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Q. I am 32 years old and 8 months pregnant with my first baby. I will be raising her on my own, and want to be the best mother I can be. I have read most of the books, researched a lot online, and still have many fears.
Any words of wisdom?
Any words of wisdom?
Answer
Congratulations! It seems you have done everything I have done when I had my son (now 5 y.o.) - books didn't help much⦠only gave me the basic idea on things. I did talk to parents online, there are message boards you can participate in and get advice from other parents.
Not everything that worked for others will work for you so it's best to keep an open mind, listen to your instincts and remember to rest physically and emotionally. If you can get any help of your friends to watch the baby so you could sleep - that will help you. I am still sleep deprived, five years later :).
If you happen to feel depressed after the delivery - a little baby blues are a normal thing as your hormones change, but if you feel the "blues" don't go away and starting to develop into a depression (lasting lets' say more than a month) - you may want to see a doctor and get her advice. I did get depressed after my son was born and it's hard caring for a baby when you're not feeling like doing anything at all...
People will tell you many, MANY things. Some will push their opinion onto you and some will make suggestions. It's best to keep an open mind. The way I looked at it - if this is something that my doctor tells me and I agree with it - that's the road I am going to take. If someone tells you smth outrageous and claims it works - use common sense and your best judgement. If ever in doubt - talking to other parents or a doctor [or both] usually provides enough useful information for you to make an educated decision.
Watch your budget - being a single mom can get tough financially. If you're planning on sending your child to day care - this can get a little pricey. What I learned from it - visit different day care centers, talk to teachers and ask questions. Walk through multiple rooms and review. If anything you don't like - move on to another center. And in my experience with childcare - you get what you pay for... Same goes for private babysitters and nannies â but I personally chose against hiring a nanny for safety reasons. I heard too many stories of abuse so I trust day care centers more because there is more structure there. And the day care center will be held accountable for every bump your child gets while in their care - so you know they will make sure to follow all the rules.
There's going to be lots of trial and error situations. As they say "it will get hard before it gets better" and with newborns it's very true. But even if you catch yourself thinking: "this will never end, I'll be stuck to this baby forever with no time for me" - no, you won't be. It's true that you will be glued to this child for the first year most likely and it will be hard to find time for yourself... But it's only until the baby starts walking, talking and etc... As the times goes by you will be getting your personal time back.
I agree with someone who said this earlier â take lots of pictures!
Wishing you the best of luck!
Ok, and here is the list of things I could not live without. Links are for information only â I am in no way soliciting any particular products, this is just a list of things I had and found they did work (for me). Maybe you will find it helpful.
- Vibrating bouncer with ocean sounds
http://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-Ocean-Wonders-Aquarium-Bouncer/dp/B000324Y7U
- Simethicone drops (Mylicon) which I added to my son's formula or gave by mouth (he had colic and these drops did majic to him)
http://www.medicinenet.com/simethicone_drops-oral/article.htm
-Tiny Love symphony-in-motion mobile
http://www.amazon.com/Tiny-Love-Symphony-Motion-Mobile/dp/B00067ELGG/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=baby-products&qid=1216408151&sr=1-2
- Enfamil formula (highly recommend if you choose to use formula).
- Gap backpack instead of a regular "diaper bag". I loved it - it looks great, not like a diaper bag, very roomy inside, convenient and the best thing - you throw it on your back, pick up the baby and off you go. Very easy.
(I tried to find a link but they don't sell them anymore...It used to be in "Diaper Bags" section on Gap website...)
- Dr. Brown baby bottles. They do work.
http://www.amazon.com/Dr-Browns-Natural-Flow-Bottle/dp/B00005BYUR
- Baby Einsten videos â my son loved them all!
http://babyeinstein.com/en/
Congratulations! It seems you have done everything I have done when I had my son (now 5 y.o.) - books didn't help much⦠only gave me the basic idea on things. I did talk to parents online, there are message boards you can participate in and get advice from other parents.
Not everything that worked for others will work for you so it's best to keep an open mind, listen to your instincts and remember to rest physically and emotionally. If you can get any help of your friends to watch the baby so you could sleep - that will help you. I am still sleep deprived, five years later :).
