what to buy for a newborn baby?

doberman_l

what are the basic things you need to have for the beggining of a babys life?
such as diapers, etc?
please help

Answer
Bath/Grooming:
-Diapers
-Wipes
-Desitin, or any other rash cream or baby powder
-wash cloths
-hooded towels
-Baby wash
-Baby bath tub

Clothing:
-Lots of onesies and sleepers
-Receiving blankets for swaddling
-socks
-sun hat
-Mittens to prevent scratching
-Baby laundry detergent (use for the first year)
-Bibs and burp cloths

-If you are not nursing, a couple cans of formula/bottles/bottle brush with nipple cleaner
-Crib/waterproof pads/bedding

-Lots of binkies(if you are using them), nail clippers, bulb syringe for suctioning mucous, baby thermometer (forehead one works best), infant medication in case of fever

-Infant car seat and stroller

-A monitor is nice to have. We got one that detects if baby is breathing and alerts if breathing stops, but to be honest we never turned the motion sensor on. The few times I did the alarm went off right away.

Other things that are not necessities but great to have are:
-boppy
-infant swing (great for a place for baby to calm down or nap)
-baby backpack (slings were recalled for strangulation)
-bouncer/vibrating chair
-bumbo (good for learning to sit and for feeding time w/"play tray")
-rattles and toys
-mirror for in the car so you can see baby
-diaper bag
-sleep wedge (this is good for making baby feel cozy and so he/she stays on back)

A lot of things like the swing, bouncer, etc. can be bought at second hand baby stores. Most things are gently used and some are even brand new for so much cheaper!

Baby Registry Help PLEASE?

Torie

I am starting my registry for my first baby and I have registered at Target and Babies R Us and I have a few questions. First, should I put the same items on both registries? Next, I am having a rather large baby shower (50 guests) because we both have large families so I want to put enough items on my list but I'm not sure if I should ask for things that baby will need months after she is born like a potty chair, teethers, stuffed animals, etc. I feel like I should just register for the really important stuff that I will need for when the baby first comes home and I can slowly buy that kind of stuff later down the line as I need it. I'm going off the check list babies r us gave, but I am only like half way done and already have like 70 things on my list! Also, I heard that a lot of people don't even buy things off your registry and just buy whatever they feel you need, and in that case I don't know why I'm wasting my time doing research trying to find out what is the best, trying to get things that will match the nursery, and how much of what I need if they aren't even gonna look at it! Sorry if I seem edgy I have just been working on this for a few days now off and on and I'm getting very frustrated.

Answer
First of do you know what you are having?
If you don't then make a long list of neutral baby clothes for the summer that's coming up. Also make sure you ask for doubles or more of everything, and get many of clothing items in larger sizes. Make sure just in case to get a few Preemie baby clothes just in case.

Also I would also like to recommend both http://www.diapers.com/ , and http://www.babyearth.com/ . For registry. I don't like the Target selection, and what ever these sites don't have Babies R Us might have extras or back ups.

Also here is a list I came up with, with a few helpful item idea's.

Orbit Stroller Seat G2 (Main seat), Stroller Frame G2(Actual stroller), Infant Car Seat G2 (Car seat), and Car Seat Base G2, Toddler Car Seat G2, Bassinet Cradle,
Includes:
Stroller
Two car seats
Pram (Bassinet/Cradle)

Front Carrier (ERGO Baby)
Higher weight limited car seat when older ( Argos⢠70 Car Seat )
Diaper bag (www. diaperbags.com)
Baby Backpack (www. diaperbags.com)
Mamaroo (Alternative to a bouncy or swing)
Play Yard (Pack 'n Play® Playard with Newborn Napper® Station)
Tummy Time mat (multiple mats for different things)
Crib (Allegra Convertible Crib)
Crib Tent (Cozy Crib Tent for Convertible Cribs)
Play yard Tent (The Cozy Indoor/Outdoor Portable Playard Tent plus Sunshade)
Changing station ( First one comes with Play Yard, buy the Young America Mix & Match Changing Station for Nursery use)
Bassinet (comes with Play yard)
Pack 'n Play® Changing Pad and Sheets
Pack 'n Play® Playard Sheets
Changing Table Pad Covers
Bedding
Crib Mattresses (Essentia Baby Jeanius Mattress)
Baby MMonitor(Video Baby Monitor - Lorex LIVE snap)
Bottles and Nipples ( Medela)
Highchair (Peg Perego Tatamia Highchair)
Utensils
Plates and bowls
Cups and sippy cups
Burp Cloths
Bottle brushes
Bibs
Electric Breast pump ( Medela Pump In Style Advanced BBreast pump- On-the-Go Tote)
Milk storage bags, breast pads, extra breast shields, ice packs ( Medela® BBreast milkStorage Solution,etc.)
Baby towels with hoods
Infant bathtubs (4moms Cleanwater)
baby washcloths
brush and combs
Baby nail clipper, etc.
Childproofing supplies
safety gates
Pacifiers (Gumdrop Pacifiers)
Teether (Raz Baby Rav-Berry Teether)
Teething Feeder by sassy (Buy extra bags also)
humidifier
Baby book or scrapbook

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What are the main things to buy when you have your first baby?

sweetginge

Answer
A List of Things to Buy before Baby comes home

Baby Carrier or Sling:
There are several different products out there that allow you to carry your baby close to you, and keep your hands free for working around the house, shopping, or just going out and about. The carriers fit similar to a non-frame backpack, with straps going over both shoulders, while the slings usually fit over one shoulder. Baby Bjorn, which first launched in 1973, is probably the best known baby carrier name brands, but there are several different manufacturers out there, and prices range from $25 - $150.

Bassinet:
This is an optional baby item that I would recommend thinking about. While some moms believe they are unnecessary, ours was wonderful to have the first six weeks. Bassinets are small and easily moved, so baby (or, in our case, babies) can sleep peacefully wherever you are. Invest in one with wheels so that baby can âfollowâ you from room to room during your day.

Bath Soap, Shampoo, Lotion and Powder:
There are infant washes, shampoos and lotions that are gentler for baby than other types of body washes and shampoos. If you're looking for shampoo, soap and lotions from the store, we highly recommend either the Johnson or Baby Magic brands â calming lavender scent! If you prefer organic and 100% natural ingrediants, Grandma El's shampoo and baby wash is an excellent choice. Check with your pediatrician as to how often you should bathe baby during the first few weeks.

