Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Guys please help me Because I'm feeling really crappy right now!!?




Nacho Much


I know how this might sound (by me being a teenager and all) but my mom is ruining my life. I know that lots of teenage girls say this but she really is ruining my life. 7 Years ago she met my stepdad and she snuck off and married him without me knowing, then she got pregnant and didn't decide to tell me about it until she was 5 months...I know that some people might think that it was none of my business but my mom and I were very close and we told each other everything. Well fast forward a few years she is madly in love with my stepdad and she is kinda like his slave...she did everything for him and he did nothing...he barely helps us do anything like taking care of my little sister (which I have practically raised her) or helping us clean up... my mom wanted me to just kiss his butt...then he started doing music with his friends and then he convinces her that he's gonna get this record deal...so of course my mom goes along with it (I didn't and I tried to warn her) so she packs us up and moves us down to Atlanta...now he is flat broke and all of his so called "musically talented" friends hate him and they all left him...so now I'm 17 stuck in a place that I don't wanna be, no car, no money, no friends (like I had before), I get harassed at this school down here...(I was handcuffed for not letting a guy at my school take my backpack and rip it) and now the same guy is harassing me every day...I really blame my mom for how my life is now but I don't want to hurt her feelings...I mean my cousin who's the same age as me had a baby at 14 and even she's living happier and doing more of the things that I wanna do. I just feel so depressed and I feel its my mom's fault...I mean she's let this random guy just come in and put my life on hold...I'm so confused and I think I'm losing my mind by being stuck in the house all the time with nothing to do but "study"...what advice can anyone give me for my situation?
Please no mean or rude comments...and I can't get therapy or counseling



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It took me almost 35 years to figure out how to answer this question. When you wake up every morning, you have two choices. You choice to either be happy or sad. I now chose to be happy.

People sense your unhappiness at school. Start walking around with a smile on your face and see how many new friends you will have.

As a parent, there is NOTHING that I would do to purposefully hurt or make my children unhappy. I believe that your mom is the same. A honest discussion with your mom about your situation is needed. Please make a list to help you with your discussion points. Prioritize what you want to talk about. Maybe only talk to her about the top two priorities. Try to keep blame to a minimum.

Best of luck.




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Suggestions for a baby/toddler backpack?




Silly Momm


My husband and I are planning on doing some camping/backpacking once the weather warms up (it's still snowing where we live and we're beginning to wonder what Spring is) and we are in need of a baby/toddler backpack. My son is 10 months old and weighs in at a nice, healthy 35 pounds so an INFANT carrier is out of the question. He is much to heavy for those. I am referring to the ones with a large frame that carry ~50 pounds or more. I have no idea what names are good and reliable and research I've done hasn't turned up very good answers. Anyone with a suggestion, please let me hear it! Thanks!


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We have a Kelty Kids backpack. It is wonderful. It is quite comfortable to wear, easy to put on and my son loves being in it (he's 14 months and around 25-30lbs). We camp and it is a lifesaver --- we bought it to use in place of our Ergo carrier on long hikes/camping.

It is like this one:
http://www.kelty.com/p-283-fc-10.aspx


We managed to find a gently used one on craiglist for about half of the new price.

Carrying my baby on my back?




Beth


Now that fall is on the way, the older kids and I want to be out hiking. It's pretty hard to get a stroller through the woods, so I would like to know if using a product that holds my baby on my back is a good idea. I've never had one- lol- I don't even know what they are called!!! So here's my questions:

- Up to what age/size can I use one? (my son is almost 17 months)
- Is there a specific type or brand you would recommend?
- Is my back going to hurt like heck after using one?
- Is front facing or back facing better or worse?

Also- I seen a woman at the zoo whose baby appeared to be tied to her back with what looked to be something like a super long scarf. I'm guessing this might be something from another culture, but I'm not sure. If you know anything about how other cultures carry their babies, that could be some useful Information too.

Thanks in advance!



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google "baby wraps. maya wrap is just one of many. There are also backpacks that are a little sturdier.

Have fun!




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Monday, June 23, 2014

I need some advice on traveling overseas with my quadruplets?