If you happen to feel depressed after the delivery - a little baby blues are a normal thing as your hormones change, but if you feel the "blues" don't go away and starting to develop into a depression (lasting lets' say more than a month) - you may want to see a doctor and get her advice. I did get depressed after my son was born and it's hard caring for a baby when you're not feeling like doing anything at all...
People will tell you many, MANY things. Some will push their opinion onto you and some will make suggestions. It's best to keep an open mind. The way I looked at it - if this is something that my doctor tells me and I agree with it - that's the road I am going to take. If someone tells you smth outrageous and claims it works - use common sense and your best judgement. If ever in doubt - talking to other parents or a doctor [or both] usually provides enough useful information for you to make an educated decision.
Watch your budget - being a single mom can get tough financially. If you're planning on sending your child to day care - this can get a little pricey. What I learned from it - visit different day care centers, talk to teachers and ask questions. Walk through multiple rooms and review. If anything you don't like - move on to another center. And in my experience with childcare - you get what you pay for... Same goes for private babysitters and nannies â but I personally chose against hiring a nanny for safety reasons. I heard too many stories of abuse so I trust day care centers more because there is more structure there. And the day care center will be held accountable for every bump your child gets while in their care - so you know they will make sure to follow all the rules.
There's going to be lots of trial and error situations. As they say "it will get hard before it gets better" and with newborns it's very true. But even if you catch yourself thinking: "this will never end, I'll be stuck to this baby forever with no time for me" - no, you won't be. It's true that you will be glued to this child for the first year most likely and it will be hard to find time for yourself... But it's only until the baby starts walking, talking and etc... As the times goes by you will be getting your personal time back.
I agree with someone who said this earlier â take lots of pictures!
Wishing you the best of luck!
Ok, and here is the list of things I could not live without. Links are for information only â I am in no way soliciting any particular products, this is just a list of things I had and found they did work (for me). Maybe you will find it helpful.
- Vibrating bouncer with ocean sounds
http://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-Ocean-Wonders-Aquarium-Bouncer/dp/B000324Y7U
- Simethicone drops (Mylicon) which I added to my son's formula or gave by mouth (he had colic and these drops did majic to him)
http://www.medicinenet.com/simethicone_drops-oral/article.htm
-Tiny Love symphony-in-motion mobile
http://www.amazon.com/Tiny-Love-Symphony-Motion-Mobile/dp/B00067ELGG/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=baby-products&qid=1216408151&sr=1-2
- Enfamil formula (highly recommend if you choose to use formula).
- Gap backpack instead of a regular "diaper bag". I loved it - it looks great, not like a diaper bag, very roomy inside, convenient and the best thing - you throw it on your back, pick up the baby and off you go. Very easy.
(I tried to find a link but they don't sell them anymore...It used to be in "Diaper Bags" section on Gap website...)
- Dr. Brown baby bottles. They do work.
http://www.amazon.com/Dr-Browns-Natural-Flow-Bottle/dp/B00005BYUR
- Baby Einsten videos â my son loved them all!
http://babyeinstein.com/en/
who know what happend on the last episode of gossip girl, one tree hill, and 90120? (10 pts)?
Badly add!