Bathtub:
While you may be able to begin bathing baby in the kitchen sink, thereâs going to be a period after they outgrow the sink and before they can sit in the bathtub on their own. There are several types of bathtubs and bath mats available. You can buy a basic bathtub, or purchase a more complex set up. For instance, Safety 1st has a 4-in-1 bathtub that begins as a mesh bath sling, then converts into an infant bath with sling, then a bath ring seat and finally to a 2-year toddler tub. Thereâs also a Baby Bath Center that has a battery-operated spa and shower that gives your baby a soothing whirlpool bath and a gentle shower spray for rinsing hair

Books:
Reading to baby, even when baby is only hours old, is a great bonding experience. Book reading provides security, comfort, one-on-one time, a great chance to communicate, a good base for vocabulary, and visual and mental stimulation. Studies show a direct correlation between language skills â and some studies suggest intelligence â and how many words a baby hears each day. There are many ways to talk to your baby, and reading is one of them, especially if you really like to narrate the books you read. If youâd rather not spend your downtime reading Three Little Pigs to your newborn, read the paper, magazine, or your current book. The important thing is baby hearing your voice, and not necessarily the words you are saying. You can probably get away with this until baby is about four months old, when they start getting interested in whatâs actually one the pages youâre reading.

Bottles:
Donât go overboard here. Different brands of bottles have different nipples, and some babies just arenât able to latch on to certain brands. Our boys could not latch on to one of the most popular (and most expensive) brands of nipples and bottles out there, which were billed as â Iâd recommend buying two or three of one or two different types, see what works (and whatâs preferred) and go from there.

Bouncy Chair:
There is another wide variety of options for you to choose from here. The range includes âbouncerâ chairs designed especially for infants to chairs where the seat can be laid back for infants, and then raised into sitting positions as baby gets older. We opted for the 3-in-1 Fisher Price chair. It was a stationary vibrating chair with a toy bar when the guys were infants and then converted into a rocker with a toy bar and âbeltâ when they could sit up, and a freestanding chair that they used until they were two. For the same price of a bouncer, we thought this was a better investment. Whichever chair or bouncer you choose will be a life saver for things like taking a shower, folding laundry, cooking dinner â and other times that you arenât able to hold baby, but want him to be nearby. Bouncers have a short (but very useful) life, and baby will outgrow his or her single-use bouncer at about three months â at about the time their necks will be strong enough for stationary exercisers, jumperoos, and swings.


Changing Table:
My sister-in-law told me that a changing table was the most important thing I could buy for the guysâ room, and I am so glad I listened to her! Like any other baby item, there is a huge variety to choose from. You can purchase 'just' a changing tables or purcase a changing table that also serve as a dresser, bookshelf, and closet. There are some âall-in-oneâ that incorporates the changing table into the framework of a crib or bookshelf. Whichever you decide to get, I recommend buying a âsturdyâ changing table, as it will save your back (and all the backs that change babyâs diapers) not only in the infant stage, but through toddlerhood, too (anywhere from 18 months to 3 years, depending on how potty training and pull-ups go). Some of the spindle-legs and wicker changing tables (to name two) have a maximum weight of 20 lbs or so â which baby will quickly outgrow. Itâs amazing how much easier life becomes when you have a changing table to rely on, instead of tables, beds, and the floor.

Cloth Diapers â for you not for baby:
YOU NEED THESE even if you use disposable diapers. These arenât for baby to wear, but for you to use for just about anything â burping, spills, cleaning up spit up, roll up to use as head and neck supports â you name it. Once you get past the infant stage, they still come in handy. The soft feel l makes it nice to use against babyâs skin, and their larger size is much better than depending on washcloths and dishtowels.

Clothes:
Baby needs to wear something! Iâll say it here, but youâll do it anyway â be wary of overbuying for sizes 0-3 months. This size usually is up to 12 lbs, which happens fairly quickly. Stock up on onesies and sleepers (which they will spend most of their time in, anyway), and leave the buttons, shoes, and hard to get into clothes for when baby is 3 months old and older. You donât want to spend your baby money on clothes theyâll outgrow in about two months.
Co-Sleeper or Pak ân Play:

Co-sleeper or Pak 'n Play
There are two great options to cosleep with baby.

Products like the Family Bed Co-Sleeper safely turn a regular bed into a family bed. The Family Bed Co-sleeper offers a comfortable (and washable) pad for dad, mom, and baby to sleep on, while the bolster keeps baby from rolling off. When looking for a family bed co-sleeper, make sure that the bolster is used without straps, buckles, without cumbersome pillows.

A bedside cosleeper is a great way to keep your baby at armâs reach, but out of your bed. You can also remove the sleeping area and use the base as a play pen, if youâd like. I would definitely go for the co-sleeper if you have twins (it has a sturdier bed where the babies sleep, and you don't have to 'reinforce' the bed with cardboard).

Pak ân Plays come with a variety of options as well. Ours had a bassinet and a changing table included. Once the guys outgrew their bassinet, we had them sleep in the pak ân play in the living room, and the co-sleeper in our bedroom. We never did use the play pen features.

Both fold up fairly easily so that you can take them with you when you travel. The big difference between the two is that a co-sleeper has one side that drops down, allowing baby to be at the same heighth as your bed, without having a significant barrier between the two of you that you have to navigate to put baby in, or take baby out, while lying in bed. Also, we found that the co-sleeper was significantly sturdier than the pak 'n play.

Crib:
This one is iffy to have before baby comes home if you plan to cosleep or use a bassinet for the first few weeks, and a must if you intend on putting baby to sleep in the crib as soon as he or she comes home. While itâs great to have âcribâ crossed off your list before baby comes home, if youâre going to be co-sleeping or using a cradle or bassinet, you might want to wait until baby is home. There are more than a few parents that decorated their babyâs nursery before baby came home, only to discover it didnât âmatchâ their babyâs personality. Many families co-sleep with baby during the first year, and skip the crib all together, moving right into a toddler bed.

There are almost as many options for cribs as there are for car seats. You can buy one that serves only as a crib, or one that converts into a toddler bed and then into a twin bed. Hand-me-down cribs are great family heirlooms, but be safety conscious. Are the slates to far apart? Are there any broken or damaged pieces? Is anything painted with lead paint?

Can anyone recommend a backpack baby carrier?

Sarah

Answer
We used the Snugli Comfort Vent Baby Carrier, it wasn't to bad. You can read about my experience with it by following the link below.

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What are the main things to buy when you have your first baby?

sweetginge

Answer
A List of Things to Buy before Baby comes home

Baby Carrier or Sling:
There are several different products out there that allow you to carry your baby close to you, and keep your hands free for working around the house, shopping, or just going out and about. The carriers fit similar to a non-frame backpack, with straps going over both shoulders, while the slings usually fit over one shoulder. Baby Bjorn, which first launched in 1973, is probably the best known baby carrier name brands, but there are several different manufacturers out there, and prices range from $25 - $150.

Bassinet:
This is an optional baby item that I would recommend thinking about. While some moms believe they are unnecessary, ours was wonderful to have the first six weeks. Bassinets are small and easily moved, so baby (or, in our case, babies) can sleep peacefully wherever you are. Invest in one with wheels so that baby can âfollowâ you from room to room during your day.