Q. I have two year old quadruplets and I'm going to take them on a trip for a couple months to visit my parents and other family members who live overseas. We're flying from Seattle to Tel Aviv (Israel). My husband will be with us on the flights there but I'm worried about how we're going to handle four two year olds on such a long flight. I've never taken them on an airplane at all before. I really don't want them to get out of hand on the airplanes and disrupt the other passangers. They are sweet girls but they can be active and are not used to sitting in one place for so long so I'm not sure how this will go and I'm a little nervous. Do any of you have any suggestions on ways to keep my girls occupied/entertained and quiet for several hours at a time?.....They do like some movies but then again they get disinterested after awhile


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Whoa! That's very brave of you. Mazel Tov on your multiple blessings. You've dive bombed into parenthood but bravo for not letting it keep you at home!

Actually, strictly speaking, you're in better shape than I am. I fly between Europe and California about twice a year alone with my three kids, since each was 4 months old. If there are two of you, that makes two children per adult, vs. my three, but the difference is that I had mine one at a time, pretty closely spaced but still...

As a Flight Attendant, I saw many parents flying alone with multiples or closely spaced siblings over my 13 years. It can be done! Just be really prepared.

I assume you have the passports sorted out already. Get some books on flying. Go get some at the library and talk to them about it.

The scariest part for kids is not the planes but security. I usually found both with my kids and my little passengers loved the actual flying part but the security, especially now and especially with Israel, can be intimidating. Here's the TSA's page on this subject;
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/index.shtm

Talk them through this process and warn them that they might have to take their shoes off (perhaps choose footwear with this in mind on the day). Tell them that the people might talk to you for awhile and that they should be good.

I'm not sure how you want to organize the gear but I would actually recommend taking two single strollers and two baby carriers of some sort (back pack, Ergo, something like that). Toddlers tend to change their minds a lot so you'd have the option of letting them walk, ride and then have the back carriers if you really need them. These fold up tight and are easy to bring. A twin mom at our school finds her Ergo super-useful.

I also recommend backpack style carry-ons. Look for ones you can carry sippy cups or bottles easily in (I recommend getting all off bottles, if you haven't already, before leaving).

Practice how to haul the gear at home first, on the porch or in the garage before leaving.

I usually heavily recommend using car seats onboard but with four children, this might not be too practical. Can you arrange car seats in Israel through relatives? I don't recommend using any from car rental companies. I had a bad experience and I'm not alone.

What you might want to do is get these;
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/

They're kind of expensive at $75 but I've seen them rented on Ebay. I would say that for such a big trip, the expense might be jusified in your case and then sell them yourself on Ebay when your daughters outgrow them.

Just some other odd tips;
-Try to sit in the "bulkhead" seats, those with a wall in front.
-Bring about 1/3 more diapers than you think you'll need...at least! Put them in plastic bags, make at least two "packages" and wrap them with rubber bands to pack them more easily.
-Learn to change them standing up. Practice at home first! This will make it easier and faster, plus, you wont have to search around for baby changers. Toddlers hate to lie down in strange places and I use the handicapped lavs instead.
-Bring changes of clothes, even an extra T-shirt for you. Do the same trick with the plastic bags and rubber bands to save space in your bag.
-Bring a lot of snacks. Don't worry about security. If it's not allowed, they simply take it from you. I've never had this happen.
-Bring empty sippy cups to use onboard, or empty them before security.
-If any of them still use bottles, bring the kind with disposable liners. Airplanes have bad sinks for washing bottles.
-Make sure the bottles don't have to be warmed. It's not necessary and pain to do while travelling in general.
-Consider ordering special meals. Kids usually hate the standard fare. Kosher (what we order although we're not that religious) is pretty kid-friendly.
-Bring a bungee cord for each stroller and double secure them before handing them over at the door of the aircraft.
-Have each carry a backpack and let them pick their favorite toys and stuffed animals to put in them. Edit what they bring for security and practical reasons.
-Bring brand new toys to surprise them with onboard. These keep them occupied. They don't have to be expensive.
-If you opt to use a portable DVD player, make sure they're used to wearing the earphones, or can watch it without sound. Get a DVD player with at least 5 hours play time. Learn to turn the screen light down to save battery life and bring the recharger and appropriate converter to recharge on your layover.
-Coloring stuff keeps them occupied for ages. Stickers are usually winners too.

