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Trying to figure out how much of this is just 'fluff'. Sorry so much is listed. If its easier you can just copy/paste the list and delete out the entries you didn't use. Also, if you have the time, please list reasons why you used or didn't use certain items. THANK YOU!! You can also add to the list if you feel the need.
Infant car seat
Convertible car seat
Basic stroller
"Snap-on" stroller frame
Jogging stroller
Play yard
Baby backpack
Front carrier
Sling or wrap carrier
Diaper bag
Activity Equipment
Swing
Bouncer/bouncy seat
Activity center
Play mat/gym
Doorway jumper
Crib
Changing table
Glider or rocker
Bassinet
Co-sleeper
Hamper
Coordinated crib bedding set
Mobile
Baby Dresser
Decorations
Baby monitor
Bottles and nipples
Highchair
Utensils
Plates and bowls
Cups and sippy cups
Burp cloths
Bottle brush
Bibs
Electric breast pump
Manual breast pump
Nursing bras
Nursing pillow
Baby towel with hood
Infant bathtub
Tub for older baby
Baby washcloths
Brush and comb
Baby nail clippers
Safety gates
Diaper pail
Diaper pail refills
Pacifiers
Humidifier
Birth announcements
Baby book or scrapbook
Answer
I don't know if I'm an attachment parent or not, but from the very little I know about AP I can safely say that I at least share similar views on most things.
These are things we use regularly, if not daily:
Infant car seat
Play yard (although not so much now that my son has outgrown the bassinet part and isn't quite mobile enough to need it again yet)
Sling or wrap carrier (this has been absolutely invaluable to us, we wouldn't want to live without at least one)
Diaper bag; admittedly a small one, and mostly just for daycare and day long trips
Crib, Bassinet; we used the bassinet for the first four months, after that he moved into the crib
Swing, Bouncer/bouncy seat; we only have a travel swing at home, but he does seem to enjoy the bouncy seat at daycare
Bottles and nipples, Bottle brush; I really wanted to breastfeed but was unable to, plus he needs to take a bottle at daycare while I'm at work
Hamper
Baby towel with hood, Baby washcloths, Infant bathtub; admittedly a regular towel would work just as well, but we got a bunch of hooded towels as gifts
Diaper pail; we use a reusable liner (cloth diapers)
Humidifier; this is really more for us than the baby, we've always had to use one during winter
Safety gates; currently being used mostly for the dogs, but I would consider these essential for any house once the baby is mobile
Pacifiers; we use these on and off, he goes through stages where he really likes them and stages where he won't take them
Baby nail clippers; probably not essential, but I do find them easier to control than regular clippers
Changing table; a lot of people say it's a waste of money, but I use mine every single day and it doubles as storage for diapers, wipes, burp rags, and blankets
Glider or rocker; again, not essential, but I LOVE mine and found it very worth the money (we bought it used for about $40)
Bibs; we didn't use them much until we started solids, but now we go through several a day.
Birth announcements, Baby book or scrapbook, Coordinated crib bedding set, Mobile; these are all just fluff, but they are things I wanted and enjoy anyway. And my son really enjoys "talking" to his mobile. We also have a soft-bristled baby brush that we do use occasionally, but if we suddenly lost it I don't think I'd worry about replacing it.
We don't have a dresser because our nursery is just too small. Instead we either hang his clothes or put them in canvas baskets on shelves in the closet.
We do have a stroller that works with the car seat. But since we have the slings we generally find it easier to use that than fight with the stroller. The sling is more maneuverable (I can go anywhere with it) and takes up no space in the car. I do anticipate using it more when our son is older and when I have more than one child. But for now it's just sitting in his closet.
I don't know if I'm an attachment parent or not, but from the very little I know about AP I can safely say that I at least share similar views on most things.
These are things we use regularly, if not daily:
Infant car seat
Play yard (although not so much now that my son has outgrown the bassinet part and isn't quite mobile enough to need it again yet)
Sling or wrap carrier (this has been absolutely invaluable to us, we wouldn't want to live without at least one)
Diaper bag; admittedly a small one, and mostly just for daycare and day long trips
Crib, Bassinet; we used the bassinet for the first four months, after that he moved into the crib
Swing, Bouncer/bouncy seat; we only have a travel swing at home, but he does seem to enjoy the bouncy seat at daycare
Bottles and nipples, Bottle brush; I really wanted to breastfeed but was unable to, plus he needs to take a bottle at daycare while I'm at work
Hamper
Baby towel with hood, Baby washcloths, Infant bathtub; admittedly a regular towel would work just as well, but we got a bunch of hooded towels as gifts
Diaper pail; we use a reusable liner (cloth diapers)
Humidifier; this is really more for us than the baby, we've always had to use one during winter
Safety gates; currently being used mostly for the dogs, but I would consider these essential for any house once the baby is mobile
Pacifiers; we use these on and off, he goes through stages where he really likes them and stages where he won't take them
Baby nail clippers; probably not essential, but I do find them easier to control than regular clippers
Changing table; a lot of people say it's a waste of money, but I use mine every single day and it doubles as storage for diapers, wipes, burp rags, and blankets
Glider or rocker; again, not essential, but I LOVE mine and found it very worth the money (we bought it used for about $40)
Bibs; we didn't use them much until we started solids, but now we go through several a day.