Bath Soap, Shampoo, Lotion and Powder:
There are infant washes, shampoos and lotions that are gentler for baby than other types of body washes and shampoos. If you're looking for shampoo, soap and lotions from the store, we highly recommend either the Johnson or Baby Magic brands â calming lavender scent! If you prefer organic and 100% natural ingrediants, Grandma El's shampoo and baby wash is an excellent choice. Check with your pediatrician as to how often you should bathe baby during the first few weeks.

Bathtub:
While you may be able to begin bathing baby in the kitchen sink, thereâs going to be a period after they outgrow the sink and before they can sit in the bathtub on their own. There are several types of bathtubs and bath mats available. You can buy a basic bathtub, or purchase a more complex set up. For instance, Safety 1st has a 4-in-1 bathtub that begins as a mesh bath sling, then converts into an infant bath with sling, then a bath ring seat and finally to a 2-year toddler tub. Thereâs also a Baby Bath Center that has a battery-operated spa and shower that gives your baby a soothing whirlpool bath and a gentle shower spray for rinsing hair

Books:
Reading to baby, even when baby is only hours old, is a great bonding experience. Book reading provides security, comfort, one-on-one time, a great chance to communicate, a good base for vocabulary, and visual and mental stimulation. Studies show a direct correlation between language skills â and some studies suggest intelligence â and how many words a baby hears each day. There are many ways to talk to your baby, and reading is one of them, especially if you really like to narrate the books you read. If youâd rather not spend your downtime reading Three Little Pigs to your newborn, read the paper, magazine, or your current book. The important thing is baby hearing your voice, and not necessarily the words you are saying. You can probably get away with this until baby is about four months old, when they start getting interested in whatâs actually one the pages youâre reading.

Bottles:
Donât go overboard here. Different brands of bottles have different nipples, and some babies just arenât able to latch on to certain brands. Our boys could not latch on to one of the most popular (and most expensive) brands of nipples and bottles out there, which were billed as â Iâd recommend buying two or three of one or two different types, see what works (and whatâs preferred) and go from there.

Bouncy Chair:
There is another wide variety of options for you to choose from here. The range includes âbouncerâ chairs designed especially for infants to chairs where the seat can be laid back for infants, and then raised into sitting positions as baby gets older. We opted for the 3-in-1 Fisher Price chair. It was a stationary vibrating chair with a toy bar when the guys were infants and then converted into a rocker with a toy bar and âbeltâ when they could sit up, and a freestanding chair that they used until they were two. For the same price of a bouncer, we thought this was a better investment. Whichever chair or bouncer you choose will be a life saver for things like taking a shower, folding laundry, cooking dinner â and other times that you arenât able to hold baby, but want him to be nearby. Bouncers have a short (but very useful) life, and baby will outgrow his or her single-use bouncer at about three months â at about the time their necks will be strong enough for stationary exercisers, jumperoos, and swings.


Changing Table:
My sister-in-law told me that a changing table was the most important thing I could buy for the guysâ room, and I am so glad I listened to her! Like any other baby item, there is a huge variety to choose from. You can purchase 'just' a changing tables or purcase a changing table that also serve as a dresser, bookshelf, and closet. There are some âall-in-oneâ that incorporates the changing table into the framework of a crib or bookshelf. Whichever you decide to get, I recommend buying a âsturdyâ changing table, as it will save your back (and all the backs that change babyâs diapers) not only in the infant stage, but through toddlerhood, too (anywhere from 18 months to 3 years, depending on how potty training and pull-ups go). Some of the spindle-legs and wicker changing tables (to name two) have a maximum weight of 20 lbs or so â which baby will quickly outgrow. Itâs amazing how much easier life becomes when you have a changing table to rely on, instead of tables, beds, and the floor.

Cloth Diapers â for you not for baby:
YOU NEED THESE even if you use disposable diapers. These arenât for baby to wear, but for you to use for just about anything â burping, spills, cleaning up spit up, roll up to use as head and neck supports â you name it. Once you get past the infant stage, they still come in handy. The soft feel l makes it nice to use against babyâs skin, and their larger size is much better than depending on washcloths and dishtowels.

Clothes:
Baby needs to wear something! Iâll say it here, but youâll do it anyway â be wary of overbuying for sizes 0-3 months. This size usually is up to 12 lbs, which happens fairly quickly. Stock up on onesies and sleepers (which they will spend most of their time in, anyway), and leave the buttons, shoes, and hard to get into clothes for when baby is 3 months old and older. You donât want to spend your baby money on clothes theyâll outgrow in about two months.
Co-Sleeper or Pak ân Play:

Co-sleeper or Pak 'n Play
There are two great options to cosleep with baby.

Products like the Family Bed Co-Sleeper safely turn a regular bed into a family bed. The Family Bed Co-sleeper offers a comfortable (and washable) pad for dad, mom, and baby to sleep on, while the bolster keeps baby from rolling off. When looking for a family bed co-sleeper, make sure that the bolster is used without straps, buckles, without cumbersome pillows.

A bedside cosleeper is a great way to keep your baby at armâs reach, but out of your bed. You can also remove the sleeping area and use the base as a play pen, if youâd like. I would definitely go for the co-sleeper if you have twins (it has a sturdier bed where the babies sleep, and you don't have to 'reinforce' the bed with cardboard).

Pak ân Plays come with a variety of options as well. Ours had a bassinet and a changing table included. Once the guys outgrew their bassinet, we had them sleep in the pak ân play in the living room, and the co-sleeper in our bedroom. We never did use the play pen features.

Both fold up fairly easily so that you can take them with you when you travel. The big difference between the two is that a co-sleeper has one side that drops down, allowing baby to be at the same heighth as your bed, without having a significant barrier between the two of you that you have to navigate to put baby in, or take baby out, while lying in bed. Also, we found that the co-sleeper was significantly sturdier than the pak 'n play.

Crib:
This one is iffy to have before baby comes home if you plan to cosleep or use a bassinet for the first few weeks, and a must if you intend on putting baby to sleep in the crib as soon as he or she comes home. While itâs great to have âcribâ crossed off your list before baby comes home, if youâre going to be co-sleeping or using a cradle or bassinet, you might want to wait until baby is home. There are more than a few parents that decorated their babyâs nursery before baby came home, only to discover it didnât âmatchâ their babyâs personality. Many families co-sleep with baby during the first year, and skip the crib all together, moving right into a toddler bed.

There are almost as many options for cribs as there are for car seats. You can buy one that serves only as a crib, or one that converts into a toddler bed and then into a twin bed. Hand-me-down cribs are great family heirlooms, but be safety conscious. Are the slates to far apart? Are there any broken or damaged pieces? Is anything painted with lead paint?

Can anyone recommend a backpack baby carrier?

Sarah

Answer
We used the Snugli Comfort Vent Baby Carrier, it wasn't to bad. You can read about my experience with it by following the link below.

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Can you recommend a Baby Carrier?

