pot holders, etc. Use old towels, etc. for the stuffing - recycling :-)
-- Curtain rings, curtains, cushion covers, seat covers, lamp shades, ....
http://www.alternative-windows.com/index.htm -- instructions, etc. for linen, cushions, curtains, â¦â¦
-- Containers - face tissue box, for trinkets, for stationery, laundry bag, etc.
-- Book binders, book covers, bookmarks, greeting cards, .... Some of these can be done with leftover fabric scraps.
-- Clothes for your little boys, including cap, bibs, diapers, etc.
-- Purse, handbags, shoulder/sling bags, clutch purse, totes, backpack, etc.
-- a money {piggy} bank for your boys.
-- Quilts.
www.claudiasquiltshoppe.com/Absol... â for Beginners â babyâs crib quilt
Try a yo-yo quilt with brightly colored & textured fabric scraps : www.instructables.com/id/Quilt_wi... --- great tutorial for yo-yo quilts, etc.
You can also make quilts from T-shirts ; sampler quilts to use as a wall decoration ; ....
-- Rugs, mats, Scraggy rugs

If you search for patterns for each online, you can come across many beautiful & Fun designs for your projects. However, here are some general sewing sites that have plenty more project ideas :
www.sewing.org
www.homesewingprojects.com
http://sewing.about.com
www.simplesewingprojects.com
www.burdastyle.com/
www.youcanmakethis.com/free.htm
www.100sewinglinks.com/cgi-bin/100link.cgi -- plenty of links for all sorts of sewing, etc. Offers a variety of easy sew project kits, including learn to sew kits, plush animal pattern ... Aussie based crafting site, with free patterns, tutorials and links to all

Hope these inspire
Have fun :-)

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What is a good baby sling that is comfortable and causes minimal back pain?

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Chiro

I am looking for a good quality and hopefully cute baby sling for a baby shower gift. I really don't want to spend more than $100.

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Personally, I like the Over the Shoulder Baby Holder (OTSBH). It comes in a lot of fabrics and several sizes (based on the size of the adult, not the baby--it can be worn as long as the baby is carried). But mostly, I like it because it is so good for my back.

I have always had back problems, but when I bought my first OTSBH, I had been carrying my child in an aluminum frame backpack. My back and neck were so sore that I could turn my head from side to side more than a tiny bit. I bought the OTSBH in desperation. Wearing my child (then 1 1/2) in it for many hours a day actually *healed* my sore back!! Two days later, I had full movement back (other times when I've had the same problem it took months and repeated therapeutic massage).

A sling is better than other kinds of baby carriers because they are more flexible. A baby can lie down in front of you in at least 2 different positions, and it supports her/his back perfectly. When they're a little older, they can sit in front of you, facing outwards with you supporting the back and head. And a toddler can sit on your hip or back.

I'm sure most brands of slings are similar; the important thing is that a sling is worn with the fabric spread out along the entire back and baby's weight is also supported on the hip and opposite shoulder. So it supports the back and spreads the weight evenly on the parent's upper body. But the OTSBH is also better (in my opinion) because it has padding (along both long sides and on the parent's shoulder), and is adjustable. Some slings are sewn closed and cannot be adjusted; this means you need a different one for each parent, and it makes it harder to get it on and off. And the padding makes it more comfortable on the wearer's shoulder, and makes me feel more sure that the baby can't fall out the side (although I'm sure the unpadded ones are safe--it just *feels* safer). Unpadded slings have the advantage of taking less room to pack up, but I'll keep the comfort and skip the ease of packing.

They retail for about $45 and are widely available on baby stores on the Web. I think all slings are in the same price range.

At which age did you start to carry baby on your back?

LGM

My little daughter is three months, two weeks old. She can hold up her head pretty well, but can't sit yet, of course. I have an ergo-baby carrier and a sling. However, both seemed to be laid out to carry a baby her age in front, rather than on the back. At which age would it be safe for baby to be carried on my back?

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I used a sling with my son, using different positions at different ages, according to what was comfortable at the time. I eventually bought a different backpack carrier when he really seemed to outgrow the sling. In our case, he was about a year old when I finally started using the backpack regularly. He was small for his age though, so that made front carrying possible for longer than most!

It depends on your carrier, but some front carriers and most back carriers recommend the baby be around 6 months old for the sake of spinal development. Slings tend to be better for young babies because they hold the babies in more natural positions. Young babies prefer to be curled up with their entire body supported, rather than stretched out or in a position with their legs dangling. Back carriers are generally better for older babies who are stable sitting on their own.

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Do I have to use an approved car/booster seat on Alaska Airlines?