You can get up and move around during the flight but please try to do so after the meal service. Always keep an eye on them. Those carts are heavy and are just above a toddler's head. We simply couldn't see them so please be careful. If turbulence hits while you're up, don't return to your seat unless it's safe and close enough to do so. If it's really rough, consider sitting on the floor! Same with the restroom (ugh! but better that than injured).

Many flying tips say to make the child suck on something or drink during take-off and landing. This isn't accurate. ENT specialists say to have the child awake about an hour before landing (top of descent, landing or touch-down is too late). I can confirm that is when I saw problems at work. Take your children to the doctor in the last few days before you fly to make sure their ears are clear and infection-free. Heathy ears can handle pressurization changes.

If any of your girls fall asleep during take-off, there is no reason to wake them. Please don't worry!

About eight years ago I wrote an article for a local expat newsletter. This is entirely non-commercial information and I have both the practical and professional experience of working on board airplanes and have been to Israel six times, but unfortunately, all pre-babies. An ex-coworker works at the new Ben Gurion and says it's great so I hope that makes your arrival easier.

http://flyingwithchildren.blogspot.com

My contact info is at the back and just get a lot of sleep the night before!

Good luck.

neeed help for bio proejct idea?!?!?




Ryannn3434


I got assigned a project for bio in which you need to find a some special characteristic an animal has and someone make it into some device we humans can use. Some examples are:
~Penguin Feathers:Jacket insulation in military uniforms
~Velcro:Original design derived from burrs sticking to clothes
~Mosquito mouth:Use as tip in needle so needles are painless.

I have NO idea what to do. does anyone have any good ideas????



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"A wonderful bird is a pelican,
His bill will hold more than his belican."

Here's a good one for you--think of the pelican's beak, which stretches to whatever size is needed as it scoops up water and fish.

So...if you're packing to go on a trip, how about a soft rubbery suitcase that expands to fit the stuff you want to take--or the souvenirs you want to bring back!

Or a backpack--on days when homework is light, it's fairly small but when you've got tons of it, the backpack stretches to hold all your extra books.

Or shopping bags that stretch.

Or strollers and baby carriers that stretch to accommodate twins, but shrink when the next kid's a loner.

You could take the comparison a step further: pelican beaks expand as they take a gulf of water and fish, and then they act as a strainer, so the water drains out and the fish remain.

How about a stretchy colander or strainer to use in the kitchen--it stretches out pretty large as you strain pasta for 8, but stays small if you're draining a small amount.

Hope that works for you!




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At what age can a baby use....?




BEC


A bike seat??

I want to start riding my bike with my daughter...she is 9.5 months...is she old enough? Or is should I wait? What age is ok?



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At an absolute bare minimum the child has to be able to wear a bike helmet, which means their neck must be strong enough to support the weight. That happens at about 1 year of age and parents are advised to discuss it with their pediatrician -though I do not actually believe that pediatricians or family doctors have *any* training in this.

In some places (NY for example) it is the law that no child under age 1 be attached to a bike in any way.

http://www.bhsi.org/little1s.htm
Nobody we have met in the injury prevention field recommends taking an infant of less than 12 months in a bicycle child seat, trailer, sidecar or any other carrier. Nobody. And we do not either.
New York state law prohibits it. The US Consumer Product Safety Commission thinks it is dangerous to take a child under one year on a bicycle, and here is their rationale:

Maurice Keenan, MD, from the American Academy of Pediatrics [21], requested that a minimum age of 1 year be reflected on the label for helmets intended for children under age 5. This would better convey the message that infants (children under age 1) should not be passengers on a bicycle under any circumstance.

The Commission agrees with the commenter that children under 1 year of age should not be on bicycles. Children are just learning to sit unsupported at about 9 months of age. Until this age, infants have not developed sufficient bone mass and muscle tone to enable them to sit unsupported with their backs straight. Pediatricians advise against having infants sitting in a slumped or curled position for prolonged periods. This position may even be exacerbated by the added weight of a bicycle helmet on the infantâs head. Because pediatricians recommend against having children under age 1 as passengers on bicycles, the Commission does not want the certification label to imply that children under age 1 can ride safely.

Source: 16 CFR Part 1203 Safety Standard for Bicycle Helmets; Final Rule, page 11726

That explains why you will not find a child helmet on the market sized for a tiny tot. You certainly do not want to ride with a bare-headed child, and in some places it is illegal. In fact, several states have laws against taking children under one year of age on a bicycle, even with a helmet.