Mommy...LT

I'm rather petite and am having trouble finding one that fits. I tried a wrap type one, and one by infantino. The wrap one is way too complicated and is in a stretchy fabric that after 5 minutes it's too stretched out to hold the baby. The infantino one would be good, but even with the straps in the smallest position my baby is still too far from my body.

I'm just interested in forward facing and tummy facing, not a cradle / nursing type position.

Answer
Check out the Ergo Baby Carrier. It's a soft structured carrier, very similar to the Bjorn in appearance, but it can be used as a backpack carrier, a front carrier (facing in AND facing out-- though in any carrier, facing out puts more strain on YOUR back), hip carries, etc. I am not sure how well it will work for a petite momma, I am 5'4" and love it. I can and do use it with my almost 4 year old, and with my 1 year old very comfortable. They are also man-friendly because they aren't girly prints. www.ergobabycarrier.com
If you like the style of the infantino, there are two options... a ring sling, which is adjustable, and a pouch, which is sized to fit you. Both are fairly easy to make if you have a sewing machine, but if not, you can buy one. I like to shop at www.attachedtobaby.com, they carry every type of carrier out there, though not every brand, or every style within a brand (so be sure to do a search if you like a particular style, but want to see if they have different fabric choices). My favorite ring sling is www.rockinbabysling. com, my favorite pouches are www.goo-ga.com or www.hotsling.com. These are great for smaller babies, or quick trips with an older baby/toddler.
Sounds to me like you tried the Ultimate Baby Wrap? That's a VERY stretchy wrap, and really isn't a good determination of how you'd like other wraps, particularly german woven wraps. If you liked the style and general feel of the wrap, look in the woven wrap section at attached to baby. These are my favorite carriers, my preference is for Didymos. They are versatile (tons of positions to use), and superior in comfort to just about anything, but they are hard to learn to use.
Another option is a Mei Tai carrier. Very pretty, very easy to use, very versatile. My favorite brand is www.babyhawk.com or www.meitaibaby.com.

Men with baby carrier?

chicabonit

My husband has no problem with wearing a baby carrier (with one of our babies in it of course) in public. He prefers type with the baby on the front because he can't see the baby when it is in the "backpack" style carrier. We have twins and went to a housewarming for a friend. We live in New York, so we took the subway - each of us with one of our boys in the carrier on the front. When we arrived, I noticed a few women snickering about something, but thought nothing of it. Later, my friend told me they were commenting about how "stupid" my husband looked with the baby carrier, and they are only for women?? Personally, I find it cute - and it is the most convenient - and safest - way to transport our children on the subway. What do you think of men wearing a baby carrier?

Answer
I think the people at the party need to grow up. Men are just a nurturing as women. We are always pushed into roles of violence and disregard. A carrier is a great way to bond with the baby. Not only is it safe as you mentioned, its hands free living. Why is it both parents created the baby, but only one is allowed to care for him/her? I hope you won't continue to surround yourself with these negative neanderthals. Congrats on the twins also.

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Being baby sat at 18?

Q. Is it 'bad parenting' or 'unacceptable' to leave an 18 year old at home alone for a night? Do I really need a babysitter at 18? I really think its ridiculous but how can I convince my Uncle, Mother and Grandmother, that it is? I really do not think it is necessary when I can legally vote, drink, drive and even be a stripper if I so desired. I do not even live in a dangerous are. Please I need some advice!
In Australia we can legally drink at 18.
I have no reason for my mum not to trust me. I'm talking I only go out ocaasionally, don't do anything majorly bad, straight A kinda student.
My dad think I can be left home alone.
My mum thinks its highly likely the house will get broken into and I'll get 'stabbed or raped', no joke.
And I wouldn't ever be a stripper, I was just cross
I can't get a reason out of my mum or grandmother other than 'im just not comfortable'. I see my uncle once a year at xmas, pretty much no other contact. My family makes a joke of how they wish they could clone me, cos none else in the family cousins etc couldnt be better behaved. I look after my disabled brother on weekends, have held one job for nearly three years and am expected to the the most responsible and grown up one around and yet I'm not allowed to stay home alone, even though its not my my mothers house
Uh just to clear things up
1. Im a girl, Sorry to the ones asking. haha
2. My parents HATE each other with a passion, spilt when I was 14

Answer
Well, at 18 I was living out of home with my then boyfriend (now husband) and backpacking overseas.
I wouldn't say 'bad parenting' but I don't see how it is necessary. Esp when allot of babysitters people hire are teens themselves.

You are an adult now, so you need to talk to your parents about this as an adult.... you know calmly and quietly..
Whatever yo do don't say 'this is unfair' because 'kids' always say that, instead use 'unreasonable'.. because from what I can see (there may be more details etc that affect your parents judgment) it is.

Can I start a career after having a baby as a single mom?

Danceuse86

I'm 25 years old, with a university degree, speak 4 languages fluently and lots of other qualifications/experience. I have to admitt that I have an impressive resume. Here's the situation though: I've been backpacking through Australia for the past year with my boyfriend, who's from the US (I'm from Canada.) We just found out that I'm pregnant and have decided to keep the baby. I move back to Canada in March, and my baby is due in August. I'll have to use the time in between to find a place to live, and a casual job to hold me over until I can get a real job at some point after the baby's born (I don't want to risk searching before because I'll be so large and that could affect my chances.) I have plenty of savings, so money shouldn't be too much of a concern for a while. The father of the baby is also supportive and will be there financially and so are my friends/family. I'm excited to be a mommy, but am worried that since I'll mainly be raising it alone, it'll be hard for me to kick start a career after the baby comes.
Has anyone else ever started a career under tough circumstances like this one? Any advice/suggestions well appreciated! Thanks. xx

Answer
Can you work online as a translator among your four languages? Working from home would be ideal for you, at least for the next year or so.

You did not mention the kind of career you want. Would it require full-time or even abnormally long work weeks? If so, I hope it pays enough so that you can hire a nanny or daycare.

If you will live in an English speaking part of Canada, maybe you can find a French speaking nanny/daycare (or one speaking an exotic yet useful language like Mandarin or Arabic). If you will live in a French speaking area, you could hire a nanny/daycare speaking either English or one of those exotic languages. That way, the child learns all the languages from the youngest possible age.

When you say you will "mainly be raising it alone", does that mean the father will seldom see the child in person? If so, discuss with your boyfriend having him video chat with his child, like via Skype over the Internet. Virtual interaction is better than a phone call, I'm guessing.

This might seem off-topic, but I think you should speak neither English nor French to your child. I assume that, in Canada, he or she will learn both of those languages via school, television, other kids, maybe a nanny, etc. You could speak one of your other languages to him/her one day, then another language the next day, then switch back to that first language on the third day, then back to that second language on the fourth day, etc. In other words, just endlessly alternate between the two languages from day to day. Your child deserves the multilingual advantage that you have!

