pawys1111
Does any one know where i can buy a harness for my five yr old for when we are in busy places.
I got one of the monkey backpack ones but just takes it off when he wants too.
Thanks
I dont see how putting him in a stroller will help him to learn to walk next to me.
And i dont beleive there is anything wrong with using a harness i like to keep my child safe thank you. With two children the harness was the best thing i have ever used it keeps him safe i know where he is and he likes it too. Just that he can take it off when he feels like it is the problem.
There like a seat belt in a car you might not need it but one day you will and can save his life.
Thanks for your comments and links but i think the ones shown are ment for smallet children and with the chest clip at the front he can still see it to undo it. And some are just velcro i can see that lasting 5 mins. I was hoping for something at the back of him.
I cant beleive people say becuase a child has a harness there treated like a animal. There a child they are still learning right from wrong do and dont.
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I use harnesses but I don't like them. I have to use them because I have a seizure disorder and I don't want them running off if I have a seizure (yes the thought of them being tethered to their seizing mother haunts me). The problem with getting a better harness is that you make a better escape artist. I saw a really good one at Toys R Us with a chest clip. I would also try "Stay with me training". Taking small trips without a purpose (don't tell him that) to teach him the rules. Going to the library without the harness and if he steps out of sight, it is straight home and into time out. If he doesn't hold your hand through the parking lot, straight home and into time out. Three little trips a week and I bet the harness is just a precaution before you know it. (If he removes the harness, straight home and into time out.)
He will be going to school soon and needs to build some personal responsibility for his own safety. Make sure that you have hard fast rules that you can write down about going out in public and that the basics don't change (do not leave my side, do not talk to someone without me, do not touch anything, do not eat anything, always hold onto mom (mom's coat, the shopping cart) when in or near a road or parking lot, etc)
It is hard to do, but ultimately your FIRST job is to teach the boy to be a man. Teach the boy to protect himself, not just keep the boy protected.
I use harnesses but I don't like them. I have to use them because I have a seizure disorder and I don't want them running off if I have a seizure (yes the thought of them being tethered to their seizing mother haunts me). The problem with getting a better harness is that you make a better escape artist. I saw a really good one at Toys R Us with a chest clip. I would also try "Stay with me training". Taking small trips without a purpose (don't tell him that) to teach him the rules. Going to the library without the harness and if he steps out of sight, it is straight home and into time out. If he doesn't hold your hand through the parking lot, straight home and into time out. Three little trips a week and I bet the harness is just a precaution before you know it. (If he removes the harness, straight home and into time out.)
He will be going to school soon and needs to build some personal responsibility for his own safety. Make sure that you have hard fast rules that you can write down about going out in public and that the basics don't change (do not leave my side, do not talk to someone without me, do not touch anything, do not eat anything, always hold onto mom (mom's coat, the shopping cart) when in or near a road or parking lot, etc)
It is hard to do, but ultimately your FIRST job is to teach the boy to be a man. Teach the boy to protect himself, not just keep the boy protected.
Parents... What is your opinion on Child Safety Harness (Backpack w/connecting strap)?
Angiebaby
I'm just trying to get opinions on Child Safety Harnesses (backpacks w/connecting strap)
Bad or Good? What do you think?
Thanks!
I'm not sure if I want to use one or not. My 15 month old daughter doesnt like her stroller much. She wants to walk, but as toddlers tend to do, she walks away. Serious answers only please.
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We use the backpack "Minnie Mouse" harness with my daughter and she loves it..although we have only had to use it twice, once when we went to the zoo and another time at a fair...both were crowded places. I don't use ours on a daily basis or in places like the grocery store, at home, etc. but in crowded places where she is likely to want to walk around out of her stroller seeing as how were at those places for long hours I use it. She won't really hold our hands just yet and after a minute or two she starts to drag her feet or she resists to walk with us, but with the harness we don't have a problem. I don't see any harm in them what so ever..if your child will walk with you and hold your had without a problem, then that is great and you probably don't need one, but all kids are different, so parents who are quick to judge or make comments like "just hold the kids hand", need to realize not all kids are like theirs and some do resist..like mine. I would rather see a person have a child with a harness on then to see them dragging their kid by the arm or hand if he or she is refusing to walk..that looks worse to me. I don't get the whole "dog" comparison to child harnesses either. Leashes are attached to a collar that is worn around the neck....this is a backpack, so I don't agree with that argument. We harness young kids into everything...car seats, strollers, high chairs, etc. so what is the difference. Someone could be just as quick to say that putting a child in a crib is treating them like a dog as well, because it resembles a cage to keep them confined...when really we know that its all about safety, so if it keeps the kid safe and he or she doesn't mind it, I don't know why others have to make a big deal out of it.