Parents love their babies and love their bicycles, so it is natural to want to put the two together. That thought occurs to every bicycling parent, generally before the child is born. We see messages on the Internet indicating that some parents do put their children in baby seats of one design or another and take them along on trailers starting as young as five weeks. Others use a baby backpack. At slightly older ages, people use front or rear-mounted child seats. A few (mostly in the UK) use sidecars. Each has its advantages and disadvantages. A disclaimer: our purpose here is to highlight the risks. We are hearing more now about undiagnosed brain injuries, with symptoms too subtle for doctors to detect in a clinical setting, but very real to families. And that comes to mind whenever someone asks us about babies and biking. We worry about your six-week-old entering the first grade six years from now with a small but detectable mental handicap. That is alarmist; this is an alarmist page!

For an official US Government view, we have excerpts from the Consumer Product Safety Commission's age-related guidelines for ride-on toys.

At which age did you start to carry baby on your back?




LGM


My little daughter is three months, two weeks old. She can hold up her head pretty well, but can't sit yet, of course. I have an ergo-baby carrier and a sling. However, both seemed to be laid out to carry a baby her age in front, rather than on the back. At which age would it be safe for baby to be carried on my back?


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I used a sling with my son, using different positions at different ages, according to what was comfortable at the time. I eventually bought a different backpack carrier when he really seemed to outgrow the sling. In our case, he was about a year old when I finally started using the backpack regularly. He was small for his age though, so that made front carrying possible for longer than most!

It depends on your carrier, but some front carriers and most back carriers recommend the baby be around 6 months old for the sake of spinal development. Slings tend to be better for young babies because they hold the babies in more natural positions. Young babies prefer to be curled up with their entire body supported, rather than stretched out or in a position with their legs dangling. Back carriers are generally better for older babies who are stable sitting on their own.




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Need review for the baby items...?




truecolor


Hi all...I am in my third trimester. I am going to register baby items at Babies r us this weekend. This is my first baby and I am not sure which items and brands should I pick is safe and comfortble for my baby and pricewise reasonable too. Please give me the review about the baby items and items I do need must. Thank you all.
Thank you all ....for sparing your precious time and giving me lots of information in detail. I am new in this country and first time mom. So, not much idea how to choose the right baby items. But your patience and support helped me alot to select the right things for my baby too instead of wasting money. I am going to print out all those information and check out those items in the store. Once again thank you.



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I highly suggest taking a (relatively) new mom with you to register. My sister (who had a 2 year old at the time) went with me to register and she was a HUGE Help.

Here are a few suggestions.

There has been a lot of press recently about car seats so I'm sure you can google which ones are safest. The one that sticks in my head (b/c it's the one we have) is Graco Snug and ride. I would recomend getting a Snap and Go base so that you can turn the carseat into a stoller.

The crib is totally a matter of taste. We chose the Da Vinci Roxanne because I liked that it could transition into a toddler bed and I liked that it had a drawer under it.

If you get a changing table, make sure it has safety straps (so that baby can't roll off it). We choose the Da Vinci Roxanne changing table dresser combo.

Actually.... I still have my list that has prices and brands that I wanted. I can paste it here -- sorry.... it's going to be long.

Furniture
â Crib â (Da Vinci Roxanne with drawer and conversion kit) $260
â Mattress for Crib â
â Fitted sheets for crib (jersey knit) â 2-3 $10 each
â Ultimate Crib Sheet 2-3 (an all-in-one waterproof mattress protector/cover/sheet) $18 each
â Waterproof mattress pad/lap pad â 2-3 $10-20 each
â Dresser/ Changing table combo (Da Vinci Roxanne 3 drawer Baby Changer with safety strap) $240
â Changing pad & pad covers â 3 covers $10-15 each cover/$23 for pad
â Glider chair (Storkcraft sleigh glider â Cherry wood/beige cushion) $199
â Ottoman for glider (storkcraft) $70
â Hanging bookshelf (idea to hand shelf 12â to 18â below the ceiling around room to add lots of display and storage space)

Room Accessories
â Crib mobile (electric â the wind up ones stop to fast) Be careful what you pick out b/c all mobiles will not work with Da Vinci crib $40-$50
â Video Monitor (Summer infant Products: Day and Night Video handheld monitor) $170
â Baskets (for odds and ends â blankets, cloths, dirty laundry) $20+