To set up yourself and your child for success, you should do some homework. Good parenting requires forethought. Be sure to read plenty of books on parenting, think about what they all say, but don't accept on faith any single thing that a book says.

Here are some random ideas I have:

I wonder whether acting and public speaking lessons would be valuable for an older kid. That would really help his self-presentation, I'm guessing.

Another example: don't just order him to do his school work because it's required. At the start of each semester, look at a list of classes he's taking. Sell him on the value of each course subject - how exactly will it be helpful. You might have to search on Google/whatever for something like "math motivation" to get ideas for how to sell the benefits of a subject. Unfortunately, schools and teachers seldom sell kids on the value of trying to learn what they teach.

When he's old enough, have him try lots of different activities (hobbies; clubs and elective classes at school). Explain the various reasons why each activity is worthwhile:
* Develop skills he can use in life
* Figure out what career he'll probably be good at and excited about
* Be a more interesting person, especially to people who are interested in that activity
* Get practice with difficult technical subjects, to be better prepared when trying to learn them in college or on the job. Some subjects are difficult enough that it will be very helpful to have been exposed to them before and to have a lot of practice.

Some parents only pressure their kids to go to college and then get a particular kind of job; I wonder whether parents should suggest exploring less common alternatives. For instance, it might be good to somehow encourage entrepreneurial thinking, living and working overseas, and whatever other nontraditional paths you can think of. I don't know how to sell kids on those kinds of ideas, but it seems worth trying. I think that preparing for life is even more important than preparing for college.

Still another aspect of leadership is responding to problems that come up. A couple examples:

1) If your child is anxious or has social difficulties, don't just ignore it or give up if you can't figure out how to help. Hire a family counselor or child psychologist.

2) If your child does not understand a particular school subject fully, hire a tutor. Even if he/she currently has an A grade, this might be valuable if homework or tests show wrong answers that he/she cannot explain. This has a side benefit of teaching the child to seek outside academic help when needed, rather than accepting poor performance.

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traveling with kids?

sarahnsqui

we're going to be camping in Colorado for a family vacation with my husbands siblings/dad/etc...there will be a 14 month old and my baby who is 3 months...what are some ideas for activities?

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14 mo old - We bought a child carrier backpack for my first son and that sures makes nature oriented stuff easier. My son loved the pack, and so if we went on a hike he just road along in the pack, the sites alone will keep them entertained for the most part.

At 3 months you can get a front carrier, and tote that one along.

Wherever you camp, scout out the area very well before you let the 14 mo old wander around, make sure there are not any dangerous critters or bushes or whatnot. Have a big tent so they can also just use the tent as a playarea.

Buy a few new toys (don't go overboard) and give them a new toy when you first get there, when they bore of that one, give them another new toy.... depends on the attention span of your child how long this will or if it will work at all. (my 16 mo old this would never work, his attention span is like 3 minutes.)

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International travel with babies?

crystal_he

Planning on flying from the US to South East Asia with a 3 year old and a year old. Sigh.... what can I do to make this trip easier? It'll be Washington DC - NY - Frankfurt - Singapore - Surabaya, Indonesia with SQ (Singapore Airlines). Has anyone made a similar trip? How do you handle the babies?
Thanks in advance.

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I had to do a lot of plane hopping with my little ones when I flew to Ireland (four planes to get there, five planes to get home). They were a bit older - but we also take frequent trips, and have been flying with the kids since they were infants.

I disagree with the other commenter. I never check my luggage. When jumping that many planes, there is a greater chance the airline will "lose" your bags. It is also a pain to wait for the luggage to come around when you have little ones who may be cranky or overstimulated. But if you are traveling alone, then checking it may be your best option, as you won't have to struggle with kids and bags through the airport. Just makes sure you pack a backpack or small carryon bag with extra clothes (at least one set for every person traveling) and any and ALL important supplies - diapers, medication, money, passports... Keep that with you, so if your luggage is lost, you are not stuck with nothing.

For the baby, make sure you have a pacifier or bottle, or something they can suck on while the plane is ascending or descending. The air pressure can hurt their ears, and the sucking will cause that pressure to pop. Some suckers might also be good, if the older child complains about the pressure.

Bring snack foods - granola bars, fruit, crackers... And a water bottle. Fill the water bottle before you get on the plane. But be careful not to let the kids eat and eat and eat out of boredom. There is nothing worse than a kid barfing on a plane.

Bring activities and toys - but nothing noisy that will disturb other flyers or make a mess (it's not easy cleaning up a tiny space with babies in the way). Coloring books and crayons for the older child. If your youngest is going to be a lap baby, then be prepared for another passenger being seated with you. If possible, try to keep the aisle seat, so you can get your kids to the bathroom without having to inconvenience anyone else.

Oh, and try not to stress out if your kids do get cranky and make a fuss. I can't recall any flights I have ever been on that there wasn't a baby crying or a child whining. It happens, and most people will be understanding. Those who aren't, well, ignore them. Just concentrate on your children.

How to travel with newborn internationally?

zawjatuabd

I would like to travel soon with my 7 week old baby to Canada so he can see his grandparents. This will be a 22 hr flight via airplane! How soon can I travel and how I carry him with me conveniently? car seat, stroller what kind, backpack carrier? Anyone tried travelling w a newborn- can u give me tips

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Oh wow i will be travelling from Canada hopefully within a week so her grandparents can see her and that will 22 hours of flight too but the difference is she will 4 months actually i wanted to go since she was 1 month but passport took some time. well the advices i got and after searching on different websites i came to know that:
When you get your tickets just ask them if there is anyway they can give you the seat where you can hook a bassinet up for the baby.
Take lots of diapers, pacifier, wipes, 2 to 3 change of cloths,
Make sure you take a soft blanket of your lill one.
Please don't drug the baby with Benadryl it can create more problem for you because sometimes babies get cranky.
Just make sure that u are feeding the kid (either bottle or breast feed) at the time of take off and landing so that he/she isn't cranky due to air pressure.
Btw dont worry your baby will be sleeping most of the time :)
Good luck!

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What do you think of the start of my book? THANK YOU :)?

Belle

"Jamie, where is your shoe?" Aria asked her younger brother. He shrugged, and ran off into the kitchen to look there. Aria grumbled, mumbling something about him always losing his things.

Nathan, Aria's foster brother, walked into her bedroom, "I found it, it was in the bookcase. That kid really needs to have his shoes taped to his feet."

Aria laughed, "I have a feeling he would find a way to lose them anyway. Hey, where's Lisa?"

"I think she's with Jamie, in the kitchen."

Aria nodded,"Hurry up, we can't be late to school again," she said as she grabbed Nathan's backpack.
She quickly gave herself a once over in the mirror, ran her fingers through her thick, wavy blonde hair, and left the room. "Jamie, lets go!"

Jamie came, tripping over his own feet, his goofy smile making Aria laugh. "Come on buddy, we cant miss the bus. Nathan, we'll meet you outside," she said before walking out the front door.

