Nacho Much
I know how this might sound (by me being a teenager and all) but my mom is ruining my life. I know that lots of teenage girls say this but she really is ruining my life. 7 Years ago she met my stepdad and she snuck off and married him without me knowing, then she got pregnant and didn't decide to tell me about it until she was 5 months...I know that some people might think that it was none of my business but my mom and I were very close and we told each other everything. Well fast forward a few years she is madly in love with my stepdad and she is kinda like his slave...she did everything for him and he did nothing...he barely helps us do anything like taking care of my little sister (which I have practically raised her) or helping us clean up... my mom wanted me to just kiss his butt...then he started doing music with his friends and then he convinces her that he's gonna get this record deal...so of course my mom goes along with it (I didn't and I tried to warn her) so she packs us up and moves us down to Atlanta...now he is flat broke and all of his so called "musically talented" friends hate him and they all left him...so now I'm 17 stuck in a place that I don't wanna be, no car, no money, no friends (like I had before), I get harassed at this school down here...(I was handcuffed for not letting a guy at my school take my backpack and rip it) and now the same guy is harassing me every day...I really blame my mom for how my life is now but I don't want to hurt her feelings...I mean my cousin who's the same age as me had a baby at 14 and even she's living happier and doing more of the things that I wanna do. I just feel so depressed and I feel its my mom's fault...I mean she's let this random guy just come in and put my life on hold...I'm so confused and I think I'm losing my mind by being stuck in the house all the time with nothing to do but "study"...what advice can anyone give me for my situation?
Please no mean or rude comments...and I can't get therapy or counseling
Answer
It took me almost 35 years to figure out how to answer this question. When you wake up every morning, you have two choices. You choice to either be happy or sad. I now chose to be happy.
People sense your unhappiness at school. Start walking around with a smile on your face and see how many new friends you will have.
As a parent, there is NOTHING that I would do to purposefully hurt or make my children unhappy. I believe that your mom is the same. A honest discussion with your mom about your situation is needed. Please make a list to help you with your discussion points. Prioritize what you want to talk about. Maybe only talk to her about the top two priorities. Try to keep blame to a minimum.
Best of luck.
It took me almost 35 years to figure out how to answer this question. When you wake up every morning, you have two choices. You choice to either be happy or sad. I now chose to be happy.
People sense your unhappiness at school. Start walking around with a smile on your face and see how many new friends you will have.
As a parent, there is NOTHING that I would do to purposefully hurt or make my children unhappy. I believe that your mom is the same. A honest discussion with your mom about your situation is needed. Please make a list to help you with your discussion points. Prioritize what you want to talk about. Maybe only talk to her about the top two priorities. Try to keep blame to a minimum.
Best of luck.
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