Traveling With Baby
â Infant car seat with detachable base (MoTH recommends Graco Infant Snug-ride) $100 for seat $40 for x-tra base
â Stroller (Car seat stroller frame) with zip up blanket(???) MoTH recommends Snap and Go frame for stroller $60
â MoTH also recommends Bugaboo Frog â too expensive
â Baby jogger (MoTH recommends City Series â yikes expensive)
â Front carrier (bjorn - wrap is more comfy)
â Baby back pack (for when baby is older & no longer in bjorn Justine offered hers)
â Pack N Play $100


Playing With Baby
â Activity gym $40
â Bouncy Seat/exercauser (Baby Bjorn Baby Sitter) $100

Clothes
â Onesies â 3 packs $10 per 5-pack
â Long sleeved onesies
â Pjs with feet (zipper is easiest)
â Halo Newborn Sleepsack with swaddling feature $20 OR Swaddleme Fleece Wrap $10
â Sleepsack â 2 $20
â Socks â 6 pairs
â Terry cloth bibs â 3
â Caps for head â 4

Baby Hygiene
â Baby washcloths â 6 >$5
â Baby Bath Pad/chair thing â to put in tub â the baby tubs take up too much space $15
â Baby towels $15
â Baby Manicure set >$5
â Alcohol swabs >$5
â Q-tips >$5
â Cotton balls >$5
â Desitin >$10 ?
â Organizer for changing table $15 + - (Maybe either get a basket or hanging Koala organizer â maybe get both)
â Cloth diapers (for clean-up rags/changing table) â 4 $12 for pack of 12
â Diaper bag/baby sherpa backpack $25+ Look at the Koala Black Messenger back with pink accent/ Eddie Bauer and plain black messenger
â Diapers â donât get too many til know what he likes â we used pampers swadlers
â Vaseline & gauze pads
â Wet wipes
â Baby Tylenol
â Thermometer (rectal) >$10

Nursing and Feeding
â Nursing bras (no underwire) â 4
üBoppy
ü Breast pump (Medela Pump N Style)
â Receiving blankets â 2 $10-15 for a 4-pack
â Nursing pads (100% cotton â machine washable are better than disposable)
â 6 bottles (don't bother with bottle warmer)
â Silicone nipples, infant size â 2
â Pacifiers
â Bottle brush to clean
â Formula (Enfamil; Similac with Iron) -- nice to have on hand even if you plan on breastfeeding
â High chair â get the booster seat with tray that you attach to chair â takes us less space. Also suggested by MoTHs â and all plastic or wood/ NO cloth. $15-$25

Gift registry for 2nd baby (same gender)?




mtgcnv67


It almost doesn't even feel right to have a baby shower for our 2nd baby, because it's another boy. And I can't even seem to think of enough stuff that we would need to justify having one. This one will be born in winter, while our first was born in spring, but it's cold 11 months out of the year up here in the NW, and I feel like the clothes for our first son would be warm enough in December. Our first born has outgrown pretty much all of the stuff we need for the newborn except for a crib. Here's all I can think of:

Crib (contributions towards one)
Mattress for Crib
Double stroller (contributions towards one) <---unsure...are they a hassle?
Diapers
Bigger diaper bag (hopefully one big enough for both of the boys)
Decorations (It feels wrong to take down my 1st son's; his room would be so boring!)
Night bear
2nd Baby Monitor
Clothes (don't need many; maybe just a few sets of warmer clothes in smaller sizes)

Any suggestions of things that I could be forgetting? Anything that you didn't have but wish you did with your babies?
I'm not asking your opinion on whether to have the shower or not...I'm asking for suggestions on a gift registry. Thanks.



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For the diaper bag, you may consider the okkatots backpack http://www.squidoo.com/okkatots-diaper-backpack-bag
but if that is too large you could consider some of the ones reviewed in this page http://www.squidoo.com/diaper-bags-for-twins-diaper-bags-for-two-kids




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Sunday, June 22, 2014

Travelling in Europe with a baby. What gear should I bring?