Nathan quickly joined Aria and Jamie at the bus corner, and the three of them boarded, and left for school. A few stops later, Jamie gave his sister a hug, got off the buss, and headed for Mrs. Albony's second grade class.

As always, Aria watched him go until she couldnt see him anymore. As the bus pulled in front of her school, she kissed Nathan on the forehead, and walked to first period English.

A tiny, petite red-head jumped in front of Aria, grabbing her wrists "Okay, loving the scarf, but the jeans are so not flattering. You're curvy, so drop the Walmart jeans, and wear something to show it. Oh, and the top, totally brings out your baby blue eyes."

"Mariah, now that you are don't insulting my pants, can we go and sit?"

"Fine. But your *** still looks bad." Mariah said before winking, and dancing to her seat. Aria laughed, and sat in her desk.

A large, grey haired woman entered the classroom. "Alright class, today we will have an assignment. You will all be pared with someone-" she was quickly cut off by the conversations of teenagers, as they began to partner up.

Aria quickly looked at Mariah, and they locked eyes. Mariah mouthed "easy A". Mrs. Henry slammed her hands on her desk, regaining order to her classroom. "You will be assigned partners," she stressed the word assigned. Each student groaned as if their dreams had just been crushed.

Mrs. Henry smiled, "Okay, each group will be assigned a fairy tale, and research the story. You will each write a six page report about the story, and present the report to the class, retelling the tale in your own words." The teacher snatched the clipboard off her desk, and began to read the names of the partners. Aria listened for her's and Mariah's names. "Aria Capener and Peter Bellson, your story will be peter pan, Mariah Lynn, you are with Cassandra Meyer, and you will research Hansel and Gretel."

Aria sighed heavily, and felt her A walk out. After Mrs. Henry finished the list, she smiled "The next thirty or so minutes will be with your partner, discussing your story. I want to hear nothing else besides fairy tales." Mrs. Henry sat at her desk, pulled out a book, and began to read.

Aria sunk deeper into her seat, and hoped to be ignored. A sudden tap on her shoulder told her she wasn't going to be so lucky. "Hey Darling, so your my partner, lucky you." A shaggy blonde boy slid onto her desk, his deep blue eyes stared at her.

Aria laughed "Wow, cocky, lucky me. So if you don't mind, I would appreciate it if you got the heck off my desk, and we get this project done as soon as possible."

He flashed her a sexy grin "But if we get this done so quickly, how will I get to know you?"

"You don't. Now, Peter Pan, perfect. A story about a young, insecure, smart-alec who was incredibly selfish, and a bratty attitude. Great." Aria mumbled.

Peter stared at her "I don't know, he seems deeper than that. His family forgot about him, he needed to escape. Which is what he found in neverland."

"But that doesn't excuse the fact that boy has a serious attitude problem. The whole story is silly, I mean fairies, and mermaids, and pirates. Its all goofy bedtime stories."

"Not always, the story is about enjoying your childhood, and not trying to grow up so quickly."

Aria stared at him "yeah well sometimes your forced to grow up early."

"What do you mean Darling?" he asked her.

She quickly looked away, "Nothing. Lets just figure out what we already know about the tale, and start from there. And stop calling me Darling!"

He laughed, "Whatever you say."

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Mariah, now that you are don't insulting my pants...
Mariah, now that you are(done) insulting my pants...
The story is interesting.
?A young adult story?
The part where the assignment is odd?
Why will teacher choose odd assignment?
It is interesting enough. Your story reminds me of The Hunger games. The innocents of the characters.
Good luck!

What do you think of the start of my book?

Belle

"Jamie, where is your shoe?" Aria asked her younger brother. He shrugged, and ran off into the kitchen to look there. Aria grumbled, mumbling something about him always losing his things.

Nathan, Aria's foster brother, walked into her bedroom, "I found it, it was in the bookcase. That kid really needs to have his shoes taped to his feet."

Aria laughed, "I have a feeling he would find a way to lose them anyway. Hey, where's Lisa?"

"I think she's with Jamie, in the kitchen."

Aria nodded,"Hurry up, we can't be late to school again," she said as she grabbed Nathan's backpack.
She quickly gave herself a once over in the mirror, ran her fingers through her thick, wavy blonde hair, and left the room. "Jamie, lets go!"

Jamie came, tripping over his own feet, his goofy smile making Aria laugh. "Come on buddy, we cant miss the bus. Nathan, we'll meet you outside," she said before walking out the front door.

Nathan quickly joined Aria and Jamie at the bus corner, and the three of them boarded, and left for school. A few stops later, Jamie gave his sister a hug, got off the buss, and headed for Mrs. Albony's second grade class.

As always, Aria watched him go until she couldnt see him anymore. As the bus pulled in front of her school, she kissed Nathan on the forehead, and walked to first period English.

A tiny, petite red-head jumped in front of Aria, grabbing her wrists "Okay, loving the scarf, but the jeans are so not flattering. You're curvy, so drop the Walmart jeans, and wear something to show it. Oh, and the top, totally brings out your baby blue eyes."

"Mariah, now that you are don't insulting my pants, can we go and sit?"

"Fine. But your *** still looks bad." Mariah said before winking, and dancing to her seat. Aria laughed, and sat in her desk.

A large, grey haired woman entered the classroom. "Alright class, today we will have an assignment. You will all be pared with someone-" she was quickly cut off by the conversations of teenagers, as they began to partner up.

Aria quickly looked at Mariah, and they locked eyes. Mariah mouthed "easy A". Mrs. Henry slammed her hands on her desk, regaining order to her classroom. "You will be assigned partners," she stressed the word assigned. Each student groaned as if their dreams had just been crushed.

Mrs. Henry smiled, "Okay, each group will be assigned a fairy tale, and research the story. You will each write a six page report about the story, and present the report to the class, retelling the tale in your own words." The teacher snatched the clipboard off her desk, and began to read the names of the partners. Aria listened for her's and Mariah's names. "Aria Capener and Peter Bellson, your story will be peter pan, Mariah Lynn, you are with Cassandra Meyer, and you will research Hansel and Gretel."

Aria sighed heavily, and felt her A walk out. After Mrs. Henry finished the list, she smiled "The next thirty or so minutes will be with your partner, discussing your story. I want to hear nothing else besides fairy tales." Mrs. Henry sat at her desk, pulled out a book, and began to read.

Aria sunk deeper into her seat, and hoped to be ignored. A sudden tap on her shoulder told her she wasn't going to be so lucky. "Hey Darling, so your my partner, lucky you." A shaggy blonde boy slid onto her desk, his deep blue eyes stared at her.

Aria laughed "Wow, cocky, lucky me. So if you don't mind, I would appreciate it if you got the heck off my desk, and we get this project done as soon as possible."

He flashed her a sexy grin "But if we get this done so quickly, how will I get to know you?"