i missed all of this and i need sum 1 to fill me in quick
Answer
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Season 2, Episode 25: The Goodbye Gossip Girl
Original Air Dateâ17 May 2009
Gossip Girl decides to liven things up at the Constance Billard and St. Jude's graduation by sending out a shocking and damaging email blast in the midst of the commencement ceremony, stirring Serena to come up with a plan of attack. The Mean Girls; Nelly, Isabel, Penelope, etc, challenge Jenny to throw her hat in the ring to succeed Blair as Queen Bee next year. Meanwhile, Lily and Rufus finally makes amends meet and get engaged and move in together. With Blair's blessing, Jenny becomes the new queen. Chuck finally admits his love to Blair and the two reconcile. As the summer draws near, Nate decides to go on the backpacking trip with Vanessa. Georgina returns to town having recovered/re-stole all of Dan's money, and she also requests Blair for a roommate at NYU. Carter Baizen also shows up and reveals to Serena where her biological father is. In the end, Serena is going to Brown, Blair, Dan, Vanessa, and Georgina are going to NYU, and Nate is going uptown to Columbia, and Lily and Rufus' illegitimate son, Scott, inconspicuously arrives in town for college and to shadow Dan.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0397442/episodes#season-2
Lucas (Chad Michael Murray) carries pregnant and bleeding Peyton (Hilarie Burton) into the ER still in her wedding dress with blood all over his tuxedo shirt. Brooke (Sophia Bush) walks into her store to find her mother, who has just met Julian (Austin Nichols) and he has told her that someday Brooke will love him back. Haley (Bethany Joy Gallieotti) wakes up to an empty bed missing Nathan (James Lafferty) and suddenly we see Lucas washing the blood off his hands and looking into the procedure room as Peyton is being operated on. Slowly Haley, Nathan, Brooke and finally Julian are there in the observation room waiting with Lucas. We see Peyton's eyes flutter open and then she is injected and given an oxygen mask and a sheet is placed over her face. Lucas goes home with the baby girl who has not been named yet and spends the next four days at Peyton's bedside making her rootbeer floats.
Mia (Kate Voegle) recieves the copies of her new album and tells Chase (Stephen Colletti) that she can't be happy about it without Peyton around. Chase says Peyton's hardcore and she will pull through. Julian finds Brooke outside the hospital and tells her to go home and sleep and she says ":I can't, I have to be here when she wakes up" and he hands her a bag and says he knew she would say that and he bought her every fashion magazine he could find. Lucas is making more root beer floats and saying to Peyton he needs her and that their beautiful baby girl doesn't have a name yet and she says "Sawyer" and wakes up. They name the baby Sawyer Brooke Scott. Karen (Moira Kelly) comes into the room after Brooke says "you're about to meet your new best girl" and is carrying Sawyer.
Nathan returns to the Chiefs and finds all of his stuff gone, leading him to think he got fired, when really he has been called to the NBA to play for the Charleston Wildcats which Mouth (Lee Norris) gets to announce on the t.v. first. Millie decides to stay in Tree hill with Mouth. Victoria gives Brooke the entire company of clothes over bros and Brooke hires her on as someone to work in new york. She tells Brooke she loves her and is sorry for being a bad mom. She tells her to go after Julian and Brooke flies to LA and finds him on a movie set and tells him she is ready to love him back and he says if this was a movie she would kiss him and she says no if this was a movie i would tell you i love you and then kiss you.
During all of this Dan (Paul Johanson) has been sulking around whining about how bad he feels and tries to get Whitey to kill him and asks to hold Sawyer and keeps apologizing to everyone. All the characters are shown together doing the things they want to be doing like Nathan playing his first game (he chooses number 12 to honor Quentin) and Peyton and Lucas getting in the car with Sawyer and Mouth about to give his news broadcast voice overs telling us to be who we want to be and believe in dreams coming true. The last scene is Peyton, Lucas and Sawyer driving the Comet out of tree hill and a shot of the river court.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1406735/synopsis
Season 1, Episode 24: One Party Can Ruin Your Whole Summer
Original Air Dateâ19 May 2009
Adrianna and Navid are forced to make an impromptu exit from the prom when Adrianna goes into labor and is rushed to the hospital with Navid at her side, while Brenda Walsh also shows up at the hospital to lend emotional support as Adrianna's labor gets more difficult. In defiance of Harry's orders not to throw any post-prom party, Naomi and Liam decide to throw one in Jen's house, which she does not approve of. There
If any of the text is cut off, go to links at bottom of post for a full read.