Birth announcements, Baby book or scrapbook, Coordinated crib bedding set, Mobile; these are all just fluff, but they are things I wanted and enjoy anyway. And my son really enjoys "talking" to his mobile. We also have a soft-bristled baby brush that we do use occasionally, but if we suddenly lost it I don't think I'd worry about replacing it.
We don't have a dresser because our nursery is just too small. Instead we either hang his clothes or put them in canvas baskets on shelves in the closet.
We do have a stroller that works with the car seat. But since we have the slings we generally find it easier to use that than fight with the stroller. The sling is more maneuverable (I can go anywhere with it) and takes up no space in the car. I do anticipate using it more when our son is older and when I have more than one child. But for now it's just sitting in his closet.
what is considered shaking a baby that causes harm?
bubu
I just found out about the Shaking a baby syndrome and how dangerous it is. My question is what is shaking a baby exactly. Sometimes when we try to put my nephew to sleep we hold her walk around and do sort of light shaking movement (like move my arms up and down) to help her sleep. Also, when her dad plays with him, he lays the baby on the bed and grabs his little fit and shakes him from side to side lightly!!! Are these considered shaking...this is really scaring me now,,,b/c we do this quite often and didn't know it causes harm!!!! If it's then Ishould have a talk with my family.
Answer
While to actually cause harm it doesn't have to be violent shaking that is mostly what causes it. Shaking makes the fragile brain bounce back and forth inside the skull and causes bruising, swelling, and bleeding, which can lead to permanent, severe brain damage or death.
What is it?
This is a severe form of head injury caused by violently shaking an infant or child. It usually occurs in children younger than 2 years old, but may be seen in children up to the age of 5. The violent shaking may result in severe injuries to the infant including permanent brain damage or death.
A baby's head is large and heavy in proportion to their body. For this reason, when a baby is dropped or thrown, he will tend to land on his head. There is space between the brain and skull to allow for growth and development. The baby's neck muscles and ligaments are weak and underdeveloped. All of these factors make infants highly vulnerable to whiplash forces.
When an infant or young toddler is shaken, the soft, pliable skull is not yet strong enough to absorb much of the force. The forces are thus transmitted to the brain, which then rebounds against the skull causing bruising of the brain (cerebral contusion), swelling, pressure, and bleeding (intracerebral hemorrhage).
The large veins along the outside of the brain are also vulnerable to tear with these injuries which can lead to further bleeding, swelling, and increased pressure (subdural hematoma). This can easily cause permanent, severe brain damage or death.
Shaking an infant or small child may also cause injuries to the neck and spine. Eye damage is very common and may result in loss of vision (retinal hemorrhage).
What causes it?
Shaken Baby Syndrome is almost always caused by non-accidental trauma (child abuse). It is caused by an angry or frustrated parent or caregiver who shakes a baby in response to persistent crying. Many times they do not intend to harm the baby.
In rare instances this injury may be caused accidentally by actions such as tossing the baby in the air or jogging with a baby in a backpack. It does not result from gentle bouncing or play.
While to actually cause harm it doesn't have to be violent shaking that is mostly what causes it. Shaking makes the fragile brain bounce back and forth inside the skull and causes bruising, swelling, and bleeding, which can lead to permanent, severe brain damage or death.
What is it?
This is a severe form of head injury caused by violently shaking an infant or child. It usually occurs in children younger than 2 years old, but may be seen in children up to the age of 5. The violent shaking may result in severe injuries to the infant including permanent brain damage or death.
A baby's head is large and heavy in proportion to their body. For this reason, when a baby is dropped or thrown, he will tend to land on his head. There is space between the brain and skull to allow for growth and development. The baby's neck muscles and ligaments are weak and underdeveloped. All of these factors make infants highly vulnerable to whiplash forces.
When an infant or young toddler is shaken, the soft, pliable skull is not yet strong enough to absorb much of the force. The forces are thus transmitted to the brain, which then rebounds against the skull causing bruising of the brain (cerebral contusion), swelling, pressure, and bleeding (intracerebral hemorrhage).
The large veins along the outside of the brain are also vulnerable to tear with these injuries which can lead to further bleeding, swelling, and increased pressure (subdural hematoma). This can easily cause permanent, severe brain damage or death.
Shaking an infant or small child may also cause injuries to the neck and spine. Eye damage is very common and may result in loss of vision (retinal hemorrhage).
What causes it?
Shaken Baby Syndrome is almost always caused by non-accidental trauma (child abuse). It is caused by an angry or frustrated parent or caregiver who shakes a baby in response to persistent crying. Many times they do not intend to harm the baby.
In rare instances this injury may be caused accidentally by actions such as tossing the baby in the air or jogging with a baby in a backpack. It does not result from gentle bouncing or play.
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