"You don't. Now, Peter Pan, perfect. A story about a young, insecure, smart-alec who was incredibly selfish, and a bratty attitude. Great." Aria mumbled.

Peter stared at her "I don't know, he seems deeper than that. His family forgot about him, he needed to escape. Which is what he found in neverland."

"But that doesn't excuse the fact that boy has a serious attitude problem. The whole story is silly, I mean fairies, and mermaids, and pirates. Its all goofy bedtime stories."

"Not always, the story is about enjoying your childhood, and not trying to grow up so quickly."

Aria stared at him "yeah well sometimes your forced to grow up early."

"What do you mean Darling?" he asked her.

She quickly looked away, "Nothing. Lets just figure out what we already know about the tale, and start from there. And stop calling me Darling!"

He laughed, "Whatever you say."

Answer
I really like it, I think it's a good start. I noticed you spelled bus wrong once and I think you put don't instead of done too. Just thought I'd let you know :)

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What do you think of the start of my book? THANK YOU :)?

Belle

"Jamie, where is your shoe?" Aria asked her younger brother. He shrugged, and ran off into the kitchen to look there. Aria grumbled, mumbling something about him always losing his things.

Nathan, Aria's foster brother, walked into her bedroom, "I found it, it was in the bookcase. That kid really needs to have his shoes taped to his feet."

Aria laughed, "I have a feeling he would find a way to lose them anyway. Hey, where's Lisa?"

"I think she's with Jamie, in the kitchen."

Aria nodded,"Hurry up, we can't be late to school again," she said as she grabbed Nathan's backpack.
She quickly gave herself a once over in the mirror, ran her fingers through her thick, wavy blonde hair, and left the room. "Jamie, lets go!"

Jamie came, tripping over his own feet, his goofy smile making Aria laugh. "Come on buddy, we cant miss the bus. Nathan, we'll meet you outside," she said before walking out the front door.

Nathan quickly joined Aria and Jamie at the bus corner, and the three of them boarded, and left for school. A few stops later, Jamie gave his sister a hug, got off the buss, and headed for Mrs. Albony's second grade class.

As always, Aria watched him go until she couldnt see him anymore. As the bus pulled in front of her school, she kissed Nathan on the forehead, and walked to first period English.

A tiny, petite red-head jumped in front of Aria, grabbing her wrists "Okay, loving the scarf, but the jeans are so not flattering. You're curvy, so drop the Walmart jeans, and wear something to show it. Oh, and the top, totally brings out your baby blue eyes."

"Mariah, now that you are don't insulting my pants, can we go and sit?"

"Fine. But your *** still looks bad." Mariah said before winking, and dancing to her seat. Aria laughed, and sat in her desk.

A large, grey haired woman entered the classroom. "Alright class, today we will have an assignment. You will all be pared with someone-" she was quickly cut off by the conversations of teenagers, as they began to partner up.

Aria quickly looked at Mariah, and they locked eyes. Mariah mouthed "easy A". Mrs. Henry slammed her hands on her desk, regaining order to her classroom. "You will be assigned partners," she stressed the word assigned. Each student groaned as if their dreams had just been crushed.

Mrs. Henry smiled, "Okay, each group will be assigned a fairy tale, and research the story. You will each write a six page report about the story, and present the report to the class, retelling the tale in your own words." The teacher snatched the clipboard off her desk, and began to read the names of the partners. Aria listened for her's and Mariah's names. "Aria Capener and Peter Bellson, your story will be peter pan, Mariah Lynn, you are with Cassandra Meyer, and you will research Hansel and Gretel."

Aria sighed heavily, and felt her A walk out. After Mrs. Henry finished the list, she smiled "The next thirty or so minutes will be with your partner, discussing your story. I want to hear nothing else besides fairy tales." Mrs. Henry sat at her desk, pulled out a book, and began to read.

Aria sunk deeper into her seat, and hoped to be ignored. A sudden tap on her shoulder told her she wasn't going to be so lucky. "Hey Darling, so your my partner, lucky you." A shaggy blonde boy slid onto her desk, his deep blue eyes stared at her.

Aria laughed "Wow, cocky, lucky me. So if you don't mind, I would appreciate it if you got the heck off my desk, and we get this project done as soon as possible."

He flashed her a sexy grin "But if we get this done so quickly, how will I get to know you?"

"You don't. Now, Peter Pan, perfect. A story about a young, insecure, smart-alec who was incredibly selfish, and a bratty attitude. Great." Aria mumbled.

Peter stared at her "I don't know, he seems deeper than that. His family forgot about him, he needed to escape. Which is what he found in neverland."

"But that doesn't excuse the fact that boy has a serious attitude problem. The whole story is silly, I mean fairies, and mermaids, and pirates. Its all goofy bedtime stories."

"Not always, the story is about enjoying your childhood, and not trying to grow up so quickly."

Aria stared at him "yeah well sometimes your forced to grow up early."

"What do you mean Darling?" he asked her.

She quickly looked away, "Nothing. Lets just figure out what we already know about the tale, and start from there. And stop calling me Darling!"

He laughed, "Whatever you say."

Answer
I LOVE Peter Pan! I'm not really sure if this is a Peter Pan story or not (it seemed like that to me, being that Peter Pan is the story they are assigned and the guy's name HAPPENS to be Peter). Either way it seems pretty interesting and if this was a regular story I was reading online I would definitely go on to the next chapter. :) Do tell me whereI can read/get it when you're done??

What do you think of the start of my book? THANK YOU :)?

Belle

"Jamie, where is your shoe?" Aria asked her younger brother. He shrugged, and ran off into the kitchen to look there. Aria grumbled, mumbling something about him always losing his things.

Nathan, Aria's foster brother, walked into her bedroom, "I found it, it was in the bookcase. That kid really needs to have his shoes taped to his feet."

Aria laughed, "I have a feeling he would find a way to lose them anyway. Hey, where's Lisa?"

"I think she's with Jamie, in the kitchen."

Aria nodded,"Hurry up, we can't be late to school again," she said as she grabbed Nathan's backpack.
She quickly gave herself a once over in the mirror, ran her fingers through her thick, wavy blonde hair, and left the room. "Jamie, lets go!"

Jamie came, tripping over his own feet, his goofy smile making Aria laugh. "Come on buddy, we cant miss the bus. Nathan, we'll meet you outside," she said before walking out the front door.

Nathan quickly joined Aria and Jamie at the bus corner, and the three of them boarded, and left for school. A few stops later, Jamie gave his sister a hug, got off the buss, and headed for Mrs. Albony's second grade class.

As always, Aria watched him go until she couldnt see him anymore. As the bus pulled in front of her school, she kissed Nathan on the forehead, and walked to first period English.

A tiny, petite red-head jumped in front of Aria, grabbing her wrists "Okay, loving the scarf, but the jeans are so not flattering. You're curvy, so drop the Walmart jeans, and wear something to show it. Oh, and the top, totally brings out your baby blue eyes."