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lachburke

I am booked on a flight on Alaska Airlines next year with my 1.5 year old. He is flying on a full fare adult ticket not a discounted infant fare (usually 1/2 price). Both our tickets are points tickets (Perth through to Vancouver on Qantas then Alaska AL). Qantas does not require a booster seat for children in their own seat, even if they are under 2 (ie. infants) so I was not planning on bringing a car seat as I am travelling alone and will have enough to carry as it is. I read on the Alaska AL website that "children travelling on 50% infant ticket seats must use a booster/car seat approved for car and air travel". I'm wondering, given that my son will be travelling on a full fare adult ticket whether he needs the booster seat? What will they do if I don't have one, not let us on the flight? Or, shall I just lie and say he's 2 - or just board the flight with him in his own seat w/out booster and they will assume is is two and not longer an infant and therefore no booster required.

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My 6-year-old has now flown on 242 flights and my 2-year-old on 40 flights. Mostly on Alaska Airlines so I have a bit of experience with this.

As a lap baby (unpaid), you definitely don't need a car seat. Some airlines like Northwest are real pricks about not allowing you to use one even on a flight with lots of empty seats. Whereas Alaska is one of the most baby-friendly airlines we've used and will let you use an empty seat for a car seat even though you paid nothing. I'll reserve a window-aisle combo (leaving an empty middle seat) towards the back of the plane to increase the chance of getting a free empty seat. IF someone does buy the seat between, they ALWAYS want to get out from between mother-child or mother-father passing a baby back and forth.

Without a carseat, you will need to have them in your lap for take-off and landing. They might want you to pick them up during possible turbulance as well. What you propose is no different than the unpaid lap baby who has an empty seat next to them. I can't imagine the flight attendents caring except during take-off and landing and then, (despite the physics involved), Mom's arms suffice. (or a car seat)

But I would reconsider your plan. Again, I've done this A LOT, and we try hard to BRING the car seat, not leave it or check it. Of course the car seat is safest in a crash, but Quantas has never had a crash and Alaska only loses planes about once every 20 years. More importantly, a child can sleep in a car seat much easier because it is sloped and their head is suported on both sides. And your arms will get TIRED of holding him for 18 hours of flight time. And if he gets into a total screaming, kicking fit about being overtired, jet-lagged, etc, you can strap him and pop in a pacificer. For some kids, being secured down helps at times. Sure, it is one more thing to schlepp through the airport, but you could always use a rental cart for $3 or call for one of those electric carts the old folks use. At 1.5 years old, I'd bring a Baby Bjorn front carrier so you can have him on your chest and leave your two hands free. One for the car seat and one to present tickets, passports, etc.

For your carry-on, use a backpack/rucksack. Baby in front, backpack behind, car seat on one arm, one hand free. I've gone through many airports and countries that way. So has my wife. Yeah, it is easier with two adults, but doable as one.

Try hard to save nursing or a bottle for climb-out and, less so, descent. The swallowing helps clear his ear pressure.

Theoretically, they can ask to see a US FAA approval sticker for airplane use on the carseat (they all have it), but any nation's approval ought to fly. And Alaska doesn't check all that often.

You'll need a car seat to drive with him in Alaska until he is 4 years or 40 pounds. And while airplanes rarely hit moose, cars and taxis do.

My 11 week old is eating less but more frequently what can I do?

Leah

He is getting breastmilk, he doesn't get sleepy he just doesn't want anymore or he gets fussy. And he has been waking up at night more often too. What can I do so he eats less frequent? It just seems all I do is feed him. He use to eat 5 ozs every 4 hours and now he eats 2-3 ozs every 1-2 hours.

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As a parent, I do understand how difficult it is to get up every several hours to feed a hungry infant. I remember praying for the time my son would sleep through the night. In my son's case, he didn't sleep all through the night until about 2 yrs. old.

It's normal that infants start becoming more alert, stay awake, instead of going back to sleep after feeding, at your son's age. Every month during the first year of life there are many changes and you have to change gears, according to their needs. If he stays awake, he will want stimulation. He will be looking around at his environment for interesting things he can learn about. Sit him up in an infant seat, with seat belt on. Infant's can see more of their environment while sitting up or when being carried and that's why they get fussy laying flat and being bored. They want to be right there with you. Electronic swings are a god send for parents. They love to swing and it calms them and some have music. Some babies are more in need of attention than others. I also used a backpack carrier when my son was a little older and I did my housework with him drooling down my neck. My husband took a really neat crocheted ball of all colors, and hung it from the ceiling. While he was cooking, he would start the ball swinging, and my son loved that. He eventually started hitting the ball with his hands and feet and that was really fun for him.