We use our stroller always when on long trips or when an outing requires a lot of walking and our daughter is mostly in her stroller, but in crowded places like the time we went to the zoo, we spent 6 hours there (it was a big zoo), so my question is...would you want to sit for 6 hours straight and not be able to get out some and walk around..considering my kid won't hold our hands..so I use the harness in that instance and I will continue to use it. Hand holding is great if your kid cooperates, I agree, and yes, to someone who said "how many children do you know that have been hit by a car when holding their parents hand?", I know one....she was an almost 2 year old who got loose from her mom's hand and ran into the road..she was hit by a car and killed instantly. Do whatever works for you as a parent, whether it be by using a child harness for your child or by simply holding your child's hand, its all about safety anyway, that is the real aspect of the matter, so I really don't know why some make it a point to judge a parent on how they restrain their child....I say mind their own business, raise their child the way they want and leave others alone, ....its none of their concern. There is far worse in this world than a parent using a harness to restrain their child...at least they do have safety as a concern, they wouldn't be using it if they didn't. I'd be more concerned about the parent that lets their child run around like a chicken with its head cut off.....now that something to worry about.
We use the backpack "Minnie Mouse" harness with my daughter and she loves it..although we have only had to use it twice, once when we went to the zoo and another time at a fair...both were crowded places. I don't use ours on a daily basis or in places like the grocery store, at home, etc. but in crowded places where she is likely to want to walk around out of her stroller seeing as how were at those places for long hours I use it. She won't really hold our hands just yet and after a minute or two she starts to drag her feet or she resists to walk with us, but with the harness we don't have a problem. I don't see any harm in them what so ever..if your child will walk with you and hold your had without a problem, then that is great and you probably don't need one, but all kids are different, so parents who are quick to judge or make comments like "just hold the kids hand", need to realize not all kids are like theirs and some do resist..like mine. I would rather see a person have a child with a harness on then to see them dragging their kid by the arm or hand if he or she is refusing to walk..that looks worse to me. I don't get the whole "dog" comparison to child harnesses either. Leashes are attached to a collar that is worn around the neck....this is a backpack, so I don't agree with that argument. We harness young kids into everything...car seats, strollers, high chairs, etc. so what is the difference. Someone could be just as quick to say that putting a child in a crib is treating them like a dog as well, because it resembles a cage to keep them confined...when really we know that its all about safety, so if it keeps the kid safe and he or she doesn't mind it, I don't know why others have to make a big deal out of it.
We use our stroller always when on long trips or when an outing requires a lot of walking and our daughter is mostly in her stroller, but in crowded places like the time we went to the zoo, we spent 6 hours there (it was a big zoo), so my question is...would you want to sit for 6 hours straight and not be able to get out some and walk around..considering my kid won't hold our hands..so I use the harness in that instance and I will continue to use it. Hand holding is great if your kid cooperates, I agree, and yes, to someone who said "how many children do you know that have been hit by a car when holding their parents hand?", I know one....she was an almost 2 year old who got loose from her mom's hand and ran into the road..she was hit by a car and killed instantly. Do whatever works for you as a parent, whether it be by using a child harness for your child or by simply holding your child's hand, its all about safety anyway, that is the real aspect of the matter, so I really don't know why some make it a point to judge a parent on how they restrain their child....I say mind their own business, raise their child the way they want and leave others alone, ....its none of their concern. There is far worse in this world than a parent using a harness to restrain their child...at least they do have safety as a concern, they wouldn't be using it if they didn't. I'd be more concerned about the parent that lets their child run around like a chicken with its head cut off.....now that something to worry about.
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