"Mariah, now that you are don't insulting my pants, can we go and sit?"

"Fine. But your *** still looks bad." Mariah said before winking, and dancing to her seat. Aria laughed, and sat in her desk.

A large, grey haired woman entered the classroom. "Alright class, today we will have an assignment. You will all be pared with someone-" she was quickly cut off by the conversations of teenagers, as they began to partner up.

Aria quickly looked at Mariah, and they locked eyes. Mariah mouthed "easy A". Mrs. Henry slammed her hands on her desk, regaining order to her classroom. "You will be assigned partners," she stressed the word assigned. Each student groaned as if their dreams had just been crushed.

Mrs. Henry smiled, "Okay, each group will be assigned a fairy tale, and research the story. You will each write a six page report about the story, and present the report to the class, retelling the tale in your own words." The teacher snatched the clipboard off her desk, and began to read the names of the partners. Aria listened for her's and Mariah's names. "Aria Capener and Peter Bellson, your story will be peter pan, Mariah Lynn, you are with Cassandra Meyer, and you will research Hansel and Gretel."

Aria sighed heavily, and felt her A walk out. After Mrs. Henry finished the list, she smiled "The next thirty or so minutes will be with your partner, discussing your story. I want to hear nothing else besides fairy tales." Mrs. Henry sat at her desk, pulled out a book, and began to read.

Aria sunk deeper into her seat, and hoped to be ignored. A sudden tap on her shoulder told her she wasn't going to be so lucky. "Hey Darling, so your my partner, lucky you." A shaggy blonde boy slid onto her desk, his deep blue eyes stared at her.

Aria laughed "Wow, cocky, lucky me. So if you don't mind, I would appreciate it if you got the heck off my desk, and we get this project done as soon as possible."

He flashed her a sexy grin "But if we get this done so quickly, how will I get to know you?"

"You don't. Now, Peter Pan, perfect. A story about a young, insecure, smart-alec who was incredibly selfish, and a bratty attitude. Great." Aria mumbled.

Peter stared at her "I don't know, he seems deeper than that. His family forgot about him, he needed to escape. Which is what he found in neverland."

"But that doesn't excuse the fact that boy has a serious attitude problem. The whole story is silly, I mean fairies, and mermaids, and pirates. Its all goofy bedtime stories."

"Not always, the story is about enjoying your childhood, and not trying to grow up so quickly."

Aria stared at him "yeah well sometimes your forced to grow up early."

"What do you mean Darling?" he asked her.

She quickly looked away, "Nothing. Lets just figure out what we already know about the tale, and start from there. And stop calling me Darling!"

He laughed, "Whatever you say."

Answer
Mariah, now that you are don't insulting my pants...
Mariah, now that you are(done) insulting my pants...
The story is interesting.
?A young adult story?
The part where the assignment is odd?
Why will teacher choose odd assignment?
It is interesting enough. Your story reminds me of The Hunger games. The innocents of the characters.
Good luck!

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Your new baby shopping list?

Jamaican P

What does your new baby shopping list look like? Include books too

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Baby Gear
Stroller
Soft carrier
Backpack carrier
Rear-facing car seat
Portable crib
Playpen
Stroller cup holder
Car seat head support
Travel booster seat
Sunshade
Bouncer seat
Swing
Rattles
Gym or play mat
Jumper
Mobile for nursery

Nursery
Crib or bassinet
Waterproof crib liner
Crib mattress
Mattress pad (2)
Fitted sheets
Crib bedding set
Crib blankets
Crib lights
Receiving blankets
Changing table
Changing pads
Rocking chair or gliding rocker
Ottoman or nursing stool
Hamper
Nursery monitor
Mobile

Safety
Baby monitor
Safety gate
Nightlights
Carbon monoxide detector
Outlet covers
Corner covers
Doorknob covers
Cabinet locks
Toilet seat locks
Baby harness
Fireplace cover

Diapering
Diapers
Diaper bag
Diaper pail and liners
Rash ointment and powders
Wipes
Travel pack wipes

Clothing/Layette (for newborn to 6 months)
Pullover T-shirts
Side-snap T-shirts
Bodysuits
Sleeping gowns or stretchies
Footed rompers
Top and pant sets
Mittens
Blankets
Baby laundry detergent
Lightweight cotton sweaters
Booties and socks
Shoes (2 pairs)
Snowsuit
Warm hats
Baby hangers

Bath
Infant tub
Tub splash seat
Baby wash
Baby lotion
Baby oil
Baby shampoo
Bath toys
Tub toy pouch

Feeding
Plastic bottles
(4 and 8 oz.), nipples
and nipple covers
Bottle sterilizer
Bottle liners
Breast pads, shields and cream
Nursing bras (4)
Nursing shirts (2)
Breast pump kit
Lap pads and burp cloths
Nursing pillow
Case(s) of formula
Bibs (6-10)
Teethers
Feeding spoons (4)
Training (spill-proof)
cups (3-4)
High chair
Pacifiers
Dishwasher-safe nipples
Bottle drying rack
Bowls
Bottle brush
Bottle warmer
High chair splat mat
Dishwasher nipple basket
Travel formula dispenser
Milk storage bags
Gas relief drops

Hope this helps!! :))

Best Baby/Infant carrier for pluz size parent?

Sam's mom

Looking at a hiking-style framed backpack for when we go to Disneyworld in March. Have seen a few on Amazon (we live in Dubai), however, don't know how much 'give' the waist belt etc. has and neither of us are on the small side! H wears a XXXL tee, so is concerned that it will not fit. Any advice from those with experience in this area (unfortunately diet is not an option as there isn't long enough!).

Answer
I'm very plus sized. I have a sling...an "over the shoulder baby holder" to be exact. Very comfortable. You can order them online. To be more comfortable you should get the custom made size. I just got the Long one instead of the custom size and my sling could actually be bigger to fit me better but it still works and isn't uncomfortable (I wear a XXXL). there are tons of other brands out there too. I like slings so much better than carriers or backpacks (had both). You can sit the baby up, you can lay the baby down, The baby can face forward (just cross their legs indian style inside the sling), the baby can face your chest (let the legs dangle out), you can hold the baby on your hip, you can put the baby on your back...all with the same sling...and it can be used on toddlers too.

But, to be honest, you'd be much more comfortable using a rental stroller at the park than a carrier. I just looked it up...stroller rentals at Disney World are $10 a day for single passenger and $18 per day for double passenger strollers. You get a discount if you need to rent a stroller for more than one day. The rentals I have seen at parks are usually roomy and have a place to hold water bottles in the back for parents. You'd probably have to place the diaper bag in the stroller. The ones I saw at Six Flags looked different than traditional strollers....they were oval in shape, wide, low to the ground, with sides and a top and had bottle/cup holders in the back under the push handle. Not sure what Disney's strollers look like. Have fun.

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