It sounds like you are pumping breast milk and then feeding him with a bottle. That would explain how you know how many ounces you are feeding him. When my baby was this age, I had to go back to full time working. What I found out, was that even though I was pumping breast milk and storing it properly, the milk had a sour taste. I found out that stress (I'm a nurse) was making the milk sour. Also, in my own experience, pumping was not stimulating my breasts to make milk. In fact, I was making less and less. We used formula after this experience and I just breast fed when he woke up a night.

I had a lot of guilt at first, about using formula. But my son was happy, growing and I could see nothing adverse from using formula. I realized that millions of infants are fed formula and were healthy and happy and normal. I found out that even 1 ounce of breast milk could help provide some immunity, so I continued to breast feed up to 6 mo. of age, at night.

So, take a little taste of your breast milk, if you have pumped it, and see how it tastes. Burp your baby really well. If fussy, check out all the things that make a baby fuss: wet diaper, not comfortable in current position, diaper rash, needs some cuddling, etc. When babies are fussy, they are telling you that they need something or aren't feeling well.

Find ways to stimulate your baby, play with him, and carry him. If real fussy, take you and your baby out for a drive. Make sure you have age appropriate toys for him. Purchase a book about growth and development. This is a fun way of noticing all the subtle skills your infant will be experiencing during this first year of life. When he awakens at night, don't act like it's time to play. Keep your voice in a gentle whisper, use a night light. Don't let him wait to eat. The second he starts to cry, feed him. When you are half through with the feeding, quickly change his diaper and resume the rest of his feeding. Make sure he knows that darkness means quiet by using some of the ideas I did.

Ask your friends and family for feedback. Then you filter through all the feedback and choose the ideas that will work for you and your family.

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Can you use a stroller while hiking?

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*My precio

I wanted to go hiking in a few months when it gets a little warmer but I have a 13 month baby. It would be uncomfortable to carry him the whole time, but i can't get a babysitter because all my family live out of the state. So can you use a stroller while hiking?

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It depends.

Certainly a toddler (that's right you don't have a baby anymore!) can handle bouncing around in a stroller although if the terrain is too lumpy (covered in rocks, trees, etc.) you're going to struggle with a stroller. But if the hike is more like a hard-pack dirt path then definitely a stroller can be great!

I have a Bob stroller which I love. The bigger wheels make it easy to navigate obstacles on the path. They aren't cheap however :P I would definitely suggest investing in a decent jogger if you plan to do lots of hiking with it. Your traditional 4-wheel stroller (the kind you use at the mall) is probably going to struggle if you try to take it off-road.

I also have a Kelty backpack which kills - KILLS - my back so I also prefer the stroller. Our Kelty has almost never been used.

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Except for the basics what items do you absolutely have to have as a mom? Which one's were a waste of money?

jane d

I have to have the highchair (surprising), diaper genie, bouncy chair, snap and go. Waste of money was the playpen, the big limo stroller, "busy" toys for the car ride. Looking out the window, and the radio seems to be enough!

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Our highchair and crib both lasted for 3 babies. I just gave the crib to a friend who is using it for her 5th baby. We also got our moneys worth on the jogger stroller, baby backpack and port-a-crib. Biggest waste was the deluxe potty chair. My kids didn't take to it too well, and I HATED cleaning it out! :)

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What should I bring when travelling with my baby?

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Gal in red

My baby will be five months old when I travel and I will be out of the conuntry for a month. What should I bring with me?

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Hopefully you are nursing. Then you don't have to deal with worrying about water quality or hauling formula.

If you us formula- use POWDER...and only bottled water....and insist the bottles be brought to you UNOPENED so you can see the seal....then you know they weren't refilled.

Bring orajel and baby tylenol...and any over the counter medication you use for baby. You don't want to need to rely on meds in another language.

Carry diapers for a week and wipes. Don't drag a months worth. Every country has diapers. Lay in your stock as soon as you get there. Put the wipes in a ziploc bag- less space.

Disposable bibs.

Only 2-3 SIMPLE toys.

Car seat. This can double as a "highchair." I've even hauled car seats into movie theaters. The weight holds the seat down, and my kids were always happy to sit in their carseat if they were watching a movie.

Umbrella stroller and a baby backpack. Backpacks are easier than slings when they are that age- and when you have luggage.

Baby will be on cereal by then....depending on where you are going, you should be able to get dry cereals. Again....watch the water!

A blanket or toy baby associates with their bed. this will make the sleeping arrangements seem more homey.

If you will be travelling across more than 1 time zone...start adjusting baby to the new schedule 2 days for every time zone you are crossing (30 minutes a day)...so your travel day is the second to last day of adjustment......don't forget to reverse it on your way back.....it's good for you, too----you won't lose time to jet lag.