Mandi


I am going on a winter vacation around Europe for a couple weeks with a baby who will be almost two. I am looking for a stroller that works well on cobblestone, reclines, and is light. My son was born with a brain condition called Hydrocephalus and because of that his head is large and he is behind with his gross motor skills. He probably will still not be walking by this time. I am thinking about bringing a baby hiking backpack for times when we cannot use the stroller.

I would really appreciate advice on this from anyone who has ever travelled in Europe with a baby before! We will be going to about 5 different countries and travelling by metro and plane.



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I think a light stroller is a good idea as it will be easy to fold up if you're in a restaurant or on public transport. If you're flying between countries consider a buggy bag to put it in before the flight.

Not all of Europe is covered in cobblestones(!) and most cities are fairly buggy friendly. If you're coming in winter then have a buggy with a foot muff to keep him warm. A back carrier is also a good idea for busier places or say certain sights like the coliseum where there are steps.

You can buy the other things you need here, nappies etc. Pampers and Huggies are both available across Europe (Pampers are called Dodots in Spain). There are a mix of facilities in terms of baby changing. In the UK and northern Europe, most places have change tables. In some mediteranean countries there can be less facilites in places like restaurants but if you head to big department stores or shopping centres most are well equipped.

If you plan to eat in restaurants, a fabric type fold away change seat is a good idea as some smaller may not have high chairs (most UK places will have high chairs).

good luck and have a great time here.




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i want to go back packing.....advice?




feeling lo


im 43yrs english woman, my kids are grown and out in the world and very happy, but im not, im thinking of going back packing in thailand for a year, im hoping to leave dec 26th this year and just travel the length stopping here and there, im hoping to save £10.000 for my trip, any advice on routes and is my budget enough and any info will be great.


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I lived out of a backpack for 3 years and came to settle down after i fell in love with a scottish girl while working in the highlands of scotland and now we have a baby boy on the way and also due to the fact i got tired. im from New Zealand so it just goes to show how travelling for that long can change your life.

Backpacking for a length of time isnt always easy and it does change you for the better in alot of ways and your family will notice it. It definately has its ups but also downs (my moto crapped out in the middle of nowhere in Laos, the cambodian police threatened us with the death penalty after we were smoking a joint so bribed our way out) but the memories is what counts and its worth every cent because one day you look at photos and laugh. first you adjust to your new surroundings such as climate, language, laws, traditions and the general way of life in a country...especially those in SE Asia and it wont take long to relise how lucky you have it. You learn to only purchase and take what your backpack can carry or if you are willing to replace some old gear. Anything you send home most likely wont make it. Eventually you relise you wear the same clothes alot but get used to it and everything has its place in the pack. Eventually the excitement goes thin, you get home sick and exhausted but making friends or even teaming up with other travellers is essential because one thing is for sure is there are plenty doing the same and its alot more fun going with somone else. Trust me you'll bump into them. Take the trains if you can, dont be afraid to say what needs to be said and start off by staying in one place until you get used to your new environment i.e. nurse that culture shock. As for the protests, i was there during the heat of it, they dont bother you but just stay away from the large groups throwing stuff and the large groups of armed forces lol

10k quid for Thailand alone is alot, even for a year! so you may want to think about seeing Malaysia, Cambodia, Vietnam and Laos while your at it because they are all easy to get to and have amazing sights. As for Thailand I suggest the islands around Phuket such as Ko Phi Phi for a while and relax on the crystal clear beachs having a massge every night (dec will be a busy time) and then check out some hill tribe cultures to the north of Thailand such and Chiang Mai. Be carefull of Scams and if its to good to be true then it probably is. Theres so much i could tell you but one thing you must do is get a travel guide and i cant stress that enough, it will be your bible for the year. Lonely Planet books are great, they have accurate maps (but take a compass), accurate descriptions on guest houses etc and where or how to get to the must see sights and every info you need about the country inc language (but most speak english anyway) Plan what country you want to go to and work the rest out when you get there, because thats the whole joy of backpacking and living on the edge ;)


If your backpacking, make the most and see as much as you can. Stand at the foot of Angkor wot, kayak the mekong, ride the elephants, climb the hills around Sapa Vietnam, walk the streets of Seoul in south korea or pass the golden guardian statue of the batu caves in malaysia etc etc then you'll come home happy with plenty of photos watching t.v one day and saying to yourself "ive been there, theres a small village to the left of that where me and a vietnamese monk had a ciggy over looking the valley during sunset"

Good luck




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