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Season 2, Episode 25: The Goodbye Gossip Girl
Original Air Dateâ17 May 2009
Gossip Girl decides to liven things up at the Constance Billard and St. Jude's graduation by sending out a shocking and damaging email blast in the midst of the commencement ceremony, stirring Serena to come up with a plan of attack. The Mean Girls; Nelly, Isabel, Penelope, etc, challenge Jenny to throw her hat in the ring to succeed Blair as Queen Bee next year. Meanwhile, Lily and Rufus finally makes amends meet and get engaged and move in together. With Blair's blessing, Jenny becomes the new queen. Chuck finally admits his love to Blair and the two reconcile. As the summer draws near, Nate decides to go on the backpacking trip with Vanessa. Georgina returns to town having recovered/re-stole all of Dan's money, and she also requests Blair for a roommate at NYU. Carter Baizen also shows up and reveals to Serena where her biological father is. In the end, Serena is going to Brown, Blair, Dan, Vanessa, and Georgina are going to NYU, and Nate is going uptown to Columbia, and Lily and Rufus' illegitimate son, Scott, inconspicuously arrives in town for college and to shadow Dan.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0397442/episodes#season-2
Lucas (Chad Michael Murray) carries pregnant and bleeding Peyton (Hilarie Burton) into the ER still in her wedding dress with blood all over his tuxedo shirt. Brooke (Sophia Bush) walks into her store to find her mother, who has just met Julian (Austin Nichols) and he has told her that someday Brooke will love him back. Haley (Bethany Joy Gallieotti) wakes up to an empty bed missing Nathan (James Lafferty) and suddenly we see Lucas washing the blood off his hands and looking into the procedure room as Peyton is being operated on. Slowly Haley, Nathan, Brooke and finally Julian are there in the observation room waiting with Lucas. We see Peyton's eyes flutter open and then she is injected and given an oxygen mask and a sheet is placed over her face. Lucas goes home with the baby girl who has not been named yet and spends the next four days at Peyton's bedside making her rootbeer floats.
Mia (Kate Voegle) recieves the copies of her new album and tells Chase (Stephen Colletti) that she can't be happy about it without Peyton around. Chase says Peyton's hardcore and she will pull through. Julian finds Brooke outside the hospital and tells her to go home and sleep and she says ":I can't, I have to be here when she wakes up" and he hands her a bag and says he knew she would say that and he bought her every fashion magazine he could find. Lucas is making more root beer floats and saying to Peyton he needs her and that their beautiful baby girl doesn't have a name yet and she says "Sawyer" and wakes up. They name the baby Sawyer Brooke Scott. Karen (Moira Kelly) comes into the room after Brooke says "you're about to meet your new best girl" and is carrying Sawyer.
Nathan returns to the Chiefs and finds all of his stuff gone, leading him to think he got fired, when really he has been called to the NBA to play for the Charleston Wildcats which Mouth (Lee Norris) gets to announce on the t.v. first. Millie decides to stay in Tree hill with Mouth. Victoria gives Brooke the entire company of clothes over bros and Brooke hires her on as someone to work in new york. She tells Brooke she loves her and is sorry for being a bad mom. She tells her to go after Julian and Brooke flies to LA and finds him on a movie set and tells him she is ready to love him back and he says if this was a movie she would kiss him and she says no if this was a movie i would tell you i love you and then kiss you.
During all of this Dan (Paul Johanson) has been sulking around whining about how bad he feels and tries to get Whitey to kill him and asks to hold Sawyer and keeps apologizing to everyone. All the characters are shown together doing the things they want to be doing like Nathan playing his first game (he chooses number 12 to honor Quentin) and Peyton and Lucas getting in the car with Sawyer and Mouth about to give his news broadcast voice overs telling us to be who we want to be and believe in dreams coming true. The last scene is Peyton, Lucas and Sawyer driving the Comet out of tree hill and a shot of the river court.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1406735/synopsis
Season 1, Episode 24: One Party Can Ruin Your Whole Summer
Original Air Dateâ19 May 2009
Adrianna and Navid are forced to make an impromptu exit from the prom when Adrianna goes into labor and is rushed to the hospital with Navid at her side, while Brenda Walsh also shows up at the hospital to lend emotional support as Adrianna's labor gets more difficult. In defiance of Harry's orders not to throw any post-prom party, Naomi and Liam decide to throw one in Jen's house, which she does not approve of. There
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