Keep with you on travel days.....a bag with EVERYTHING baby would need for 3 days...and then a few more diapers. When our 3rd was a month old, my husband and I tok her across the country with us on a business trip....and rest trip for me. She nursed, so no problem there....but the airline LOST the bag with her "gear." I was so glad I had 3 days supplies for her....it took that long to get her bag back!

How much do framed baby backpacks support?

rainwriter

I'm looking at getting a metal framed hiking type back pack. What is the upper weight/age limit to these? Here's the one I'm looking at getting. http://eastidaho.craigslist.org/bab/796313648.html Are these too big for toddlers?

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they only go to 25 pds. Why don't you look at the ERGO carrier, those metal frames are horrible for you back! The ergo is great and comfy I use it all the time

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How to pack a good baby diaper bag ?

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Bambi

I have entered many websites about baby diaper bag like nacobabydiaperbag.com,but which style is a better choice I have no ideas.

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it depends on how you live, and how you'll use it the most. As in if you'll be having it on your pram, if you'll be carrying it like a tote bag, if you'll be wanting a backpack, and if you want an in-built bottle carrier or a separate one, and if you want it to include a change-mat, or have a separate one. And on top of that there's personal style and taste to consider, as well as budget. On top of that, you can buy portable change mats or change mat wallets that have pockets for wipes, diapers and creams etc so you can just carry that for short trips, or if you're going out with someone else they can look after the big diaper bag and you just take the wallet and baby for a change. It's always good to get one that can fit a blanket, a spare set of clothes or 2, a couple of bibs, a spare pacifier, some toys as well as changing and feeding equipment. One that's easy to clean is a plus. And getting a wetbag for dirty cloth diapers if you're using them, or clothes/blankets that have been spat up on, or a diaper blowout/leak is always useful so everything else doesn't get stinky and dirty.

What do I need to pack in my babies diaper bag?

zackncats

I am having a baby girl and I need to know what to pack in her diaper bag.

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The other people gave a good list of items. One lifesaver for me was a container with small disposable bags for when a poop happens at a friends house.

Advice: Make an emergency bag and throw it in the trunk of your car. I filled up a backpack with water, individual formula packets, a couple bottles, diapers, wipes, a roll of paper towels (trust me, it comes in handy) extra clothes, sunscreen, snacks, ect. Unless you have a diaper bag the size of a shopping cart, you just can't carry everything around. My advice, take a small diaper bag with just the essentials and have the other bag for backup. Afterall, you will forget things from time to time.

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What is the best baby carrier to use with back support?

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mommy2J

I have a maya wrap but I'm looking for something else, more comfortable for both the baby and I. I have a backpack Infantino and she loves it but it puts too much strain on my back. Any suggestions?

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it depends on how old your baby is?
if she's under 6 months and under 20 lbs, Baby Bjorn is the best one. there are two different ones available, the original one and the active one. i had the original one and it was great. the active one is if you're going to use it a lot.

if she's older than 6 months there is the ergo baby carrier. it can also be used for babies under 6 months. i had it but it wasn't good on my back, but i have an injury so that was probably the problem. it is supposedly the best one on the market though. i did like how the baby sat in it. my baby seemed very comfortable.

What is the best baby carrier to get?

CLICK 2 $A

I'm thinking of the Bjorn or the Ergo. I've used the Bjorn before and liked it. It seems like the Ergo can be used longer since it can switch to the back. Is this true? Which one did you prefer? Also, my back gets sore fairly easily so I'm looking for one that won't make my back ache. Thank you!

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I did a lot of research for my family and a lot of reading on sites by mothers using them and came down to Moby Wrap or Ergo. My husband was afraid the Moby Wrap would unwrap on him (he's bad at knots...) so he wanted something with actual snaps and such (Ergo) and was willing to shell out the hundred or so dollars difference for that, so we got the Ergo. Before then we used an Infantismo with my daughter and my husband hated it, it hurt his back and was very uncomfortable.

The Ergo, we've used it with my 23lb toddler on his back and he found it very comfortable, and she liked it as well. We were going up and down hills too, so it's not like it was an easy walk we were doing! His back did not hurt afterwards, and he didn't feel like his center of gravity was compromised with her on his back (unlike a frame backpack he tried with her.) The other day we put our week old son in the Ergo using the newborn infant insert and he fell asleep, absolutely loving it, and my husband felt like he wasn't wearing anything it was so comfortable and held so close. A true measure of the comfort? Our son pooped. He doesn't poop unless he's completely comfortable. :)

So we went with the Ergo and love it. But I read a lot of good reports on the Moby as well and would have been willing to try that.

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